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How can I get my hair to be really sweet like that? Kind of like Jason Dolley's from Cory in the House...

Thanks.

btw: 16/m (link)
First, you need straight hair. It doesn't matter about color though. I bet you knew that! LOL. Anyways, all you need to do is grow you hair. I'm not an expert of hair especially the opposite gender, but it should work out!


15/M There is this girl who i know used to like me a lot. Im not sure if she still does. I never thought i had feelings for her before, but now i realize i do... a lot. I was annoying when i talked to her a couple days ago, and now she wont pick up when i call her. Do you think i still have a chance with her or shld i give it up?i havnt called/txtd/ or IMed her for like 2 days now, when would be the right time to approach her and how shld i do it. (link)
It's possible that she understands that you don't like her and she stops returning your calls and everything. It's also possible she's having a hard week and she doesn't feel like talking.
To resolve this question in a fashionable way, go to her house and ring the doorbell. Hopefully, she will be there. Talk to her in person and ask her whats wrong. Tell her how you feel and just open it. If she doesn't like you, at least you told her how you feel. There's a chance that she still likes you. It takes a long time for a girl to stop liking a boy...at least months! It took me months. :P
Good Luck!


13/f, Me and my boyfriend were talking on the phone last night and then i just randomly said, do you like another girl? Then he HUNG up!!, then i tried calling him the next morning and never got a hold of him so i messaged him saying do you like another girl or not? Then he messaged me back saying i cant believe you thought i liked susie[exgirlfriend]!! And then he goes. i guess its over then. the thing is i dont want it to be over, we have been going out for 7 months and im scared to loose him, what do i say to tell him i dont want it to be over?

THANKS :D (link)
You need to sit down with him and have a serious talk. If he wants to play childish games by ignoring you thats on him and he is not worth it. If he refuses to talk to you, move on and forget about him. It isn't that easy trust me I know but there are plenty more fish in the sea.

Good Luck!!!


15/m
my girlfriend wants me to finger her, but i have no idea how. can someone explain it, someone with experience and preferably a guy? and please don't lecture me that i'll regret it or tell me to google it.

thanks a lot (link)
I wouldn't dare lecture you, fingering isn't much of a big deal in my eyes. But copy and paste this link, they have some nice techniques:

http://sexinfo101.com/pw_fingeringtechniques.shtml


Hey... I recently subscribed to a particular porn site... unknowing that the trial membership becomes a full membership after 3 days and they bill you like $40... >_<

Anyways, I need help as how to cancel it. I've tried everything and it just won't work. I used a Debit card, and entered it in as a credit card.. I'm not sure if that was a good idea. When I cancel it, it asks me what pay service i used to pay for the account. I didn't use any pay service! I payed right on the site... Bleh.

Anyways, could someone please help me out? The site is (Deleted Don't post link to porn here.)

>_> (link)
heeeyyyyyy

u just go to like the same page you get at wen you put ur name an pass like you was makin a new one and where it got CC stuff there is a thing at the bottome says billin support clike that! like call ur bank or somethin if you have2

https://www.billingsupport.com/index.html


ive always liked my best friend as more than a friend but now i think that maybe i never did really like him. maybe i just dont understand my feelings for him. ive never had a guy that loves me so much and who i love so much as a friend so maybe i dont really like him, you know?
anyways last night he went to the movies with his parents and used these movie passes he had, and i thought he wanted to go to the movies with me. so i got mad all of a sudden and was like "i hate you". he doesnt know how i feel about him and right now neither do i. a few days ago on the phone he hung up on me and it made me sad. hes the most important person in my life but somehow he keeps hurting me and its not his fault. i know he just wants to be friends. what should i do? can someone help me with my feelings too? thanx (link)
Hi,
I think you two need to have a serious talk. You need to sit him down and explain to him all of your feeling. Tell him how much it hurts you when he hangs up on you, etc. Maybe he will understand you a little bit more the key in any relationship is communication. Some people just aren't meant to be, but I really hope you guys work it out and understand each other a little bit more.


Good Luck!



ok well im bestfriends with this one guy.. and we went out before and stuff and i was his 1st kiss n stuff and basically i still have a place in my heart for him and every1 said he probably does too. ok well weve been texting and stuff and he always says he that im beautiful or gorgoues and sometimes what hed like to do to me. but he also told me that i should break up with my bf cause id have a lot of guys come after me and he wont tell me who he likes.. so im confused please help! sorry this is long (link)
Hey,
He totally has a thing for you! "he also told me that i should break up with my bf cause id have a lot of guys come after me" that says it right there he's sort of hinting that he has a thing for you. Maybe he's shy and doesn't want to go all out and tell you. The other problem is your boyfriend!! You need to decide who means more to you.

I WISH YOU THE BEST!!!!!!


I want to enter one of those "Win a Date with a Celebrty" things, and if I win (haha yeaa I know the chances are extremely lowww), I wouldn't know what to talk about. Like, we don't know any of the same people, sooo what's there to talk about? (link)
Hey,
You could talk about the amazing movies, albums or whatever they did in there career. People like to talk about themselves. Just be relaxed, don't act like a stalker, they are normal people too! Don't ask too many personal questions. I don't really know what else to say I've never had a real conversation with a celeb.

Good Luck!!!!



ok
so i finally got up the courage to ask this girl i've known for a while out, and she said yes!

so we're gonna go see a movie next weekend- she had to babysit all day friday and i left town for the weekend friday afternoon- and now i just am not realy sure what i should do...i think we're going to see the new Harry Potter film...but what do i do? do i put my arm around her? do i hold her hand? do i buy her ticket? i'm kinda confused...i don't have a whole lot of experience with the whole dating thing- i've only ever had one girlfriend before and she was kidna a slut and did whatever- but this girl's not like that, she's beautiful and has an amazing personality...
so what do i do? my brother keeps telling me i'm past the hard part (asking her out)...now i'm just worried i'll screw up on the first date...
thanks
S
btw 15/m and she's 15 (link)
Hello,
Congrats on the new girlfriend! I would buy her ticket if it's not too much of a problem because how awkward would it be if you both showed up at the movies and she didn't have any money to get in [it also make you look better]!? Just relax don't be all nervous because some people tend to act weird. When you are sitting at the movie theater when it starts tell her something like "I'm really glad that you came with me tonight you look _____" what ever describing word you like to use [beautiful, pretty, amazing, etc.] Girls love it when guys complement them!! When you feel the time is right take her hand but if you notice her hand isn't closer to you than her that's a sign not to! DON'T put your arm around her many girls find that uncomfortable! Relax, be yourself and it will be okay. If the night doesn't go so well it wasn't meant to be and there are more fish in the sea.


Good Luck I Wish You The Best!!!


How can I be more comfortable talking to people...? It's almost like there's two sides of me; the quiet side, and the never-shuts-up side. I guess I sort of run out of things to say, even around my friends, and then I end up not saying anything at all...

I know that most of you would just say "Be yourself", and I try to, but that still doesn't help at all with my problem.

Please help me, any advice will do. Thanks in advance. (link)
Talk about things that you like I'm sure many people have some of the same interests as you. By being yourself you can share your interests and be open about them. Try not to be shy meet friends that you have more in common with. It not like you will always have something to talk about but there are a lot of topics you can talk about so just keep bring up things. I can understand where you are coming from but all you can do is talk to people and let your other side come through.


=]
Good Luck I wish you the best.


ok well im 5'3 and im 13/f and i weigh 122 pounds. I want to weigh 103 and i have about 1 1/2 months to do it. is that possible? also what are some excerises you can do at home that will decreses your fat in your buns, abs, thighs, ect. if you dont have any excerise equipment. picutures would be awesome if you could find some. thanks in advance. (link)
Hello,

First off you are fine the way you are. You are normal weight. Weighing 103 pounds being 5'3 is considered underweight and dangerous. It is EXTREMELY unhealthy to loose that much weight in such a short period of time. If you want to shed pounds then eat healthy, do Cardio exercises like running, dancing, etc. For at home things you could run up and down stairs, crunches, sit ups, squats, etc. I would try buying a Pilates or Yoga DVD because they work the majority of your muscles.

Good Luck!


17/f 145 lbs 163 cm

I finally got registered at a gym (after weeks like wowww) and I was wondering how long I should be spending there, 3 days a week, and if I can push it, 4 days. If it's any help, I want to lose atleast 15 lbs by the end of summer (20 is preferred). (link)
Hello,
Well you should start off NOT going as frequently because you need to give your body time to recover after your workout. This meaning you're going to be sore then next day and you don't want to pull muscle or any other things that could damage your body. I would suggest 3 days a week to start off but if you do that go Monday, Wednesday, Friday skip ever other day. When you start to build muscle and after a days workout you don't feel tired or sore then you maybe able to push it and make it more. I suggest if you want to do more through a little bit of Cardio in between the days like Tuesday, and Thursday. About looking 15 pounds before summers over, that is NOT likely. It is UNHEALTHY to loose that much weight in such a short period of time. All I can tell you with that one is do your workout routine and eat healthy. You will shed the pounds it may seem like a slow process when your doing it but you will loose the weight if you do what I said.


I Wish You The Best of Luck!



Hey! I hear this term a lot, but I never really understood what it meant. Anyways, let me get to the point:

what exactly does it mean to hook up with somebody???

Thanks : (link)
it my school, it means making out with someone that your not going out with "kelly and ryan hooked up at that party last night"
in college though, it tends to mean having sexx


im 14 years old and barley a 32A =[ . im going to highschool this year but i want to have a figure. i work out and im getting toned and stuff but still i just dont have boobs. its really anoying me. i mean im not like those girls who stuff or anything and i dont think i would ever stuff. =|
is there anyway i can grow my boobs.?
i dont know about stuffing cuz even if i didnt i would only do it a little.. but i dont know if thats a good idea. and pills. hm. i dont know about those either. i mean do they work or like okay for me or what?
so yeah anything on how to make them grow or apear bigggger. if you know anything about the pills or anything tell me too =]


&& please dont say that i shouldnt care what others think (because its hard not to) and im just 14 and they'll grow because there not grow alot over the summer.

thanks =] (link)
hey

okay, whoever said wear a "push-up bra" won't make your boobs grow bigger... that was your original question.

whatever boobs you have, massage them everynight. i swear. massage them for like 5 minutes a day and they will get bigger. idk by how much, but for sure.



do you know if you can wear A&F flip flops into the water? is it water resistant like the ones in Old Navy? it feels very comfortable! (link)
hey

you CAN wearing them into the water, but like the person under me said, they are pretty expensive for flip flops cause obviously they are ABERCROMBIE & FITCH so if you don't wanna take them off cause you're afraid someone is going to steal them, you'll lose them, whatever, then just wear them. but i've had a&f flip flops for i think a few months and i usually wear them once or twice a week [not including during the winter]. i live in new jersey, so in like, three months you could say the polka dots started to ... well come off. so now it looks reallyy weird.

if you really like the flip flops, i definitely suggest NOT wearing them into the water.

if you got them on sale & they are comfortable, once is okay.



Alright, so I'm 15 and I've never had sex or anything. When me and my boyfriend are together sometimes he fingers me.. and every single time he does, I bleed. I was just wondering if this was normal or if there is something wrong with me.. I know its probably normal to bleed the first time, but what about every time? I really need help.. please answer with your best knowlegde.. I'll rate high I promissse (link)
Your boyfriend is probably being to rough with it. Ask him to calm it down a bit. Are his nails a bit long? That may have something to do with it as well. I myself have never bled during fingering, if it continues you may want to consult a doctor.


is it bad to have just met a guy, and it was the second time we hung out at his house, and he fingered me and i gave him a hj? does that make me seem easy or slutty?
thanks for any help!=) (link)
from my point of view, you seem slutty and easy. but the thing is ive never met you
like if you did this with lots of other guys, that would make you a slut, but since you didnt say if youve done that i can't judge you =]


I need your help deciding what the ideal menu for a public dinner would be.

Not knowing what would be the best dishes to serve is making this an impossible task.

If you will tell me your favorite foods, or point me to your favorite recipes, it would really help a lot.

You can list as many things as you like. They don't have to be fancy things at all. I am all about the comfort food baby! :)

This will be a mixed group of people so I would like to have something for everyone.

Cooking for a banquet is not as hard as trying to figure out WHAT to cook!

Everyone will receive feedback.

Thank you!

P.S. If all that was a lot to digest, pun intended, here is a summary: Please list all your favorite foods. (link)
CHICKEN FINGERS!!!!
pizza
macoroni

icecream/brownies/desert



:D


how can i get my body to be leaner?? i am very athletic and lift weights alot...what can i do to have muscle and be very strong but not bulky, instead lean??? (link)
You can't be a great strength trainer with lean muscle, I can't remember why, but do some research. It's the same reason why Arnold cant bench half a ton. You need to pick either looks, or strenght. There is a middle however, but you won't look like those guys in the magazines.


Hey. Does anyone know what song they use in the ABC family's comercial for the new show Greek?

I saw the bottom left corner, and I think it said it was by the plain white tee's but I'm not sure.

help?! (link)
there are 2 diffrent ones...the one that the show most often that goes oh oh oh ohh is "its our time now" (it says it in the bottom corner)
and the other one is "hey there delilah"
both are by the plain white t's.


hope i helped :D

(please rate!)




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