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I bleed everytime my boyfriend fingers me..
Alright, so I'm 15 and I've never had sex or anything. When me and my boyfriend are together sometimes he fingers me.. and every single time he does, I bleed. I was just wondering if this was normal or if there is something wrong with me.. I know its probably normal to bleed the first time, but what about every time? I really need help.. please answer with your best knowlegde.. I'll rate high I promissse<3
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he might be fingering you to hard or too far up.
you're a virgin and you bleed yes the first time you have sex and most girls the first time they are fingered it's normal.. you're just tight.. it'll go away eventually, just give it time.
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My best guess would be his finger nails or he's doing it to roughly etc, or he hasn't 'broken' your hymen fully so he keeps stretching it causing bleeding. But still, i'd get it checked out because you may need an internal examination..If you're too embarrassed to go through that maybe email your problem to an online doctor or a health line.
I hope it's all okay:)
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I'm thinking he's being rough about. Even if you don't think he is, it's still a sensitive place. Tell him to be gentle and to go slower. He probably cut you a little and you bled every time because it's not healing. Does he have long ish fingernails? Make sure he cuts them so he doesn't hurt you with em. If you have done this and you're still bleeding, go see a doctor to see what's up.
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Your boyfriend is probably being to rough with it. Ask him to calm it down a bit. Are his nails a bit long? That may have something to do with it as well. I myself have never bled during fingering, if it continues you may want to consult a doctor.
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this shouldnt be happening everytime he fingers you. the only two things i could think of are that he is either doing it to hard or fast, and needs to go softer or slower, or his nails are too long. maybe tell him to be a little softer and to cut his nails, and see if that works. if it doesnt, you may want to look into seeing a gyno to check out the problem. take a break form being fingered for a week or two so if there is any cuts inside from his nails or something, they can heal, becuase if there are cuts and he keeps fingering you without giving you a chance to heal, he will just re-open them again, and that could be why you bleed everytime.
good luck and be safe!
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Hey , He might be too aggressive!
Tell him that he should go softer.
and Its totally normal.
Have fun
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well it can be that maybe he aint doing it right.
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