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so i finally got up the courage to ask this girl i've known for a while out, and she said yes!
so we're gonna go see a movie next weekend- she had to babysit all day friday and i left town for the weekend friday afternoon- and now i just am not realy sure what i should do...i think we're going to see the new Harry Potter film...but what do i do? do i put my arm around her? do i hold her hand? do i buy her ticket? i'm kinda confused...i don't have a whole lot of experience with the whole dating thing- i've only ever had one girlfriend before and she was kidna a slut and did whatever- but this girl's not like that, she's beautiful and has an amazing personality...
so what do i do? my brother keeps telling me i'm past the hard part (asking her out)...now i'm just worried i'll screw up on the first date...
thanks
S
btw 15/m and she's 15
KellyHappy answered Sunday July 8 2007, 3:38 pm: well, i think you should definatly buy her ticket for her, cause you dont wanna seem cheap.
also, when your in the movie, maybe put your arm around her.
i think you should do that cheesy yawn and stretch thing, cause its really cute, it would probably make her giggle.
after the movie, if you two get teh chance to walk around, maybe while your walking, you could slip your hand into hers, i think that would be really cute anyways.
Jessica13 answered Sunday July 8 2007, 2:29 pm: well lets see ok you should probley put your arm around her or do what she thinks will be most comfortable hey you never know she could be the one to make the first move
about the buying the ticket thing well i personally don't like guys buying me stuff but this girl might what you to buy her ticket since you are the one that asked her to the movies in the first place
just don't go without money
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orphans answered Sunday July 8 2007, 1:55 pm: Hello,
Congrats on the new girlfriend! I would buy her ticket if it's not too much of a problem because how awkward would it be if you both showed up at the movies and she didn't have any money to get in [it also make you look better]!? Just relax don't be all nervous because some people tend to act weird. When you are sitting at the movie theater when it starts tell her something like "I'm really glad that you came with me tonight you look _____" what ever describing word you like to use [beautiful, pretty, amazing, etc.] Girls love it when guys complement them!! When you feel the time is right take her hand but if you notice her hand isn't closer to you than her that's a sign not to! DON'T put your arm around her many girls find that uncomfortable! Relax, be yourself and it will be okay. If the night doesn't go so well it wasn't meant to be and there are more fish in the sea.
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