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I have a friend who is gay. I'm a female, just for reference, and he is obvioulsy male. The thing is, I really really like him. A lot. He's never had a girlfriend, never liked a girl, never done anything with a girl, or anything like that. Is there a way that I can possibly turn him bi without going too far with him? (link)
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If he is gay and admits it then he isn't interested in girls. Don't put your friend in the position of having to turn you down. Accept him as he is. Anything else is just asking to be hurt. :)
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hey well im 18 and one night me and my boyfriend of 5 years were having sex and the condom broke and i got pregnant. i honestly dont know what to do. im only 3 months and im not showing yet but what do i do when i start to show. i mean im in collage but i dont know like are people going to talk about me and what should i do.
also i havent told my boyfriend yet im scared of what hell say. please help. thanks in advanced. (link)
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You need to tell your boyfriend and of course your parents. You will be showing within the next month or so.
I see no reason for you not to continue with school if you want to. These days it isn't such a big deal
as it once was.
Tell your boyfriend first. See what you guys want to do about the whole thing. :)
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Hey iam 17 years old and i just got a puppy for my b-day last week and he cries every night and my mom just had to go and put his cage outside my bedroom window and her cries are so loud that it keeps me up at night and I practically fall asleep in school what should I do? (link)
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Ah, she misses her brothers and sisters is all. She is used to cuddling up with them all and sleeping.
I have heard that an wind up clock helps id put in with them.
The best thing though would be to put a hot water bottle or any bottle with a tight lid filled with hot water, tucked in under a blanket. She will think she is with her family and go right to sleep all warm and cozy. :)
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i have a problem with my weight. my mother works from 3pm-11pm, so that leaves dinner up to my dad. My dad can't cook. He can only barbeque, and make chicken cutlets...and pasta. So every night we either have something barbequed [like hamburgers, hot dogs, etc.] or pizza or fast food. I have high cholesteral and I'm supposed to be trying to get it down since it's very high, but I can't do it with the way my dad "cooks". I do have a treadmill and I try to run a mile whenever I can fit in, but I do have school and other activities so it's hard to exercise everyday. What could I do to help bring down my cholesteral and lose some weight [or gain some muscle, either way] when I have to eat this food? I'm 13 by the way, so I can't exactly cook myself.
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This may not work but it is worth trying.
Talk to your mom and ask her if you and her might spend some time cooking on her days off. Make a list of what you want to eat for the week, shop and cook.
Most things are just as good if not better when heated up. Microwaves make it easy for one your age to do. You will have all your food for the week ready and waiting.
Since your mom would be spending one of her days off doing this be sure that you help her out. Let her know you will help too. Wash some dishes or whatever
you can do to help. :)
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if anyone has had mono how long did it take for you to start recieving symptons? and what we're the first symptoms you had.
i'll rate please help (link)
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Here is a website that has the symptoms listed plus lots of other info on mono. :)
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/infections/common/mononucleosis.html
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I think my granny might have ocd becouse whenever she sees a bed unmade she has to go make it it just bothers her,she freaks out if there's a piece of lint on my nightgown is that ocd? (link)
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I think if granny had an OCD it would have been caught before now.
She is probably just a neat freak. My granny was the same way. It probably has more to do with how she was raised. :)
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me and my boyfriend are worried that i might be pregant. because when we were making out we rubed up against each other but he didn't go in me and i haven't started my period yet and we were wondering if i could get pregant from doing that? (link)
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I don't think you have anything to worry about. So long as he didn't go in you you are not pregnant.
Here is a website that has lots of good information on it for you. Pass it on to your boyfriend so he can read it too. Learn all you can about sex and all that goes along with it before your relationship goes further. It has info on birth control and all kinds of things. :)
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Thanks for your input. So are you a nurse or what? I read that you have some experience like that. Just to let you know, I am not a stupid guy, I just like to be completely in control of my life. That instance kinda scared me. A lot of the worries I thought up in my own mind, but I still wanted to be sure. You said you were reading up and you couldn't find any instances where HIV was spread from condom breakage. I didn't know that. Thanks again, you have helped me greatly with your inputs. (link)
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I am an EMT. I have worked as a medical assistant at
a doctors office as well.
I could tell by your writing that you were not a stupid guy. These things happen and can be very scary. I'd be worried if you hadn't been. :)
Glad to have been a help in some small way.
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So I talked to the girl and asked her if I have anything to worry about, and she said no. I also asked her about her history and she said that it has only been 2 guys and one was a really long time ago, which was only one time. I want to just clear my mind of any of this worry. Do you think based on the original incident I described to you, and the call made to her, along with no weird symptoms over the last week, I can just put this whole thing to rest? What is your reasoning on your answer. Thanks again. I just want to be sure. I don't usually put myself in these stupid situations. (link)
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I have been reading on HIV....since that it is the big one you don't want to get. I cannot find any instances where it was contracted by condom breakage.
I suppose it can be compared to a nurse getting a
needle stick from an HIV patient. Could happen but is very rare that it does.
She has told you her history and I am sure she has used protection in the past as you have. I think if I were you I would put it behind you.
Just always use protection in the future (as I am sure you will!). But maybe try and get some sexual history on the lady before things get out of hand.
I know its a real uncomfortable topic to bring up,
but I think you would both feel better knowing up
front. :)
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my friend had un protected sex with her boyfriend. she says they lasted around 15 mins and he cummed. shes really scared so i decided to help her and i want to know what is the chance shes pregnant? (and no this question isnt for me because im waiting for marriage to have sex) (link)
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Chances of her being pregnant are very good. How long it takes does not matter at all. It only takes a minute.
Unprotected sex causes pregnancy. She should watch for symptoms (I will give you a site)and if she gets any of the symptoms she will have to tell her mom and see a doctor.
http://www.coolnurse.com/pregnancy.htm
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How do I keep my yahoo messanger from coming up automatically when I turn on the computer.popups also come on the screen as soon as the computer comes on how do I keep that from happening thankyou. (link)
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Go to your start menu.
Click on "run"
Type in msconfig
Gp to startup
Take the checkmark out of yahoo messenger.
You may have to restart your computer before it takes
effect. :)
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omg my best friend might be pregnant wuts the pregnancy symptoms for someone a little over 2 weeks (link)
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There probably isn't a whole lot of symptoms at only 2 weeks. Here is a site that tells you what to watch for.
http://www.coolnurse.com/pregnancy.htm
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my friend told me that she had to go to the gyno and they stuck their finger in the hole!? isn't that fingering the patient? and wouldn't it be kind of awkward if the gyno is a guy its like your boyfriend fingering you.. um ew and isnt it going to kill if you've never been fingered before? i mean whats the deal on this crap?? (link)
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Its a long way from fingering the patient. Here is a site that tells you exactly what happens and why.
It is awkward no matter if the doctor is male or femle. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/pelvic_exams.htm
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I'm a 17 year old male and I've been seeing this girl (20 female) for a while, and she's really cool. She's really easy to talk to and I just generally enjoy being with her. We had a conversation about smoking and drinking (both of which I am vehemently opposed to) and she told me that she never smokes OR drinks, which was a huge part of my attraction to her.
I found out though, through her telling me, that she was at a party and had a few drinks, and smoked a couple of cigarettes... Now I don't know what to say, because I want to tell her how I feel about that (I don't associate myself with people that don't respect themselves enough to avoid things like this) but we're not really going steady or anything like that, so would it be weird for me to express my feelings towards a subject, or is it not my place? (link)
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If the subject should come up I think you should mention it.
I also think you probably should just forget dating her if you feel that strongly about those things. She has shown, as most will I'm afraid, that she is not as committed to a healthy lifestyle as you are. :)
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Okay i just started taking birth control pills this previous month, and im on the period pills now..and they are just like reminder pills that dont have any hormones i know that.. but my period started like 2 pills early, so if my period ends should i start on the next month the first day i dont have my period so im taking pills with hormones in, or should i keep taking my reminder pills until they are all? (link)
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Just continue taking them in the order they are given. They straighten themselves out. Don't skip to the hormone containing pills early or anything just take them all. :)
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hi iam from india my age 20 my gfs age is also 20 we both had sex yesterday night but i removed my pennis before evacuation it was my gfs 6th day after mensuration does it lead her to pregnancy i thik pennis was wet (link)
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Anytime you have unprotected sex you risk pregnancy.
Pulling out rarely works correctly and pre-ejaculation contains sperm as well. So there is still a small chance for pregnancy. :)
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Alright. Well i'm 14 and my mom thinks I had sex. She's taking me to the gynocologist, and I am very nervous. She said all girls go though. What exactly do they do? Thanks! (link)
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Here is a website for you that will tell you exactly what goes on. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/pelvic_exams.htm
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Thanks for the advice on the previous question I had asked you regarding the chances of pregnancy with a broken condom incident. I don't know if you remember the exact scenario, but what would you say the chances are of an STD during that short period of time before a condom was replaced. I know there "is always a chance", but give me a realistic idea. Thanks (link)
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STD might be a different ballgame. It would probably depend on the STD. I will give you a link to a list of symptoms to watch for. Hopefully if she has been around she has used protection. Most people do these days. You wouldn't be out of line if you asked her about it. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/std.htm
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heyy yg! well okay theres this guy and i think i really really like him alot.. well anyway alot of my friends think that he likes me.. but im not sure he does.. well acouple days ago my mom picked me up from skool and he was screamign outa the bus heyy!! and waving to me!... and then today in our class he was calling me stupid but he was joking around and i said look whos talkin and we were just joking around and then we were fighting over a book.. but it was kind of like flirting , and he always stares at me and stuff but he loooooves to annoy me well anyway do you think that he likes me ? im 15/f and so is he! =]] thankss !!♥ (link)
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Well sometimes guys do act kind of weird when they are flirting. It sounds to me as if he definitely likes you. Is always trying to get your attention somehow. I think its a safe bet that he does like you. :)
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okay this might sound like a weird question, but could you get aids from period blood?? you coming into someone elses blood is a bit of a weird topic, like lets say you were in the bathroom, didnt notice, etc. im just wondering because a few girls were talking about it. also, they say "fluids" can affect you. what exactly do they mean by that??
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By fluids they mean blood, saliva, discharge, semen
any kind of fluid your body puts out.
So, to answer your question yes, any blood at all can pass the AIDs virus. :)
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