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hey well im 18 and one night me and my boyfriend of 5 years were having sex and the condom broke and i got pregnant. i honestly dont know what to do. im only 3 months and im not showing yet but what do i do when i start to show. i mean im in collage but i dont know like are people going to talk about me and what should i do.
also i havent told my boyfriend yet im scared of what hell say. please help. thanks in advanced.
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I suggest telling your boyfriend about this. I don't think he's going to freak out about it, so there is no reason to be scared. I mean, he was your boyfriend for 5 years, so obviously you guys care about each other tons. He's not going to freak out at you because you're pregnant. He might be a little scared, but that's completely fine. Just sit him down and talk to him about this. Figure out what you're going to do and how you're going to go about this pregnancy.
Once you guys have everything out in the open and you talked about everything. Then, I suggest telling your parents. They're going to have to know you can't hide this from them forever. In another month you'll be showing, so I suggest telling them as soon as you can. Of course they're going to be mad and such at first. I mean, what parent wouldn't be? They'll be alright with it in time, I promise you.
I know it's going to be hard. But, if your boyfriend is by your side through out everything, you'll be in good hands. And if your parents really love and care about you, they'll be there for you, too. I'm sure the baby will have a wonderful family. ♥
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your boyfriends 5 years old??....... wow!!!
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I would suggest telling your boyfriend and your parents now before a belly starts to show, cause I think they'll start to notice, haha. And it's better to let them know now then later. Even though you're scared of what they'll say, they really do need to know. Most girls are usually worried of how thier parents and boyfriends'll react whenever they find out their pregnant.
As for college, continue going. I mean, there's no reason you should stop and you shouldn't if you want to keep a good steady job to help support your baby in the future. Well, people might talk, but they shouldn't. I mean come on, they're in college. If they do, they're immature, and just ignore what they say.
Good luck with telling them, and I hope I helped.
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You need to tell your boyfriend and of course your parents. You will be showing within the next month or so.
I see no reason for you not to continue with school if you want to. These days it isn't such a big deal
as it once was.
Tell your boyfriend first. See what you guys want to do about the whole thing. :)
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