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He's gay.


Question Posted Friday September 1 2006, 8:05 pm

I have a friend who is gay. I'm a female, just for reference, and he is obvioulsy male. The thing is, I really really like him. A lot. He's never had a girlfriend, never liked a girl, never done anything with a girl, or anything like that. Is there a way that I can possibly turn him bi without going too far with him?

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queenhearts answered Saturday September 2 2006, 1:52 pm:
There's nothing you can do. If feels the way he does. There's a chance he may be confused and he may consider himself bi, but right now... it's just not the right time.

You have to try to get over him. If you try to get with him, your friendship might be ruined. A friendship is better than nothing at all.

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orphans answered Saturday September 2 2006, 8:57 am:
you cant turn him bi. he feels the way he feels. thats like someone saying to you or me, "hey turn gay 'cuase i like you and im gay" no one can change the way ssomeone else feels about people

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MelLeDisko answered Friday September 1 2006, 11:13 pm:
There's no way you can "turn" someone bisexual. You're friend is homosexual, and you'll just have to accept it. I'm sorry, I'm not trying to sound harsh, but unless he decides he likes both girls and boys, you can't make him bisexual. I hope I helped.

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hannahd answered Friday September 1 2006, 10:09 pm:
Accept it. He's gay. What would you do if one your [girl] friends hit on you & forced something on you knowing you liked boys? You can't force anything on anyone.

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karenR answered Friday September 1 2006, 10:00 pm:
If he is gay and admits it then he isn't interested in girls. Don't put your friend in the position of having to turn you down. Accept him as he is. Anything else is just asking to be hurt. :)

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