about

I'm Almedina. I'm foreign, and I'm pretty much ready to handle whatever life throws at me. Ha, pretty random that I go from being foreign to life,but anyways. I've had this column for about two yearsnow, and I don't update it as I should, or want to but with school and this crazy teenage life of mine, it gets pretty hard to do so. I've been giving advice to all my friends since I can remember and I love trying to help them. I'm out going and extrememly loud once you get to know me. I'm usually shy at first unless I've gotten to know you. I don't understand life sometimes. But I've got my whole life to figure out the meaning of it. I'm selfish at times, and stubborn. I care too much about things I shouldn't and not enough about the MOST important things in my life. I'm very annoyed with people at times, and tend to just block everyone out. I'm afraid to say I'm in love, but I'm not afraid of love itself. I'm myself and that's all I can be. I've gone through a lot, so I'm willing to help in whatever way I can (:

advice

okay i have a verizon cell phone and i have a year and a half left of the plan. i wanna get rid of it and get a new cell phone (cingular or t-mobile) but it costs $179 to cancel the verizon plan. should i cancel my plan, or should i just wait until my plan ends to get a new cell phone?

umm well if i were yu id wait! because around that amount prize is how much yur gonna have to pay again for a new fone and other charges! i say stick with yur plan right now!! and if yu choose to get a new fone get it from t*mobile because i have t*mobile right now and its so much better than what i used to have which was cingular! hOpe ii helped xO

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were can you find really cute bedsets for a teenage girl? ((bedsets as in comforters?)) please help!

well yu can find them usually anywhere dependiinq on how much yu want to spend! some good stores would be walmart target marshalls jcpenny sears famous barr dillards bed room stores l0l! usually where ever they sell house stuff yu mite find cute bedspreads!! hOpe ii helped xO

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hey. my best friend moved last year, well during the summer of 8th grafe to high school, and well we haven't talked much. i text-ed her yesterday and we just texted each other back and forth for a little bit. i wanna ask her to come over and maybe hang out cause its spring break and all but i don't know what to do. can anyone give me any ideas? she's really preppy and her dad is the president of the school board and she's very riche she moved very far away and i want her visit to mean something! i rate well! :) Thanks in advance!

well.. since shes really preppy! maybe go together shoppiinq! and then after that have her spend the nite because yu guys live so far away! watch some movies! have a girls night out l0l!! if she has other friiends that live by yu maybe yu can have like a cute lil slumber party !! l0l!! hehe those would be fun and yu would spend a lot of time talkiinq about things! hOpe ii helped xO!

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people always copy me. and i might sound conceided but it is really annoying. for example i like to do things that noone else does so i started saying "thats so rad" instead of cool. and then everyone else did it. and i started wearing these beads. and like my whole grade did it. it is so annoying and everytime i find something i like, someone goes and takes it. what can i do?

well hun when someone copiies yu it means they like yur sense of stylE! people think itsz cool! and they probably dont know that it bothers yu ! :\ try talkiinq to some people about it!! they just wanna be co0l like yu!! hehe hOpe ii helped xO

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Ok...I am content with my body except this little pouch of fat or something on my inner thighs..its the only thing that bothers me really..im pretty active, i walk and exercise about every day or every other day and play ports and was in track, and i try to eat fairly healthy. soo anything i can do to get rid of this? i'll rate high...!

well there are different work out techniqes for thinner thights.. i guess if yu ran a lil more each day yu can get rid of that fat! and doiinq crunches really does help!! hOpe ii helped! xO

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Hi Umm ya i have been dating my girlfriend for a year and 3 months now and the other day we were talkin about sex!?! well i 14 and so is she but we realli like each other! the thing is that i have a 7 inch dick and it not circumsized. do u think girls care if a guys dick is circumsized. i need advice very soon thanks. Answer good and i rate good!!!!

well.. ok yur 14 and yur talkiinq about sex! wow great here comes more trouble for everyone else! what are yu doiinq talkiinq about sex so early! l0l .. well if yur gonna do it USE protection! anywaysz i dont think a girl would care.. if yu need more info/advice just IM me! yu know the sn hOpe ii helped xO

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ok i have this boyfriend and his soo awesome! we have been daten for 2weeks and we had sex last night! i've been "talking" with him since feb. but sometimes i feel like he doesn't care about me that much! and his always kind of mad at me..but i know his not cuz he got kicked outta his house 2weeks ago and he has to find a place to stay like everynight so it's not like i can talk to him...but he is pretty good about calling me and letten me know where he is staying at...that is if theres a phone around! but for some reason i'm so worried about him..i'm always woundering where is at and what his doing and who his with...he graduated last yr and i'm only in 10th...so when i'm at school that is when i worry...he has the friend that i don't like to much but yet his cool i don't like my boyfriend hanging out with him because i don't trust my boyfriend with him my boyfriend knows that i don't i like him with him...because i feel like his going to cheat on me when he is with his friend! i just don't know what to do about out relationship...cuz i do like him alot ((like not love)) and he gave me a promise braclett promiseing that he would never hurt me!!
i'll rate!

ok hun first of all.. what is yur questiion.. ok maybe this is it but i dont really know.. so dont get me all wrong.. ok well if dont love him why would yu worry so much about him!? i mean i dont get why he would get kicked out of his house and all.. but yu have ever instinct [[cant spell l0l]] to be worried about him cheatiinq on yu! i mean i would be too! but if yur worriinq too much! he mite! so just chill! if he really cares about yu! he wont cheat.. and not just him.. everyguy if they really care about a girl they wont cheat on them same for girls.. hOpe ii helped xO

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my friend is depressed. she always tells me her problems and itold her to get therapy bcuz it helps and ive been through it. but after i tell her this she always says "see thats why i cant count on you. you never help me with my problems" she always makes me feel so guilty. How can i help her?

well first of all.. when a friiend asks yu to help her out.. telliinq her to go to theraphy is wrong.. its like yur sayiinq yur going crazii go to therapy!!! hunnie listen to her! talk to her if yu have been thru it help her like yur thearpist helped yu!! im not tryiinq to be mean! but just talk to her! hOpe ii helped

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dont earase this....
under "Get Advice" on the left side of the screen at the very bottom were it says
"chat room(1)" What is that? is it a chat room were you talk? how do you use it? yes, i am a person who gives advice if i need to be!
but some times the number in () changes like earlier it was 3 and yesturday it was a 5. wat does that mean also?

it just means thats how many people are in that chat room.. ] its nothinq really.. there arent many ppl in those chat rooms anywaysz.. hOpe ii helped xO

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When I'm out buying blank CDs to burn on my CD burner, is there any real difference between plain ol' blank CDs and those "music" CDs? I mean, they have "Music" on the labels and they're more expensive, but I was wondering if that was all just marketing or if music CDs were really different.

they are all the same! its just that some look better and are more expensive! its just advertisinq! ii mean if yu want expensive ones then buy those it makes no difference! hOpe ii helped

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ok well theres this guy and i think he is really cute and he likes me alot. well ive known him fot half of my life and hes like a brother to me. he keeps on askin me if i would go out with him and then i dont wamt to say no but i do and at the same time i want to say yes to him. i dont no what i should do plz HELP me

i will rate 5's to any 1 who awenswers

well hunnie.. if yu lyke him go out with him! if yu dont like him its better if yu tell him i just dont like yu that way yur too close to me!! but i think i know why yu dont wanna say yes.. because yur afraid if yu guys break up it will ruin yur friiendship because yur so close.. ya i know how yu fe3L.. just talk to him about it!! tell him that yu dont want things to get ruined .. yu know! hOpe ii helped!!

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so i REALLY wanna be a freshman cheerleader but the problem is when i get in front of the judges i like freeze up and forget stuff like last year i messed up on my cheer and wasn't very loud cuz i was like omg judges so does anyone know how i could get over my fear of the judges?

just imagine yur at yur house practiciinq it helps if yu dont look at the judges! yu mite want to close yur eyes but watch out where yu are going!!] l0l!! ii hope yu make it tho!! just imagine that they arent even there!! hOpe ii helped xO

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i have this friend and yu kno her..we were good friends..at least i thought..we got out of skl 4 spring break and we were like all hangin out and stuff but then like twards the end or middle she strts like ignoring me and we would hang out but this 1 gurl that we r friends wit she has to be ont he fne wit her WHILE IM OVER! and then she is like just talkin to her.. ..and then when im over she is inviting her over b/c im boaring or w/e..and she doesnt treat me good..1 time she called me up and asked me if i wante to go to the mall wit her and i said yeah and then she Im's me and says o0o sry my mom said that i already promise that gurl.. and i was liek ok and now she like ditches me..or she uses me while that gurl cant go anywere her...:( i dono wat to do be friends or stay away??

ok well this is very confusiinq but ill try my best...] ok well what it se3ms like to me is that yur friiend that yu hung out with is usiinq yu because if she only calls yu when that other girl isnt around then why is she even yur friiend.. thats rude.. but some people are just like that i mean i guess you should talk to your friend about it and see what she says because i mean this is got to do with her. yu cant just say we cant be friends anymore with out a reason get it? but yea i hope yu dont have to say that yu guys cant be friiends because i think yu can work it out.. but i mean i have friiends who are like that and i guess we stopped talkiinq and im actually feeliinq less more stressed out about it.. i guess takiinq chances and risks like loosiinq a friend is worth it.. because in the end maybe yull end up beiinq friends again! if yu need some more advice just IM me.. i guess it mite be easier if yu do.. yu know my screen name so yea.. hOpe ii helped xO [ aLmA ` * -

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wats a actual good quote site not quote crz or preius angelz

well actually i like quote craze/ hellz angels and precious creationsz i thiink thei quotes are very good and cute! i dont really go to any other ones.. sorry i couldnt helped much. xO

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what is a prep?

i alreadii answered this questiion.. but if yu dont see it then.. i guess ill explain again
*a prep is a person who loves to wear brite colors and not like black goth colors [[ l0l ]] a prep would aslo be a person who goes to stores like hOllisTer] aerOpOstale] abercrOmbie] americAN eagLe] and more stores like that.. a prep is usually popular.. and yea if yu need more info just im me on my sn ShOrTnSeXiALmAo9 hOpe ii helped xO

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i was haveing sex with my hunny and it was the frist time with him and i screamed hes best friends name he noticed but i said i was so sorry but we just coutined a rough intercorse and hes good in bed ill metion.. but then he hasent called sence what should i do i really like him and his best friend i like his friend more but he gives me better sex please help me alma

ok well.. thats weird.. i dont see why you would say someone elses name but ok then well if you like yur b*f now just for sex then wtf dont use him yud get all freakiinq pissed if yu knew he used yu! so yea guys do have feelinqs if yu like his friend break up with him and go out with other friend dont use yur current boyfriend! not beiinq rude! im sorry but all i can tell yu is yu gotta make up yur mind sw3etie.. gotta only have one! hOpe ii helped xO

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My friends and I are doing a project in science, and they won't listen to anything I have to say! Whenever I have a good idea, they won't listen to it, and if they do, someone always says that for some reason, it won't work. I'm not a control freak or anything, i just wish that they would listen to me! 13/f, if that helps at all.

well talk to your friiends about it! tell them it bothers yu.. take sOME control! it seems like they control yur life! :/!! just talk to them about it! xO

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Hey. I'm in the 7th grade, and for my grade in math for the 3rd quarter, I know I got a 87.45% B+. Can that be rounded to an A?

well since all yu need it 3 % ii think if you try your best yu can get an A- or even higher! hehe just keep tryiinq and yull make it an A! hOpe ii helped! xO

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i just bought certain dri last night and i put it on and my armpits started tinglinng and itching and first but then they stopped... is this normal/ok?

well since yu just started usinq this certain dri deodorant then you should just be fine! just dont put too much on! that might irritate your skin even more! hOpe ii helped a lil bit xO

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My mom is the biggest blabbermouth of all time. She can't keep her secrets to herself. She can't keep MY secrets to herself. She tells everyone the details about my life. She humiliates me infront of everyone. She makes up lies to exaggerate the truth. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stop telling her things? I can't stand the way my life is out there and availible to anyone that wants to hear about it.

you should definatley talk to your mom about this! if something was botheriinq your mom about you dont yu think she would want yu to know so yu can stop? well just talk to your mom tell her you dont like how she blabbers stuff and if she doesnt stop.. just stop teliinq her yur secrects! hOpe ii helped xo

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