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his so confusing
ok i have this boyfriend and his soo awesome! we have been daten for 2weeks and we had sex last night! i've been "talking" with him since feb. but sometimes i feel like he doesn't care about me that much! and his always kind of mad at me..but i know his not cuz he got kicked outta his house 2weeks ago and he has to find a place to stay like everynight so it's not like i can talk to him...but he is pretty good about calling me and letten me know where he is staying at...that is if theres a phone around! but for some reason i'm so worried about him..i'm always woundering where is at and what his doing and who his with...he graduated last yr and i'm only in 10th...so when i'm at school that is when i worry...he has the friend that i don't like to much but yet his cool i don't like my boyfriend hanging out with him because i don't trust my boyfriend with him my boyfriend knows that i don't i like him with him...because i feel like his going to cheat on me when he is with his friend! i just don't know what to do about out relationship...cuz i do like him alot ((like not love)) and he gave me a promise braclett promiseing that he would never hurt me!!
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You're right, he probably doesn't care about you. I know it hurts to hear, but it's the truth. The only reason why he was with you was to get sex, because, older guys normally aren't interested in younger girls unless A) they intelectually challenge them, which doesn't seem to be the case or B) They know that the little girl is impressionable and they'll get laid.
Plus, this guy doesn't really seem to be much of a winner, if you know what I mean. You should probably get rid of this guy as he'll end up being a huge burden for you, and will cause you bigger troubles in the future.
Good luck.
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"we have been daten for 2weeks and we had sex last night". There's your problem. Need I say more? I will anyway:that's not a long enough period to know somebody before you have sex with them. It's kinda slutty. Problem 2:"he graduated last yr and i'm only in 10th" grade I'm assuming.A guy isn't gunna date a younger girl so they can watch Disney movies,he was using you for free sex. You're young and look up to him b/c he's older. Problem 3: "i don't trust my boyfriend" Why is that? Because you know he doesn't really care about you. It's nothing personal;guys are like that. If I were doing what hes doing, this is why I'd do it.
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ok, i'll be the bad guy again.here goes for what it's worth.
If you feel someone doesn't care for you why on earth do you sleep with him? Have a little self respect, okay. You know the risks you are talking for a guy who you feel doesn't care for you? AIDS for one is a LIFE SENTENCE girl!
Why did he get kicked out of house? Could it be he is irresponsible? And that is the LEAST Horrible reason I can come up with.
He hangs out with people you don't like. Someone who evidently has the power to lead him astray?
Bracelets don't mean anything.The smartest thing is to get out of this relationship now before you really get hurt.
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well that promise braclet had to mean somthing if he went out of his way and bought it for you so all i can say is that everytime u think hes cheating on you look at that bracelet and that should make you fell better!!
kris
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ok hun first of all.. what is yur questiion.. ok maybe this is it but i dont really know.. so dont get me all wrong.. ok well if dont love him why would yu worry so much about him!? i mean i dont get why he would get kicked out of his house and all.. but yu have ever instinct [[cant spell l0l]] to be worried about him cheatiinq on yu! i mean i would be too! but if yur worriinq too much! he mite! so just chill! if he really cares about yu! he wont cheat.. and not just him.. everyguy if they really care about a girl they wont cheat on them same for girls.. hOpe ii helped xO
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I am going to be blunt with you, and I don't care about the rating, because what I am about to say is going to be blunt and harsh.
Why would you sleep with a guy after only dating for two weeks? You said so yourself that you don't love him and that you feel like he doesn't care about you that much. If you have been having these feelings toward him, then why would you have sex with him? To please him? To make him happy? or To make him not be mad at you all of the time?
Right now, your boyfriend will not be able to show you the attention that you need because he has too much stress going on in his life right. First of all, he doesn't know where he will be staying from day-to-day. I am sure that takes more precedent then your feelings.
If you have to wonder about what he is doing and who he is with all of the time, then your relationship is all wrong.
You need to seriously reevaluate your relationship with this guy. There are too many ifs here. You are only in the 10th grade and you have too much stress on you. Whenever you get a chance to have a serious talk with your boyfriend, then you nee to ask him how he feels about you. Truthfully. And tell him exactly how you feel about him. Ask him what he is willing to contribute to the relationship. If he doesn't give you a good answer, then you need to let him go.
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i'll keep this quick. if its not love, then its nothing to worry about. you don't need to be in a relationship like that either where you just sit around and worry about eachother. you should be comfortable and able to trust him. find another man you can depend on.
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