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I would go to speak in spanish, but I dont know maybe no person speak spanish here, but I am searching for good pop spanish songs, with the good melody. Songs I like are like Coleccionista de canciones por Camila, enrique iglesias, reik, and good pop bands like similar above. Ok, thankyou.

I don't know many, but I can tell you one.

Juanes.

My mom loves him :P

http://www.juanes.net/


Hope it helped a bit :)

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I've worn eyeliner before like probably 4 times in my life..i bought this blue color and now it looks bad

i want to buy a black color..what's the best eyeliner for under 10 :] pencil kind because i can't do liquid because my hand is unsteady.

and maybe some tips for putting it on or a website that shows how

THANKS
i can take as many answers as you can give me

I recommend self sharpening ones when you first start using eyeliner.
I don't know why, but it made my life easier.


This is a good one:

http://www.harmondiscount.com/071249082133.html

Or otherwise, I suggest Gosh normal eyeliners. They're really good.
http://www.goshamericas.com/eye.asp


To apply eyeliner:
http://www.wikihow.com/Apply-Eyeliner

It's a good help site.
:)

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what is bug in spanish
thanks :]

Maybe this is it?

http://www.wordreference.com/es/translation.asp?tranword=bug&dict=enes&B10=Search

It is according to my Spanish friend (I don't know, I don't study Spanish)

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16/f
well i have that sort of emo/punk/skater look. i wanted to know where there were some cool T-shirts that i can get for a good price =)
thanks

Hot Topic:
http://www.hottopic.com

Grindstore:
http://www.grindstore.com

Red Haze
http://www.redhaze.com

Hope this helped :)

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I finally got tickets to see the show! (YAY) and i've been trying to find the complete song list for the tour.I've been searchign everywhere but no luck.I was wondering,does anyone know the complete song list,or where i could find it?

thanks in advance! :D

I found these:

http://www.imeem.com/soundtrackofyoursummer/forums/PUhySjGQ/giJRGDG6/soundtrack_of_your_summer_tour_2008_setlist/
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080709202433AAgAdE1

I hope they're right :)

Have fun!


*edit*

I found these by typing in google ''Soundtrack of your summer tour + setlist''
:)

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2 monthes ago I met a guy at a church activity. We hung out, talked and flirted, and I really started to like him. However the next time I saw him, he was holding another girls hand (his gf). I was really upset, but I still really liked this boy (we can call him Mark). He ended up dumping his gf a day after they started dating. I don't know why.... Anyways, I saw him again about a week ago. He came up real close and apologized for how he acted, we talked for a few minutes, but then he said he had to go. I have since been talking to him over the internet, and I want to know what to say to make him want to hang out, and maybe eventually date me. There is some hope that he may like me. My friends told me that he talks about me, or will bring me up, and when he looks at me, it feels like there is something more behind it i guess....

So, what should I do?
I am a Female, 16 year old

Get to know him, hang out with him.
Go to the park, or bowling, or just hang out someplace where you can talk and be relaxed with each other.
Movies are too intense though, can't talk there.

Once you know him better, flirt a little and see how he responds, and things will go from there.

He probably likes you, but he's shy about it and he just broke up with his girlfriend.

Ask him casually ''Hey do you want to go to the park? Or do something?'' if he likes you, he might be shy about it, but he will want to go out with you.


Good luck :)

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14/male
my parents gave me a curfew of 9:30 becouse she dosint like we out when shes asleep (shes hella fuckin old) how do i convince her to to give me an apropreate curfew thz is beging to effect my Social life my freinds r starting to call me momas boy and when its 9:30 my freinds will say hay james its time to go suck ur moms tits plz help i need a convincing agument

No offense, but your friends are assholes.

You could tell your parents that you'll be with other people, and you won't go to weird places.
Tell her that you will tell her the whereabouts of you, and if you change the area, you will text her.

There's not much you can do, since most parents are pretty strong on curfews, and because you live in their house, you have to obey their rules.

Don't yell at her, or get pissed off, that will get you nowhere.

Just be calm, explain to her that you're not 13 anymore, and also you want to spend more time with your friends,.

But the thing is that you're 14, so she can use that as a pretty strong argument against it.


Good luck.

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i am trying to chose if i school get a fox racing backpack or a METAL MULISHA backpack what do u think!

Hmm, I prefer Metal Mulisha.
But I don't know whether you're a guy or a girl, and what kind of things you're into.

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At how many months can a doctor tell the sex of a baby? Also at how many months do women normally start to show? An answer to those or a timeline for pregnancy would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

Maybe this will help you?
http://www.babyworld.co.uk/information/pregnancytimeline/timeline.asp

The bump will probably start to show around 3 months.

Oh, and a doctor can tell the sex of a baby 6 weeks into pregnancy.


Hope this helped :)

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well everyone tells me im too skinny
but i think im fat
i think i suck it in
ill try not to eat but i cant help it
but its like ill look in the mirror
and its like what i see is different than what everybody else does
im pretty sure their right
i looked up my weight for my height
and im normal
118=5'7

but idk its like everytime i look i just dont think i am
i feel like i should stop eating
but i wont
i just dont know what todo

Your weight is totally ok.
You need to stop seeing yourself in your own eyes, and see them in others.
It's ok to eat, if you don't binge.
See yourself as you and don't worry about your weight. Eat when you want to (but healthily) exercise every now and then, and you will be completely fine.

Try to focus on other parts of your body. Maybe your eyes or hair, how you could make yourself look better.

Don't think about your weight, and soon you will stop obsessing :)

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hi, i'm 14/f, and i live in boston. i play sports, a different one every season. i consider myself a popular girl, and i usually have a boyfriend. but recently, i have been doing some seriously dumb stuff. like 2 months ago i smoked weed for the first time with this really hot kid. then, a month ago, i got rly wasted but i got caught. my friends figured after my month long groundation i wouldnt be doing stuff like that anymore. i thought so to, until i woke up this morning and went downstairs. my brother and his best friend (both 16,) were rolling joints in the kitchen (both my parents at work) so my brothers friend kept telling my brother to let me smoke with them, even tho i didnt ask to. i ended up smoking a lotttt, and i got intensley baked. a half hour later, wen i was still super high, my friends mom picked me up to go shopping, and i think they could tell i was high. things were akward all day. now, i dont no what to say to them, i know their really disappointed, and i need to know how to make things right with them. thanks in advance..

Seriously, stop.
Before it gets worse.

Because you haven't done much before, at one point or another, you will get the temptation.

Luckily I had the temptation to try weed when I was 13. But I'm not into it, and I'm not going to smoke it again.

First of all, you should apologize to your friends mom. Tell her it was a stupid mistake, and you regret it (which you should) and it will never happen again.
And then your friends. You should apologize to them too. They are worried about you, they want the best for you. Let them know that you will be careful in the future, and not do stupid things like that again.

Tell your brother that you don't want to do weed, and he's got to stop doing it in the house.

Consider this, you're only 14. Do you want to mess up your future? Give up the alcohol and the weed, focus on spending time with your friends and family.
Don't so things because a hot guy was doing it, that's just stupid.
Sorry, but it is.

You don't need weed in your life, no one does. Drinking, yeah ok, but fourteen is too young. You're still growing, and you could screw up your system.

Be careful, and consider what you want to do with your life. You were grounded for a reason. :)

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I cant sleep during the night. My body wont let me sleep until 2. And i have no idea why. Im tired. My minds tired. But i just cant. i have to get up and babysit at 6am. So thats only 4 hours. Its makeing me sick. I cant think straigh or anything. I feel like im going to puke. My heads killing me. Like today i was babysitting. I kept falling asleep during the day. But once i tryed to sleep, i couldnt. My head started to hurt and everything. Please help. school starts soon. Also, im going to start taking sleep aids. But i dont want to become dependent on them. And i have no had sex no there no way this has to do with being preg. Btw, im 13/f. Please help.

I used to have the same problem about a year ago.
I was tired as s*it but just couldn't sleep until about 3am.
What I did was I drank a big glass of warm milk an hour before I got into bed.
During the day I was telling myself that I would try to get to sleep at 1am (I took it in small steps, not from 3am to 12pm).
I also didn't listen to music or watch tv for an hour and a half before I went into bed.
I tried to stay calm, relaxed and I was telling myself when I intended to fall asleep.

Try this, might work for you too.

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I have naturally curly frizzy out of control hair. I have become pretty good at styling hair for the simple fact that if I wasn't my hair would be nuts. My problem is that it takes a lot of time to do anything with my hair because to flat iron or curl it with a curling iron or hot curlers or anything i have to blow dry it relatively straight first or it won't work out. Does anyone know anyways to smooth out my hair permanently or in a more timely way so that it is ready to be styled?

You could always get it chemically relaxed.
It won't make your hair straight, but it will relax it.
It can be quite damaging though.

Otherwise I recommend John Frieda's Frizz Ease products.
Here are some examples:
http://www.boots.com/brandtreatment/product_details_brand_treatment.jsp?productid=1026155&classificationid=1042873
http://www.boots.com/brandtreatment/product_details_brand_treatment.jsp?productid=1068923&classificationid=1042873
http://www.boots.com/brandtreatment/product_details_brand_treatment.jsp?productid=1068925&classificationid=1042873
http://www.boots.com/brandtreatment/product_details_brand_treatment.jsp?productid=1083012&classificationid=1042873

Sorry it's an English site, but they should be at most drug stores, walmart etc.

You don't have to use all of them, just the shampoo and conditioner would help.
They work well.
I personally love the Hair Serum, since my hair is a bitch too :)

Oh, I also suggest that if you're planning to stay in the house for a day or whatever, just leave your hair, wash it, and leave it to dry naturally. It helps if you do it every now and then.

I hope this helped you :)

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okay so i just got my lip pierced today. how long should i wait to change it to a shorter bar ? how long before i can start putting a ring in ? i'm trying to hide it from my parents, and the faster it heals, the easier it will be, so is there any way to get it to heal faster ? thaaaanks.

Heal faster- don't mess with it.
Clean it twice a day, I recommend sea salt water. (Mix sea salt(big grains) with lukewarm water, so it tastes like tears.
Hold a cup of it against your lip piercing for 5 minutes in the morning and in the evening.

I have no idea how you're gonna hide it form your parents...they will most likely notice. I tried to hide mine, but in the end, my parents noticed it, and I messed up the piercing by always trying to hide it.

You can put in a shorter bar when the swelling has gone completely down. A ring, when it's healed.

The best thing to do is not to mess with it (i.e touch it with dirty hands, play with it) don't change rings constantly or take the bar out.

Be careful, good luck :)

Ask if you need any more information.

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Im a female/fourteen
and a close friend is moving away within the next few months. Weve only known each other for four years, but we really bring out the best in each other. We havent been as close lately and highschool changes soo much. I feel like our friendship is sort of..getting strained?
But no matter.
I want to get us matching promise rings for her birthday; for our friendship, secrecy, chastity, and religious dedication.
I dont want to have to put an order through a catelog or online.
So if there are any stores like walmart with something cute, casual, and cheap, please let me know, or should be old fashioned and make them? But I want something to last.
And how would I go about asking her ring size? I want to be discreet.
Thankyou!

Sorry, I can't help you about the first part.
But for the ring size, if she's wearing a ring, tell her you like it, and ask if you can try it on. Then compare it to your size.
Or ask her mom to find out for you, that could always work.

Sorry if it's not the best answer.

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ok so here's the deal... i like this guy in my grade and i see him everyday. I really like him and i don't even know him! i don't know if hes nice i don't know if he has a girlfriend and heck! i don't even know his last name... two qustions...

1.) is it bad to like somebody u have never met?

2.) What should i do?

1. It's not exactly bad to like someone that you don't know, but it can hurt you in the long run.
I keep thinking that it's not exactly like, since you don't know anything about him, I just think that you're attracted to his looks.

2. Talk to him. Get to know him. Otherwise nothing will ever progress, and you'll be sad.
If he has MySpace or Facebook, add him, and send him a short message. If he likes any movies, bands or in general, things that you do, start a conversation.
I got to know my current boyfriend by commenting him on MySpace saying ''Hey. Great to see someone who actually appreciates Dimmu Borigir (band)'' we got talking from there and voilĂ ! :D

Don't be too forward or full on, but defenetly try to get to know him. Be careful though. He might have a girlfriend, or his eye on another girl, so if you're flirting with him, and it turns out he has a girlfriend, it might get awkward.

Good luck. Ask if you need any more help :)

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does anyone know when the next harry potter is coming out in the usa?

21st November, 2008.

http://www.justfuckinggoogleit.com/

No offense, but this is something you could've found out yourself.

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can any body please tell me some songs for really very sad mood... like you have been ditched by somebody or you are fed up of your stupid kinda life...etc etc... but shud be really very emotional kind... am writing a few examples down here...
apologize- timbaland
kim-eminem
when i'm gone- eminem
cry me a river-timberlake
numb-linkinpark
lonely-akon
my happy ending-avril

i know they are quite old song but then if i knew any new ones then what was the need of coming here...

plz help me ...
thanks all you kind helpin people out there

Bother by Stone Sour
I died for you by Iced Earth
Come Clarity by In Flames
The Chosen Pessimist by In Flames

I will update this later. At the moment I can't find my iPod, therefore, can't remember song names properly.

But the songs I've listed are really sad songs.

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Hi,I'm going to get my belly-button periced and I was wondering what they use and ,does it hurt I;m scared about the whole thing but my best friend is coming with me.What do I do?

It hurts, more for some than others. Depends on your pain tolerance level.
They will either use clamps or without. Most piercers use clamps.
Also a hollow needle. Usually 14ga.

Before you go out to get your navel pierced, eat something before. Not so that you're really full, but so that you're not hungry. Some people faint after piercings if they haven't eaten.
Wear a top that isn't likely to get hooked on your fresh piercing. Such as a light top, not a heavy jacket or whatever.

The clamps may hurt, but honestly, some people say it does, some say it doesn't.

If the piercer uses a numbing spray, then it will be slightly less painful, but not too much.

Relax before you get there, make sure that your navel is clean.

Listen very carefully to the aftercare. The piercer should give you instructions.


Don't mess with the piercing.

Also make sure that the piercing studio is clean and has a good reputation.


If you have any more specific questions, just drop a question in my inbox and I'll be happy to answer.
(I have my navel pierced, and I know a lot about it since I've had it done twice. I've also been through infections and different after care methods, so I can help you with all of your problems :) )

If you want, read some experiences here;
http://www.bmezine.com/pierce/07-navel/bme-pg07-exp-s3-001.html

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MY subject discribes it, how do you get oily hair? i could stop washing my hair for like 2 weeks but it would still be smooth, i really like the semi wet hair look. Any ideas?

Not sure why you would want to do this...but ok.

These are some things you should try:

1. Wash your hair but don't rinse the shampoo out completely. If you use conditioner, rub it in your roots, splash of water, and then dry your hair.
Leave for a long time.


2. Hair mousse, wax or gel. Rub in your roots, then leave.


3. Put in mayo, leave it in for about an hour, then rise with just water.


4. Use hair serum. Towel-dry hair, then rub in serum, and then leave your hair to dry.



Don't use Vaseline, this just weighs your hair down.

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