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my friends are worried about my behavior
hi, i'm 14/f, and i live in boston. i play sports, a different one every season. i consider myself a popular girl, and i usually have a boyfriend. but recently, i have been doing some seriously dumb stuff. like 2 months ago i smoked weed for the first time with this really hot kid. then, a month ago, i got rly wasted but i got caught. my friends figured after my month long groundation i wouldnt be doing stuff like that anymore. i thought so to, until i woke up this morning and went downstairs. my brother and his best friend (both 16,) were rolling joints in the kitchen (both my parents at work) so my brothers friend kept telling my brother to let me smoke with them, even tho i didnt ask to. i ended up smoking a lotttt, and i got intensley baked. a half hour later, wen i was still super high, my friends mom picked me up to go shopping, and i think they could tell i was high. things were akward all day. now, i dont no what to say to them, i know their really disappointed, and i need to know how to make things right with them. thanks in advance..
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Hi,
Perhaps just talking to your friend "if she is a good friend" and not her Mom will be enough. You don't really have to talk about the day you went shopping because if they noticed the friend will probably say something during this conversation.
Just tell your friend you've tried weed a few times and now you've realized it was really dumb--you didn't like it and you will stop. Then seriously mean it and do stop.
If not you risk losing a lot of things, including friends and I suspect you are not wanting to jeopardize friendships so that is why you are asking how to make things right.
To make things right with them, you have to first make things right with yourself and the rest will fall into place w/out really doing anything else.
Best of luck.
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Hi, so you been experiencing new critical dum stuff in you're life, Drug;s in more way;s then one are the destruction of the human body and mind, can take you to the worst place of this world and can end with you;re life in very horrable way;s, you must stop right there and get you;re self together and fix what ever is needed to be fix, seem;s to me like you are in a stage where a person get's somewhat lost and before you know it you are in a place where you are steeping in the worst of the worst, belive me drug;s are the Demon's doing, ask the Spirit of Jesus Christ our Savior to come into you're life and fullfill what ever emptyness you are expericenig, try to analise what is it that you need to do that would keep you away from that destruction that is fronting in you;re life, life is a million times more valuble then any drug's in this world, you can be happy and have a decent life in this world if you want, tell you;re brother that he is in the road to jail on what he is doing, also are you if you don't stop this ignorant thing you're doing if you don;t stop, belive me jail is hell you don;t want to experience it. May Jasus Christ fill you with love and help you and you're brother in this time of need. HEALER
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Seriously, stop.
Before it gets worse.
Because you haven't done much before, at one point or another, you will get the temptation.
Luckily I had the temptation to try weed when I was 13. But I'm not into it, and I'm not going to smoke it again.
First of all, you should apologize to your friends mom. Tell her it was a stupid mistake, and you regret it (which you should) and it will never happen again.
And then your friends. You should apologize to them too. They are worried about you, they want the best for you. Let them know that you will be careful in the future, and not do stupid things like that again.
Tell your brother that you don't want to do weed, and he's got to stop doing it in the house.
Consider this, you're only 14. Do you want to mess up your future? Give up the alcohol and the weed, focus on spending time with your friends and family.
Don't so things because a hot guy was doing it, that's just stupid.
Sorry, but it is.
You don't need weed in your life, no one does. Drinking, yeah ok, but fourteen is too young. You're still growing, and you could screw up your system.
Be careful, and consider what you want to do with your life. You were grounded for a reason. :)
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your going to have to stop now. The sooner you stop such behaviors, the more likely your going to be able to make the right choices in the future. It will mend all the things you have done wrong and give you a chance to try again. Your going to get a lot of influences that will make you try again if you do manage to quit these things, and your going to have to either say no, avoid them and/or stop them. And if you get thoughts about trying to do weed or the such, find something to do or whatever that will keep your mind off the stuff. Like a hobby or rearranging furniture in your room or whatever floats your boat. But if you dont stop now, its only going to get harder and harder. And your going to find yourself in a lot of crap you dont need.
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