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She's being used
A girl I know, Macy, is being used by a guy who did the same thing to me. He does the whole "I love you, you're my everything" thing to get into your pants then he takes advantage of you blah blah blah. Macy actually helped me out when I was so upset after it happened, she was the one who comforted me telling me that the guy, Drake, was just another tool out there and that I should just do everything possible to stay away from guys like that.
I found out this morning that they're dating.
How the heck am I supposed to get it through Macy's head that its happening again. He's already done half of the same things he did with me.
I feel its my duty as her friend to help her out some how.
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Well... the good news is that she's already heard it from you. She already knows what happened, and she decided to date him anyway, which wasn't the best decision to make.
Bad news? If you re-inform him of what happened to you while you were with him, she may take it as an attack-- or even a sabotage.
My advice is to just stay out of it. You already told her once before what he did, and it's her choice to take a chance with him-- even if it means she may get hurt. She's already aware of what he did, so reminding her now may not do anything to benefit your friendship with her. Let her find out on her own what his deal is. Because obviously, she didn't listen the first time you told her-- so why would she listen now? You'll just end up defending yourself, and swearing you're not saying it to mess them up.. and that's not fair to you, especially since all you want to do is help her.
I hope it all works out. =)
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