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what to say...
2 monthes ago I met a guy at a church activity. We hung out, talked and flirted, and I really started to like him. However the next time I saw him, he was holding another girls hand (his gf). I was really upset, but I still really liked this boy (we can call him Mark). He ended up dumping his gf a day after they started dating. I don't know why.... Anyways, I saw him again about a week ago. He came up real close and apologized for how he acted, we talked for a few minutes, but then he said he had to go. I have since been talking to him over the internet, and I want to know what to say to make him want to hang out, and maybe eventually date me. There is some hope that he may like me. My friends told me that he talks about me, or will bring me up, and when he looks at me, it feels like there is something more behind it i guess....
So, what should I do?
I am a Female, 16 year old
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Relax. Be yourself. Flirt a little bit.
I'd like to mention that I'm horrid at flirting... But really good at relaxing and being myself. Guys seem to respond well to this behavior... And if this guy doesn't respond... Clearly he is unable to recognize how awesome you are. Say, 'His loss,' and move on if that's the case.
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Get to know him, hang out with him.
Go to the park, or bowling, or just hang out someplace where you can talk and be relaxed with each other.
Movies are too intense though, can't talk there.
Once you know him better, flirt a little and see how he responds, and things will go from there.
He probably likes you, but he's shy about it and he just broke up with his girlfriend.
Ask him casually ''Hey do you want to go to the park? Or do something?'' if he likes you, he might be shy about it, but he will want to go out with you.
Good luck :)
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