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i'm 5'8 and 112 pounds maybe? how fast can i lose around 10-15 pounds and how? what are some things i can do?

You don`t need to lose any weight at all. That would almost be like an eating disorder. Don`t think about yourself fat. I`m alot shorter then you & I weight alot more then you. Trust me, you don`t need to lose the weight. You might actually want to try to gain weight.


Don`t lose the 10-15 pounds. you DONT need too at all.
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I love my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me about 5 minuetes ago. Im crushed. I dont know what to do. He said we dont have a good connection. I really loved him. I dont know how to get over this. My best friend has a party saturday and hes going to be there. I dont know what to do. Any help??

It takes a little while to fix a broken heart, so don`t feel bad if you are crushed. Everyone gets crushed after a break up. It will take a little while & alot of tears, but one day you will be over him. Don`t worry about it right now, just be heart broken.. something good will come from it.


Try to have fun, don`t worry that he is there. He is going to be alot of places you will be i`m sure. Try to say little things to him like :: " hey, having fun, how`s you're week been ". Something that`s easy, but you wont have to spend all night talking to him. If it gets hard being around him, go in another room or upstairs. Take a break from seeing him. If it gets really bad, talk to one of your friends. Friends help with everything & they know what makes me laugh. Talk to them if seeing him that night is bugging you. Just try to have fun that night, life goes on right ? :]


Don`t be sad because it`s over, be happy that it happened :] Have fun & sorry about the break up.
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Ok....i am really addicted to pop....but i wana stop drinking it and i was wonderin if you know how much weight i would lose in a month from just not drinking pop?

How much weight you will lose just depends on the person. There is no Average to how much weight will be lost. Just try it & see what happenes.


You can try flavored water. It`s yummy & it`s alot better for you then soda.


I stopped drinking soda and only drink it about once a month. I lost weight from that. When you stop though, you will want it & to stop that wanting most people tend to eat. Don`t do that.. try something else if you are DIEING for a soda.


How much weight is lost is totally up to the person, try it and see what happenes :]
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Is there any possible way to get your period sooner?

No // not at all. You just have to wait..
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When I am asleep and on my period, I don't usually bleed... Is this normal?

Tottaly normal ! Nothing to worry about :]
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Hi. You dont know me, but I NEED HELP! I am conerned that I may be gay, but I have a thing for girls as well.. so technically bi. I dont wanna tell me friends, because they said they wouldnt be friends with me if I was.. so.. Should I wait for a few years, or just come out? I am a 13 year old male

Considering (spelling) the fact you are 13 you could just be experimenting with different sexualitys. Alot of people go threw a phase of that, where they wonder about the other and same sex. There isn`t anything wrong with being gay or bi.


Are you 100% sure that you are bi. If so, then come out now. There is no shame in it. If people treat you different then you don`t need them in your life. If you are not 100% sure, then I would wait a few years. See if you sexuality changes.


It totally up to you. I would consider maybe telling someone in your family. Talk to them about it. They know your life better then I do. You said so yourself "you don`t know me". Talk to someone in your family, they are willing to help you :] Good luck & remember there isn`t anything wrong with how you feel.
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so i put a tampon in for the first time .. i got it in real easy like it didnt hurt or anything. but like when i took it out it felt so weird.. it didnt like hurt but it felt like an "ah that felt weird" kidna feeling. like i dont know if its suppose to feel that way or if the tampon is supose to just gently slide on out or if u have to pull it out with some strength

The most important thing to do, relax. (ugh I hate that word I can never spell it right, sorry). The more you relax the easier it will be for you to pull out the tampon. Sometimes you might have to use a little strength, and other times you won`t ; it all depends on how full the tampon is.


About the string. I have NEVER EVER EVER heard of someone pulling out the string. It`s stuck in there pretty tight. I wouldn`t worry about it. It`s like a zillion billion in a 1 chance of that happening to you. Don`t sweat it. It won`t come out, and if it does (which isn`t going to happen there is always 911 ) :]
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What are some websites that are similar to myspace?

I know of two, not much help.. but it`s something :]



%! - Facebook - you have to be invited though.
%! - Xanga - I don`t really know that many people that still use xanga, but I love them.
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Hey im 15/f i just got braces a little over a month ago.. and before i got braces i was really outgoing and was always wanted to be the center of attention. But now that i have braces i've noticed that i dont want to be that anymore because of my braces.. i guess im self consious.. Is there anything i can tell myself or do to make me become less self consious and be myself again? Any advice would help! thanks

I had braces & trust me, I understand what you mean, but you have to remember that braces are pieces of metal stuck to your teeth. You shouldn't be self consious. Sure they are funky looking & everything, but if you notice how many people have braces these days.. you like 1 in a zillion. Don't let metal get in the way of your fun and happiness. Just be yourself, and in a few months.. thats braces will be gone and you will have perfect teeth !


Just remember that you are 1 in a zillion & that you're not alone in the world from a metal mouths :] Don't worry.. everything is okay, its wire and rubber-bands. Just be yourself, and no one will even know the difference.
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What do most people define as "hooking up"?

My idea of "hooking up" is doing something with other other. Making out and/or more. Most of the time, it depends on the person. Everyone has their own idea of what it means.. that's just my personal idea.
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ok..

so theres this guy whos liked me since 7th grade or w/e. and he wants to go out. but just today he said " well im only 16, i wanna experience a little more before i go out with you because i have a feelings we'd go out a long time, we have that chemistry" i said ok fine like a dumbass.. then i said id wait for him and give him time..

SHOULD I WAIT!?!?!??! or just be like either me or not.

If he likes you, he would go out with you. He doesn't want to hurt you, so instead he put you on the sidelines. It's honestly up to you. Do you want to take that chance and wait for him, and even have the idea of him NOT liking you after the wait, or do you want to move on & find someone who wants to be with you right here and right now ? Thats up to you, but my choice :: I wouldn't sit around and wait for someone who doesnt care about me enough to be with me.. I'd get out there and find me a real guy :]
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is it normal for a girls breasts to be uneven? im a 14/f and like my left is alot bigger than the other one like practically a half a size or a full size. and its annoying . is it going to change?


sorry if this is in the wrong category

Don't worry about it. It's normal. It just means your body isn't done growing yet, it's evening itself out. It will change with time, so don't sweat. Sure it's annoying.. it's called growing up.. no one said it was easy :]
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I first got my period about a year ago, and I was 13. Since then it's been super irregular and I bleed for up to like 10 days. Is it normal?

Yes deff normal. You can be irregular for up to 2 years. Nothing to worry about, so dont sweat it.
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I am 15 and I will be turning 16 in October. Should I be worried that I haven't had one sign of a period yet?

Everyone is different. Don't worry, you'll get it one of these days & if you are that worried about it, go to the doctor. I wouldn't worry about it though.. some girls don't get it until they are 18 or 19 :]
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do you think that the song "Daughters" by John Mayer is a good father/daughter dance song for the father/daughter dance during a wedding reception?

opinions are much appreciated!! thanks!

Yes, I think it's perfect :]
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if i started to shave my arms, would the hair grow darker and longer?

ps. my arm hairs are black

Yes, it will, but you can always shave it off if it's starting to grow back.
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Will pure bleach used on clothes damage hair if I was to bleach my whole head?

YES ! It's bad for you hair, and in some cases can make it fall out. I would stick to hair bleach :]
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does being a virgin mean you've never had sex? what about fingering/blowjobs etc does that count, and if youve done one, are u not a virgin anymore? someone please explain..

Yes being a virgin mean never had sex.


All the other stuff, is sexual activity. Not sex


When you have sex, when you have intercourse : protected or unprotected intercourse, you are no longer a virgin.


It's confusing.. yeah & it's alot to understand.
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do you think getting fingered or giving a handjob is to slutty for a 13 yr old? thanks♥

If you feel comfortable with it, and you understand what you are doing, and why you are doing it then no.


There isn't a right or wrong age for stuff like that. When you feel ready, then you are ready. No one can tell you when that is, but yourself.


Sometimes it's not the smartest thing to do, but if you feel as though you are ready & you are comforable with your choice, then no one can tell you differnt. It's mostly what you think of yourself, and how you view stuff like that on your own personal level.
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Everyone says American Eagle is the best store, but personally I hate it. All of their t-shirts are basically the same things with different words and colors. A lot of their clothes are really bad quality. I bought a cami from there once and I only wore it once and a HUGE hole ripped and I wasn't even running around or anything. It may be a little cheaper then Abercrombie & Fitch or Hollister, but atleast if you buy something from A&F or Hollister, you know the clothes are going to last. American Eagle's clothes arn't the most attractive things, and they look cheap. What do you think about AE?

Personly ::


I HATE IT. Now I know hate is a stong word, but as you said "I only wore it once and a HUGE hole ripped" They have cute clothes yes, but I'm not going to pay 25$ for a shirt and have it rip. I'm an active person, I run around & jump on people. I want clothes that can stand up to be being..well myself :]


With AE, you arn't paying for quitly clothes. You are paying for the American Eagle logo. I don't like their clothes. I don't even go in that store anymore. I would prefure to wear Hollister or Abercrombie & Fitch.


I'm sure there are people who would dissagere with me, and say AE is a good store that has nice clothes, but for my life - running around, jumping on stuff & jumping on people - it isn't.
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