Hi. You dont know me, but I NEED HELP! I am conerned that I may be gay, but I have a thing for girls as well.. so technically bi. I dont wanna tell me friends, because they said they wouldnt be friends with me if I was.. so.. Should I wait for a few years, or just come out? I am a 13 year old male
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? x_woah_me answered Wednesday July 26 2006, 1:54 am: Considering (spelling) the fact you are 13 you could just be experimenting with different sexualitys. Alot of people go threw a phase of that, where they wonder about the other and same sex. There isn`t anything wrong with being gay or bi.
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Are you 100% sure that you are bi. If so, then come out now. There is no shame in it. If people treat you different then you don`t need them in your life. If you are not 100% sure, then I would wait a few years. See if you sexuality changes.
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It totally up to you. I would consider maybe telling someone in your family. Talk to them about it. They know your life better then I do. You said so yourself "you don`t know me". Talk to someone in your family, they are willing to help you :] Good luck & remember there isn`t anything wrong with how you feel.
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