I love my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me about 5 minuetes ago. Im crushed. I dont know what to do. He said we dont have a good connection. I really loved him. I dont know how to get over this. My best friend has a party saturday and hes going to be there. I dont know what to do. Any help??
x_woah_me answered Thursday July 27 2006, 4:40 pm: It takes a little while to fix a broken heart, so don`t feel bad if you are crushed. Everyone gets crushed after a break up. It will take a little while & alot of tears, but one day you will be over him. Don`t worry about it right now, just be heart broken.. something good will come from it.
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Try to have fun, don`t worry that he is there. He is going to be alot of places you will be i`m sure. Try to say little things to him like :: " hey, having fun, how`s you're week been ". Something that`s easy, but you wont have to spend all night talking to him. If it gets hard being around him, go in another room or upstairs. Take a break from seeing him. If it gets really bad, talk to one of your friends. Friends help with everything & they know what makes me laugh. Talk to them if seeing him that night is bugging you. Just try to have fun that night, life goes on right ? :]
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Don`t be sad because it`s over, be happy that it happened :] Have fun & sorry about the break up.
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shannonbond answered Thursday July 27 2006, 1:19 pm: Aw, that sucks. It going to take a lot of time to heal this. But go to that party, and look really hot, and you know he'll talk to you. Talk to all your friends and stuff, be occupied with other things at the party so that you won't think about him as much & it looks like you're having a blast. When he does come to talk to you, just be casual like "hey", etc. Have fun & I'm sorry. [ shannonbond's advice column | Ask shannonbond A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Thursday July 27 2006, 9:08 am: it takes a long time to mend a broken heart.. and its hard to face reality but maybe your relationship wasn't ment to be. you probably deserve better then him anyways. at this time you need to surround yourself with friends at this time. and maybe at the party just gesture and be friendly but don't be too close to him. if you don't want to go to the party then don't feel like you have to go... but you should because its your friend's party and i think she would appreciate it. just hang with your friends you'll forget he is even there.
Alexisyrhero answered Thursday July 27 2006, 3:58 am: hey,i'm sorry to hear about you and your boyfriend.I think you should go to the party with your friend.Have a goodtime and act like you dont even care.Maybe he'll come over and talk to you about it. [ Alexisyrhero's advice column | Ask Alexisyrhero A Question ]
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