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Bad Friend situtation
I have a friend who is mad at me. I wont say why but she says she will never talk to me again. I tried to work it out but she wont listen to me. WHat should I do?
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just give her some time to cool off and then try to work things out
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well if you wont say why.
no one can really help.
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Well first off im sorry you and your friend arent getting along. This may sound a little cheesy and all but if shes really your friend then she will eventually want to be friendz with you again. My advice is you just leave her alone until she is ready to be friendz with you again. I always am getting into fights with my friendz but we always seem to make up sooo like I said before just be patient.
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This question may be a little difficult to answer for you as I don't know what you did to make your friend angry but I will try. You say you have tried to work it out. It sounds to me that you have really hurt your friends feelings. Give her a little time to stew and mend her hurt feelings. After that maybe there is something you can do for her that would show her how much you value her friendship. If you were friends for a while then you can probably find something that would be meaningful to her. Be patient. These things take time.
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for now i would give her some space, maybe give her a week or two. then after a week or two ask her what happened? whats wrong? if she continues to ignore you then if you want wait for her to come to you and tell her the problem!
-Bess
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We all say and do things that will annoy those closest to us and think that it will be the end of our friendship.
Once you have given her a little space to calm down, I suggest you pop a note through her door to either apologise or explain the actions/words that upset her so much.
If you honestly believe that you had good reason to say/do what you did, then also tell her you felt that as her friend you needed to be honest with her.
If she refuses completely to talk to you there is not a lot you can do about it. Accept that sometimes people go their different ways and learn from it.
I hope that I have given you some good advice. Take care.
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She is obviously mad at you for something you did or said. Tell her your sorry and that you didn`t mean to do what you did and so on. Then tell her you will let her be for awhile and when she is ready to talk-you`ll talk. She`ll talk to you eventually just give it time and apoligize. =] ♥
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I cant answer unless you tell me why. cuz if she has a good reason then theres really nothing. If she doesnt then i can help.
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good luck
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