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ok i've been rele horny lately.. and i've been having sex with my boyfriend aggressively i mean i don't think he minds but i don't like it..how do i stop becoming as horny all the time? i mean i dont watch porno and im as average as average can get? i dont get it? (link)
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Being horny is really not something that you can control, it's something that is controlled by hormones. You should just not have ruff sex..take it slow and I promise that it will feel really good. and Don't worry you won't always be horny. Drop one in my box and we'll tlak about it more.
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Hey, I recently made my first appointment to see a gyno so I could be put on birth control. The only problem is my Mom told me we don't have any prescription insurance so for medication we need to pay the full amount. I'm 19 years old and I;m wondering if theres any cheap ones anyones on or if this has happened to anyone else. Thank you so much! (link)
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Your local health department provides it for free. You just go there and tell them that you want it and they'll give it to you. At least that's how it is here where I live. Also there are these birth control shots that you can get in your butt once a month and they're cheaper than paying for the pill. I hope I helped you.
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ok i have this boyfriend his name is greg.. well he went on vacation with his family 2 puerto rico.. while he was gone i met this other guy ricky. ricky is rele sweet nd charming and we slept with each other at least 5 times. i dunno .. i don't feel the same with greg as i do with ricky.. ricky is wayy better in bed.. i ain't a slut or nothin.. well maybe i am but seriously what should i do? HELP i'll rate HIGH if you do `-MARIE (link)
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You should tell Greg that you've found someone else because obviously you don't have the same feelings for him that you do for Ricky. You should stay with Ricky and have fun with him and not really worry about Greg. And don't worry about if your a slut or not sex is a beautiful thing and you should do it when you feel you want to. keep me in touch.
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what kind of music is this grateful dead, frank zappa, little feet, the who, rolling stones, led zepplin, pat b., santana, weird al, rage against the machine, jimmy hendrix ?? (link)
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hard rock
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I really like the kid im going out with. He asked me out a little over a week ago but I had said no because Im so busy over the summer. Now, I regret saying yes this time because I have way too much going on. Im gonna be a freshman next year and Im on the high school cheerleading squad. It takes up a lot of my time and im also playing softball all summer. I go to the cape almost every weekend, and I need some time to myself, plus I have a lot of work to do before I go back to school. I dont know what to do because I wont ever see him and I feel so tied down because im always worried about finding time to be with him. Should I dump him? If so, how should I do it in a way to let him know that we're still going to be great friends like we have been? I'll rate high (link)
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I don't think that you should dump him. But i do think th you should treat him more like a friend and he'll realize that's what you want if you do that. It sounds to me like you've got a good head on your shoulders and you not makin guys your top priority. Stay that way. Also guys aren't like us girls, they don't have to be with us every second like we want to be with them. I personaly think that things will work out between you two just fine the way that things are. Keep me in touch and if you do decide that you want to dump him then drop one in my inbox and I'll give some more advice.
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i told my parents to f**k off and i got grounded for 2 weeks. do you think this is fair? because i was really pissed off.. i coulndt help it. lol. (link)
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Well I don't know the situation but I think most parents would ground their kid for saying that. You should go to your parents and explain to them why it is that you felt that way and tell them why you said it. Do it in a calm rational manner and I'm sure they'll listen. I also bet that they'll take you off restriction.
Lil' tip I've learned.. as much as some of the things that your parents do may bother you, just bite your tounge b4 saying anything in return because all it's going to do is get you in trouble.
I'm here to talk if you want to.
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will drinking a lot of water help you lose weight? (link)
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Actually YES! If you drink water it speeds up your metabolism, which in return burns more calories. That keeps them from reaching the liver and being converted into fat cells. And after all of that is burned up (glycogen) then it starts burning the fat that your body has previously stored. But I will warn you, if you drink A TON of water it can actually poison you and you can die. But you should have to worry about that, I mean really really do have to drink water 24/7 literally. 6 to 10 full glasses daily will burn a few 100 extra calories daily. Hope I helped.
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hey all my friends have made out and i am just really shy around my boyfriend (when i have one) everytime he gets close i kinda just abck off because i am scared i have never made out andi dont kno how all my friend ever say is it just comes natural ! i am complety feeling left out ! some off my guy friend would be like hey if you wanna make out just tell me and like there for real they will be all who cares and stuff and one of my guy friend has done every thing but sex and i kinda like him and he said if you can make out wiff me just to say you have and my mom loves him and she thinks he is the sweetes biy ever but she doesnt kno anything he has done! and she would totally not aprove if she heard !
question A: give me tips on making out! thx!
B:should i go out wiff him or is he using me !
C:should i make out wiff him just to say i have! (link)
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Don't worry about what all your friends do. You be you. And don't be nervous around guys when it comes to making out. Your friends are right it really does come natural and there's really not a wrong way to do it.
A: You just start kissing and you use your tounge and move it around. Also suck on his tounge and his neck and ears.
B: I don't think that he's 'using you', but I wouldn't look for a relationship with him. He's probably just wanting to have fun and wants you to have fun with him. And if your looking for a non-serious, fun-good time relationship, then I would go for it. Because your younge and you have nothing to lose.
C: If you really want to make out with him then do it. I wouldn't go around saying that you have though. But just follow your inner desires. If you feel like making out with him then just do it and don't think twice about it.
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theres this gurl i ask out and we went out 4 a day we went out and she beoke up wit me the next day and i really liked her she said she want to get to know mw better and thisother girl ask me out do i wait o her to we can ghet to kknow each other or should i go out with the other girl who ask me out wat should i do????! reel confused! (link)
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Well it depends on who you like me. By my observations it seems that you obviouly like the girl you asked out or you wouldn't have asked her out. If she's the kind of girl that wants to wait and get to know you first then that means that she'll probably be an honest and true girlfriend. Just because if she wasn't then she wouldn't care if she knew you or not. I would wait on that girl because they do say that you have to wait for the best things in life. Your shouldn't just go out with some other girl just because the other girl doesn't want to be with you at the moment. Give it time and it will work out. Keep me in touch and PM if you want to talk about it more.
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my brother is 17 and he just came out. i mean he told us he was gay. im shocked and i dont know what to do because me and him are close but i feel okward now. im having a hard time accepting this. what do i do? (link)
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You shouldn't let his sexuality change yall's relationship. I'm sure he still loves you the same, so you should show him that same love in return. You need to give him moral support, because coming out is a big thing and I'm sure he has alot of people knocking him down right now. So stay strong and go out with him sometime and tlak to him about it. Try to except it more and I promise that you'll get used to it. If you want to talk about it more just drop one in my box.
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Well thanks, I liked ur advice best of all. Well ill ask you next time keep in touch.
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Awww..thank you soo much. I'm always here for you and I'll try to help your every question the best that I can.
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does anyone know how to change your screen name on aim? any real answers and i'll rate high!!! thanx (link)
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go to:
https://my.screenname.aol.com/_registration/initRegistration.psp?mcState=initialized&siteId=aimregistrationPROD&createSn-1&promoCode-106709&siteState=http%3A%2F%2Faim%2Eaol%2Ecom%2Faimnew%2FNS%2Fcongratsd%2Eadp?promo=106709&mcAuth=%2FBcAG0LL%2F8gAAK82AIuO
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First of all if you do help me out thank you. Well im a senior in high school, Im 18 years old.
You see I have a teacher well his not really my teacher. He was my teacher my freachmen year, But now were just good friends.
We go out t eat ive been out with him and his and my friends. we have fun. Oh his 26. You see I dont know if he likes me or if were just good friends.
a couple of days ago, he asked me if he thought a student was attractive and if he told them how I thought they woulfd take it.
I sayd I did not know, It all sepnded on the girl.
Then he asked hw i would feel. Well sorry I hav to go because im in his class right at this moment.
Help me.
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Well I think that means that he likes you. You are 18 years old so yall's relationship would be legal. I would go out with him by yourself a few times and get to know him a little bit better. You never know what might become of it. Just give it a shot and keep me in touch.
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can some one explain 2 me on how 2 center tha things in mi mad pro!!! ill give any1 with a good explaination a 50000!!! i rly need help
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put:
< c e n t e r > YOUR TEXT HERE < / c e n t e r >
Except take out all the spaces in the 'center'
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2 days ago me and my sister were running outside in my uncles back yard and i ran around her and i stepped on a 2 1/2 inch rusty bolt and it went 1 inch *or more* in my foot and i had to go to the hospital. well now im back home and i have no crutches or a wheel chair or anything and i really want to walk around my house but when i hop on my good foot it makes my ribs and knee hurt too much does any one know a way for me to get around until i get crutches?
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Well make sure you wrap your foot up with those wrap around bandades. I would walk normal one the un-hurt foot and on the heel of the other. If the doctors didn't give you crutches then he probably feels as if you don't need them. But if it still really bothers you then you need to go back to the docter and get him to write you a perscription for crutches. I'm sure that he'll have no problem doing it.
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Ok well the other day i was at a party and this girl i had just met started coming on to me and when she wanted to have oral sex i backed out but i think i regret itt
im seeing her next weekend what should i do (link)
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Well I always say that you should live a life of no regrets. So I think if you regret not doing it that night, then you should go up to her this weekend and tell her that. And ask her if she still feels like doing it. Drop one in my box and I'll talk to you more. Good luck..and I hope you get some!
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I went to a friend's camp this last weekend. She told me that there was this guys a few years olded then us but he was annoying, stupid, and ugly.Then we went out onto the lake and he came along. He had this really big tube and we were all just chillin on it and pushing each other off. then one time it was just me and him and i justed to like him but kept myself from liking him because of what my friend said. i know it doens't matter because i probably won't see him again but should i of let what my friend say keep me from liking this guy?? please help! (link)
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Absolutly not. Different people have different personalities and that means they like different qualities in guys. Next time if you feel a vibe between you and another guy, then embrace it. Don't think twice about it and follow your heart. It knows your desires and it's always right. Also she could of told you that because maybe she had a secret crush on him and didn't want you to like him. Next time your in that situation, then tell her how you feel and get her to to tell you how she feels and why she feels that way.
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i've had my period for over two years. the last two times i've had it its been really really light. like i don't have to change my pad at all during the day and by the third day its barely there. is this normal? (link)
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Yes that's very normal for girls that haven't Hhad their period that long. In fact some gurls will completely stop for several months. Take it as a blessing, TRUST ME!! lol. If you have anymore questions then you can feel free to drop one in my inbox.
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OK, brace your self, a while ago this guy trent ased me out and he was 2 years older. I said know cus i just got out of a bad relation ship. Now hes reallllly good friends with one of my good friends James. James is going out with alexa and trent is going out with alexas friend ashlyn. well me ash and alexa are all 14 ( im not good friends woth them) and james and trent just turned 16. WELL ANY WAY... I have these to other real good friends Morie (girl) and briana. and one day we (james trent bri morie me) were all hangin out at night and out of absoluty no where briana goes Oh My Gosh I LIKE TRENT!!! ...ALOT!!!! A WHOLE LOT!!!!! .. I WANT TO MAKE OUT WITH HIM!!! and i was all confused , she suddenly likes this guy and just goes to atempt to make out with him (BTW bri just turned 13 last week) Well after she triend to and failed at making out with him she told MOrie to do it. Morie said she didnt want to chus this was the first night she ever met him. well bri said if she didnt so wuold kill herself ( she "cuts") so morie talked to trent about it ( mo turned 12 last month) and they went in the back and made out. well over the night trent began to really like her. They made out like 5 time and he followed her EVERY WHERE!! and they flirted alll night. SO me and james were like "trent arnt you going out with ashlyn???" He said " im taking a break" But later ashlyn called james saying "trent isnt anserwing his fone if u see him tell him to call." James asked if they were still going out and ashlyn said yes. So trent is baisicly cheating on her with morie, but Mo and trent arnt actually going out cus mo likes his little brother(14) who likes Alexas cusin mandy and also because trent is almost 5 years older then morie. And latly he is flirting a lot with me to and i keep telling him hes taken and i dont mess with taken guys. but i do like him a little. And I am just soooo lost! what do i do, what should MO do, Should we tell aslyn, or what should we tell trent... or just help!!
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You should talk to your friend Mo and help her realize that it was probably only a one night thing. Tell her that he's with Aslyn and stuff.
No I don't think that you should take it upon yourself to tell Aslyn. I think you should go and talk to Trent about the whole thing. You should tell Trent that if he really cares about Aslyn then he needs to tell her himself.
As far as you kinda liking Trent goes I would wait until after he breaks up with Aslyn. And if he's treating her like he did that one night then she'll eventually get the vibe and break up with him. Also you should consider the fact that if he's doing that behind Aslyn's back then he'll probably do it behind yours. Trust me you don't want that in a guy. So be careful and keep me updated.
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ok well im 14 and ive been going out with my b/f 9 months today. during the school year id see him every day and we would allways talk alot so we rarely talked on the phone and when we did we talked form like 8 till 2 in the morning...he liked me for allmost a year before me and him started going out and everyone says how cute we are and everything, my birthday was recently and he gave this bear that when u scweze it it says i love you and we went out to dinner, i ran out of room in my year book this year so me and him decided we would write each other letters insted and the one he wrote me was soo cute i wanted to cry i could tell that it came from his heart after i read it i thought that this summer would be amazing but now that its summer it makes me soo sad b/c i never see him as much as im use to and im the one who useally calls him and i dont useally do it alot b/c i dont want to be the girl who allways calls boys or anyoingg idk what to do like when ever i talk to him and im with him he acts like he loves me but i dont know what to do it makes me soo sad
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Well guys are different than girls. Girls like to show their love by talking to him all the time and being with him all the time. Guys can still love a girl that wants that the same amount, but guys don't have the need that us girls do to talk all the time. A lot of times they'd rather be with their boys. And if he's not acting different then you honestly shouldn't have anything to worry about. You should tell him that you wish he would call you more..because he might not have a clue. Don't worry yourself about it. Give it time..and it will all work out.
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