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First of all if you do help me out thank you. Well im a senior in high school, Im 18 years old.
You see I have a teacher well his not really my teacher. He was my teacher my freachmen year, But now were just good friends.
We go out t eat ive been out with him and his and my friends. we have fun. Oh his 26. You see I dont know if he likes me or if were just good friends.
a couple of days ago, he asked me if he thought a student was attractive and if he told them how I thought they woulfd take it.
I sayd I did not know, It all sepnded on the girl.
Then he asked hw i would feel. Well sorry I hav to go because im in his class right at this moment.
Help me.
~~~Chelly~~~
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you just said "hes not really my teacher i had him freshman year" then you said "im in his class at this moment" ..
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Honestly, you just have to ASK him what he's feeling, ya know? You can ASSUME what's in his heaRt ALLLLL you want, but the tRuth of the matteR is.. THAT'S ALLLLL IT IS.. youR *ASSUMPTION!! Just be bold, be honest, and go foR the gold, Chelly! Just flat out say it, don't beat around the bush. PeRhaps once YOU'VE bRoken the ice by exposing YOUR feelings foR HIM.. HE'LL be able to pRovide you with an honest Response. I wish you the best of luck, Chelly! You can do this, I have complete faith in you!! :D
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Its not a good idea to date a teacher. I know in the first line of your letter you said he wasn't really your teacher,
but in the last line you said you had to go because you were in his class.
I think if you want to be friends that's okay. I think you should forget any kind of romance until after you graduate. :)
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ask him if he has feelings for you because if he tries to make a move you'll regret it.
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Well I think that means that he likes you. You are 18 years old so yall's relationship would be legal. I would go out with him by yourself a few times and get to know him a little bit better. You never know what might become of it. Just give it a shot and keep me in touch.
xoxo
Jen
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Good friends is fine, and he may just be the kind of person who gives compliments like that.
Though, if he does have a thing for you, and you reciprocate, do wait until after you graduate - it's only a short while. If you don't reciprocate his feelings, and he makes his clear, tell him that you only want to be friends.
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oooo i see where this is going. hmm i think he probably does like you more than he should for a student if you guys hang out and stuff. DONT DO ANYTHING until after you graduate to avoid lawsuits and all sorts of stuff. for now, enjoy the friendship at a student-teacher rate <3
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Well it isnt very responsible for him to think about having a relationship with a student!! But its probably ok to be good friends. If he doesn ask you out or anything relationship-wise just be mature and responsible about it.Things probably woulndt be good to start right now while your still in school, But maybe when your in college or just out of high school things can move in a better direction for you both. Hope i could help! If you need anything else just IM me at Sammerz619!
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