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ok well im 14 and ive been going out with my b/f 9 months today. during the school year id see him every day and we would allways talk alot so we rarely talked on the phone and when we did we talked form like 8 till 2 in the morning...he liked me for allmost a year before me and him started going out and everyone says how cute we are and everything, my birthday was recently and he gave this bear that when u scweze it it says i love you and we went out to dinner, i ran out of room in my year book this year so me and him decided we would write each other letters insted and the one he wrote me was soo cute i wanted to cry i could tell that it came from his heart after i read it i thought that this summer would be amazing but now that its summer it makes me soo sad b/c i never see him as much as im use to and im the one who useally calls him and i dont useally do it alot b/c i dont want to be the girl who allways calls boys or anyoingg idk what to do like when ever i talk to him and im with him he acts like he loves me but i dont know what to do it makes me soo sad
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call him and say that you wanna see him. make up a day to hang out and stuff or watch a movie or whatever. if u dont like calling then talk to him online or sumthing. call like 1 time a week to see wats going on and stuff. tell me how it works out. :)
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if he is as sweet at you say he is and you two are that close then you could tell him without any worry.. but i just read the additional info about trying to talk to him and even though you dont want to you really should..and if not then you're just going to have to plan dates and sort of MAKE him go :)
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i think boys are just like that so its not a deal. you could ask him whats going on.
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Well guys are different than girls. Girls like to show their love by talking to him all the time and being with him all the time. Guys can still love a girl that wants that the same amount, but guys don't have the need that us girls do to talk all the time. A lot of times they'd rather be with their boys. And if he's not acting different then you honestly shouldn't have anything to worry about. You should tell him that you wish he would call you more..because he might not have a clue. Don't worry yourself about it. Give it time..and it will all work out.
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First of all, do his friends have girlfriends? That could definately be part of the problem if they don't because they want guy time - and probably give him a hard time about it. AT that age he is still fitting in with the guys and doesn't wanna look like a puppy dog. Why he's not calling is a mystery I guess... If it were me, I would just do my thing with the girls and let him call. If he knows you will always call then he doesn't have to - turn the tables and bring the ball back in your court. If you didn't talk on the phone before then it does stand to reason that you wouldn't much now. Do you live close to him? Because if you don't and he has a friend around the corner then it may be easier to hang around with him... Don't worry yourself too much and definately do not be the girl always calling - it does take on a needy look after a while - especially if he's not calling back. I say hang with the girls - go to the mall - talk to people - get out more and just have fun. He'll be back quicker if you are not just sitting around waiting on him!!!
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I think you should call him or IM him or something and go places together so you guys can hang out and keep in touch. It wont seem like the girl-who-annoys-their-bf-by-calling if you call like *hey me and some other people are going to the movies and it wont be as much fun without you* Once he starts to get used to hanging out outside of school he will start plannig things with you for sure. Well i hope i helped!! Sammerz
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well, if hes your bf he should have enough guts to call.
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you two have a very pure and genuine relationship, and i think you need to talk to him about how your feeling and ask him if there is anything wrong and listen to every detail of how he is feeling.It could be anything and i dont want you worrying but this is something you need to talk about, and when you see him dont get all awkward but stay cool and act as if you always did and he will too. tell me how everything goes and you can ask for more advice as well.
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Aww!! Well it sounds like the two of you truly do have something very special. Something that is obviously worth hanging onto, so why would you ever let it slip away? If your boyfriend loves you even HALF as much as you made it seem in your question... he will NOT be annoyed when you call him - I'm shore he'll be just thrilled!! You shouldn't ever be afraid to call him.. Does he even know you feel this way?? Is telling him out of the question? I think you probably should. Maybe together you can come up with an appropriate solution. He will also be more inclined to call now that he knows your feelings on this situation. Best wishes to you!! Hope eveRything woRks out!! :D
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