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So i have stretch marks, yes we all do. But there on my stomach and it annoys me. Ive been working out and trying to lose weight so my question is will they go away once i lose weight?

stretch marks never go away.

they will fade && be less noticable but they`ll never go completely away.

you can ask a doctor what to do or go to the store && but palmers cocoa butter && put it on they stretch marks twice a day && it`ll help lighten them up.

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if you click on someones myspace picture will it show whos looking at it

Nope.

they only know if you viewed it if you comment the picture.

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I'm 15, and my little sis is turning 13 in like twelve days, on the ninteenth of january. what type of party can she throw in 12 days? she doesnt know whether to just go see a movie with her close buds or do a big thing at our house.. shes been asking me for ideas, but honestly I dont know what she'd want to do. it cant cost "too much" money, and for the movies, should she pay for her friend's tickets or not, because like.. its her birthday so maybe she should pay?? i dunno! or have any other ideas? bowling? shopping? etc.. please not too costly. like give me the full plan and stuff from your idea and i'll see how it goes with her. thankyou!

sleepover.

they are always great for watever age.

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I'm 14/f and I'm a tomboyish girl. I mean I still wear girlyish clothes and shop and gossip and what not but I'm not the ones that are prude or wear pounds of make up or something.

I just get along with guys a lot more easily and I feel more comfortable aroudn them than girls because, well girls criticize and judge so much and ohhhmy the drama. I am also "perverted" not really. But when guys joke about the pen 15 club or LAO or stupid stuff like that or talking about someones doing someone or say stuff like go suck him or something like, I don't really care and I just laugh at it and join in with moronic comments like theirs. One guy and I have this little code for LAO, LOL, WTF, and YO with our hands and we just look at each other and do it out of random when we get bored in class. Hehe, but yeah, do guys think that girls like myself are weird or not or what? Do they feel comfortable around girls like me because it'd suck if they didnt...but tell me the brutal truth

i can completely relate to this.

i was the same way at age 14.except i did wear both girly && boyish clothing.

&& friends all i had was guy friends && one girl friend.

from what i`ve experienced guys don`t care && like being able to be comfortable around a female that doesn`t care what they do or say.

your just a friend they aren`t lookin at you more then that apparently so i doubt they think your weird.

guys are less judge mental about that kind of thing then girls.

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so me and my boyfriend have had sex twice. the first time we did it i don't think he broke/tore the hymen even though it hurt really bad, basically i kept pushing him off me on reflex. anyway, the second time was yesterday and it also hurt really bad but i still don't know if he tore the hymen, it still hurt and i understand it will hurt the first few times but how do i make sure he fully tore it?

you don`t always bleed.

not wanting him to do it probably makes it hurt more then it actually is suppose to.

i`d wait til you can relax your body more && be more comfortable doing this.

i would get him to maybe talk you a bit or maybe do somethin to maybe get you turned on more like kissing you.

maybe more fore play will relax you some.
thats what helped me for my first time.

-*kisses

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Ok male 17 and i am tring really hard to stop masterbating so often but i cant seem to do it any tips? thanks

well males usually do this a bit.
there isn`t nothing wrong with it.
but if your really wanting to not do it so much i recommend finding something else to do when you think about doing it.
most guys actually do it before bed or before showering.
if its before bed maybe read a book or watch t.v.
ummm if it is before showering jus take then shower && go to doing something different.

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i am 15 i have been sexual active since june 28 and i have had sex alot with my boyfriend but all of the sudden we cant have sex that long because it hurts me. and now my boyfriend has noticed that around my clit its really red and under the lips or whatever its really sensetive and it kind of burns when i touch or he does
please help

defiantly see a doctor about this.
i`ve something similar && it might be that you are having sex before being wet or that you have sex too much.
-*kisses

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If you shave your vagina
is it better to use cold or hot or warm water?
thank s

warm water.
cold water will most likely cause goosebumps && make you cut yourself or bleed.
it will be very rough to.
maybe afterwards put non scented lotion to mkae it even softer. =) && i found shaving with conditionor to help to.

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my friend was shot and killed on december 18 and i cant seem to get her out of my head its upseting me horribly what are ways to help

i`m so sorry to hear this.
i just recently had a death in the family to somebody very close to me on new years eve.
&& same as you i have been havin a bit trouble.
i personally find writing feelings down to the person on paper to help.
or to speak out loud as if they were there.
thinking about the person is good but don`t think bad think about the good times.
i always think of the funniest thing that happened and just laugh it always has made me feel better.
-*kisses

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My parents want to give me a credit card for my 16th bday. How can they give me one that goes to their account?

they can always add another card.
they just have to ask the credit card company.
it`ll all be the same account tho.
-*kisses

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Does anyone know where I can get quotes from the movie "The Notebook"?

www.photobucket.com. in the search type in "notebook quotes"
-*kisses

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where are some really good places to get belly button rings besides body candy and claires?

www.piercethis2.com
-*kisses

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Ok, this is a pretty stupid question, but if i ask any of my friends or anything, i will be a total loser! haha!! Ok, there is this guy at my school and being funny or as a joke, this is what he says "you crazy cracker" wtf is a cracker?? i know its something you eat, lol! but i know it has so different meaning to it. and, oh yea, what does "panzee" (sp?) mean?? sorry this is so stupid, but i would like to know. hehe!!!! thanks people! bye!!

cracker=basically means your a white a person.
panzee=like weak or whimp.
-*kisses

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Catliocs or Christians:
Do you have any idea what Mary's mom's name was?

anna.

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I would really like to get a job i am 14 and a great student, i have thought of babysitting but i dont no how to get into it, any ideas thanks
xox

for babysitting you could place an ad in the paper.
or post signs up around your neighborhood.
possibly ask family first if you can babysit && neighbors..

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ello there. i am 17, a virgin, and getting married next month hopefully. i don't want to sound like a complete idiot, but i need to find out bout riding top when having sex. does the girl do most of the work or does he do it. and how exactly does it work? thanx for the help

a female being on top would mean you doing most of the work.
you don`t have to stay in the that postion the whole time.
some girls like being in control && some don`t.
i wouldn`t recomend doing this your first time having sex tho.
if you have any more questions bout sex i`d be happy to help., && your not an idiot

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sooo
i wash my face almost everyday
and i use biore
the green scrub one
and my face has gotten greasier and its really gross
and idk what to do/use!
whats a good product for it so i dont have a greasy face!!
help!

i understand this problem.
i use this stuff from mary kay. its called velocity.
&& i have found it amazing && i love it.
it really keeps my skin cleared && not oily.
you can find this on their site.
http://www.marykay.com
you also could try johnson`s facial cleansers they work good to.

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I come from a small town with not to much to do. Everytime I come home I spend a few days with my girlfriend and for these few days all we do is watch movies and have sex. There must be more to a relationship than that but i dont know what else we can do. If anyone has any suggestions on other things a couple can do I would greatly appreciate it.

theres lots of things you can do other then sex you know..
-take a walk in the park.. a nice one even in the winter time its nice too.. jus make sure to be bundled up..
-if its winter && soon to be snowing playin in the snow is fun no matter what the age is..promise..
-take her out to dinner or make her dinner sometime.
-take her to make a bear like at build a bear..
-when christmas is closer && people have lights up go for a walk at night && look at the lights..
-if its warm take her to a pool // lake to spend time.
-water balloon fight is alot of fun too..
[[lots of my things might sound rather kiddish but its always fun && cute for most females.. && the guys like it because they`re spending time with the girl && making her laugh]]

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i wanna know how you can tell when a guy is mad at you because my friend isn't even that talkative with me ever since we made out...

well people have different ways of showing they`re mad so i really couldn`t tell.
honestly it doesn`t sound like he might be mad.
sounds likehe might feel a little embarrassed or shy.
if he didn`t want to make out with you he would of stopped right.
so he probably is nervous to talk to you cuz he doesn`t want that brought up.

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okay so im 16/f and im a junior.
and i like this kid whos a freshman i know how awful is that? but i mean hes supposed to be a sophmore. so its not that bad. but yeah. and my friend said i should invite him to junior prom. and i know thats a long way away. but would it be kinda dorkish to bring a freshman to junior prom??

thanks in advance.
=)

I don`t see anything wrong with it honestly.
if you like it why does it matter.
&& i don`t think askin him now would be the best time since prom isn`t til like april or so.
i would hang out with him && stuff ya know get to know im before askin him something so soon.

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