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do they think this is weird?
I'm 14/f and I'm a tomboyish girl. I mean I still wear girlyish clothes and shop and gossip and what not but I'm not the ones that are prude or wear pounds of make up or something.
I just get along with guys a lot more easily and I feel more comfortable aroudn them than girls because, well girls criticize and judge so much and ohhhmy the drama. I am also "perverted" not really. But when guys joke about the pen 15 club or LAO or stupid stuff like that or talking about someones doing someone or say stuff like go suck him or something like, I don't really care and I just laugh at it and join in with moronic comments like theirs. One guy and I have this little code for LAO, LOL, WTF, and YO with our hands and we just look at each other and do it out of random when we get bored in class. Hehe, but yeah, do guys think that girls like myself are weird or not or what? Do they feel comfortable around girls like me because it'd suck if they didnt...but tell me the brutal truth
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honestly most guys kinda like girls like that. cause u dont get grossed out when they talk about sex, cause ths almost all they talk about lol.
but thats just what i think.
you may want more opinion of people who actually know the guys your talking about cause some weirdos might not like chicks who willingly talk about that.
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i think theyre comftorble around you as one of the guys. they might noto be intrested in going out with you but if you dont see them in that way i bet they consider you another guy friend.
xo
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i can completely relate to this.
i was the same way at age 14.except i did wear both girly && boyish clothing.
&& friends all i had was guy friends && one girl friend.
from what i`ve experienced guys don`t care && like being able to be comfortable around a female that doesn`t care what they do or say.
your just a friend they aren`t lookin at you more then that apparently so i doubt they think your weird.
guys are less judge mental about that kind of thing then girls.
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in my personal opinion, there is that one guy/a million guys that love that they can act like a guy around a girl and feel comfortable around the girl.
[but im just a girl and that is how my life works,they are comfortable and love the pressience of a girl!]
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Well honestly there's nothing wrong with being a tomboy or getting along better with guys than girls. Some guys are intimidated by that, some guys are pretty comfortable with it, and some guys will just always think of you as "one of the guys." It just depends on who you're going for. All guys are different. I think most guys would think it's pretty cool considering they don't have to put up with all that superficial and emotional crap that most women put them through. Girls that are tomboys are usually pretty outspoken and comfortable being themselves. Don't worry about what others think. I think you're great just the way you are!
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Its not weird to them, they see you as a buddy. I hang out with dudes, and they treat me like one of the guys. I like it like that, because I dont like any of them more then a friend, and they know that, so we're just "homies" haha. They probably feel comfortable around you, ask their opinion, just be like, dude, is it weird hanging out with me because i'm a chick? Dont worry, they'll probably say no. Hope i helped! Good luck.
-Brina
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