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reword, hymen
so me and my boyfriend have had sex twice. the first time we did it i don't think he broke/tore the hymen even though it hurt really bad, basically i kept pushing him off me on reflex. anyway, the second time was yesterday and it also hurt really bad but i still don't know if he tore the hymen, it still hurt and i understand it will hurt the first few times but how do i make sure he fully tore it?
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you don`t always bleed.
not wanting him to do it probably makes it hurt more then it actually is suppose to.
i`d wait til you can relax your body more && be more comfortable doing this.
i would get him to maybe talk you a bit or maybe do somethin to maybe get you turned on more like kissing you.
maybe more fore play will relax you some.
thats what helped me for my first time.
-*kisses
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You need to let him fully have sex with you. Dont push him away. Thats going to make it worst because your not giving your body the oppurtunity to get used to this feeling.
Normally you would see a little blood, or it wont be as painful as it started. Thats all i can really tell you.
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