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my gone friend
my friend was shot and killed on december 18 and i cant seem to get her out of my head its upseting me horribly what are ways to help
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just give it some time. it takes a while for someone to move on from such a loss. First you grieve, then you mourns, then things happen in your life that result in your life moving on. Just follow your instincts with things, and just keep looking forward in life. It's very hard to let someone so close to you, go so fast. Just give it time, and you will move on.
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i`m so sorry to hear this.
i just recently had a death in the family to somebody very close to me on new years eve.
&& same as you i have been havin a bit trouble.
i personally find writing feelings down to the person on paper to help.
or to speak out loud as if they were there.
thinking about the person is good but don`t think bad think about the good times.
i always think of the funniest thing that happened and just laugh it always has made me feel better.
-*kisses
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I always find that it helps to think of all the good times you had with your friend and all the good qualities that she had. If the bad/ sad thoughts pop up in your head again, you should tell someone your feelings, even write them down somewhere. It will help to relieve the pain. It is most definately a difficult time in anyone's life. Just know that you have so many people who care about you and what you are going through.
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First off im sorry about your loss and i know how you feel cause i to have lost a really good friend recentley. you just have to remember the good times you had with them and try and let them go and move on cause thats what they would want you to do, so just do things that make you happy and try to be with someone so your not lonely and hopefully you should be ok.
Good luck hope i helped! =)
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I am so sorry to hear of the tragic death of your friend. The best thing to do at this point is to find ways to honor her memory while at the same time moving forward with your own life. If you don't do this already, I recommend writing down the thoughts and feeling you are experiencing and sharing these feelings with others who knew her. Such a senseless death is certain to be a shock, and you shouldn't try to repress the feelings you are now experiencing. However, it may help to find some activity that will allow you to take your mind off of the images of her death that are likely causing you such pain. Know that even though she has physically left you, she will always have a place in your heart, and nothing can take aware the memories you both shared.
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I'm sorry about that. Its deffinatly goning to be hard to get over this but you have to pull threw. Keep going out having fun take eveything off your mind. You deffinatly shouldnt forget them forever but just set off some time to go have fun and now worry about that.
Jess
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I'm sure you were very close friends with them. Some people are taken from us so abrutly that we don't get a chance to truly say goodbye. I'm sure you are part of that group. I would venture a guess that you should take some time and just kind of talk out loud as if you were talking to your friend. It can be quite helpful to do so every now and then. If you think that's a bit too much for you or you think it makes you look crazy try writing out some of your thoughts. Maybe try writting a letter to them? They are stuck on your mind because either you or they can't let go, if you believe in the afterlife. So let those things out, don't keep them inside of you because it's going to end up hurting you more than it has already.
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