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I am going to Club Paris in Orlando, Florida on Sunday, June 18th. And I'd like to know if any of you know good stores in the Mall that would have good clothes for me to wear. Like I want to wear a low-cut cami type shirt and maybe a skirt, I'm really unsure, what would you wear? Any Suggestions for what I should wear, or good stores?

Well, I think what you chose to wear is really good. If you want a nice jean mini skirt, Abercrombie & Fitch and Hollister have the best ones! They are about $50 each. Hollister, A&F, Aeropostale, and American Eagle all have really cute ones. Aero usually has 50% off sales, so if you want a cute cheap one, then go to Aeropostale. Flip flops would be very very cute, and American Eagle has some cute ones and even Old Navy has some nice ones. Top it off with a big beaded necklace, which you could get at Forever 21, and it would be fabulous! The first person said to go to Wet Seal, and there stuff is really cute, but some of it is really bad quality and a lot of the stuff I got there ripped in the first 3 days, so be careful if you're shopping there.

Hope I helped. ♥

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when parent's ask you a question you don't know the answer to what do you say. They hate it when you say i don't know.

Here's an answer if you want to act like you're smart... "Hypothetically, that is a quite exquisite question, so let me ponder it out for a few moments and I'm determined that I shall have a spectacular conclusion."

If you want to be more simpler then say, "Uh, I need some time to think but come back in a half hour and I'll deffinitely have an answer."

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ok it has been two years for me liking this guy we have went out and broke up several times... currently he is going out with this other girl and it is making me annoyed! I really don't want to like him anymore but i just can't stop and anyways i no for a fact that he likes me bc when i told him i liked him he asked me if i would ever go out with him after him and the other girl broke up...
what should i do about no likeing him anymore cause i really dont want to like him!!! please respond quickly

P.S. know i just cant let go ive been trying for 2 years!!!!!!!!!

Boys can say they love you 100 times, but they don't always mean it. I know this isn't what you want to hear but let me hit you with the truth. Once a couple breaks up, they can go out as many more times as they want, but the relationship is always going to end up over. Maybe 1 in 1000 relationships could stay together, but it's nearly impossible. If you guys broke up before, it was probably for the best. Remember, everything happens for a reason. I know it will be hard to let go and I'm not saying you HAVE to get over him, but it might be your best bet. Think about everything he's done to you and for you. Make a list with one column of all the good things about him, and the other column about the bad things about him. If you do it honestly and correct, if there's a lot more bad things than good things, I would really consider getting over him. Everyone deals with getting over people differently. For some people it helps if you hang out with your friends A LOT more, so you're not thinking about him. Also, if he has a screen name, I would block him and delete him off my buddylist if I were you. Why you ask? Because, if you read his away messages and talk to him online, there's a chance you might start liking him again because when you see that he just signed on, it might make you think of everything you've been through with him. It will also help you forget about him and get over him. I would delete his cell/house number off of your Contacts list on your cell. Once again, you might feel the urge to call him so if his number was off the list, it will help. I know you may still want to be friends with him, but I think if you want to get over him, you have to avoid him in everyway. If you talk to him, you might fall right back in love, so just ignore him at all times. There's not much else you can do, except maybe go to a party and friend some new guys to flirt with.

Take care, and I really hope I helped you. Please contact me in my inbox if you need further assistance.

~Isabella.

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my puppy is adorable but he can get very aggressive and bites a lot. Is there a way to make him stop?

Your problem is rather normal, because my puppy went through the same thing, and he wasn't mean at all. When they first develop their teeth, they want to bite everything in site. It's a natural instinct, but it sure is a hassle. What I did for my dog, is I bought him like 5 or 6 chew toys and then everytime he tried to bite, I just put the chew toy in his mouth so he could bite that instead. Spread the chew toys around the house so wherever he is, he can get to the chew toy. It really works. (Well, for my dog it did.) It gets their mind off biting a person. Well, try to take my advice and let me know if it works.

hope i helped ♥

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hey! since you're the expert .. haha i was wondering if you knew if the venders take checks? or travelers checks? & do they have like designer belly rings and like chanel jewelry? get back at me whenever you can=) xoxo

haha, im glad you think of me as an "expert."

nope they don't take any kind of checks whatsoever. It's cash only. yeah it sucks, i know. =(

and they have just about everything. i'm not sure if they have *designer* belly rings, but i do know they have belly rings. i guess it will be your mission to look around. i'm sure they have them though. you're going to have to do some rummaging, because everything isn't in one seperate spot. when i went, the items weren't all orderly and they were just put anywhere on the table. so just keep your eyes open and i'm almost positive i saw some designer belly rings.

and yup they have chanel jewelry. if you're looking for real chanel jewelry, then you won't find it in canal street because like i always say, nothing they sell is real. but if you're looking for the knock off stuff, since it's illegal to sell knockoffs, ask them if they have any and they will usually take you in a little trap door or in the basement where all of the "illegal" knockoffs are sold. (they have to keep them hidden and out of site.)

best of luck and have fun

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hi okaii im 14 and i have had it for about a year and ahlaf or sumtin like that... and like i got it the last on may 15 and it ended the 21st... now its june 1st and i have it again??? its been 10 days is this normal??

yeah that's normal, it's nothing to worry about. like what was said underneath me, it takes a while for your period to be regular. sometimes it even lasts longer or shorter then it usually does. sometimes it will come when it's supposed to, but don't always count on it. it will take maybe 3 more years before it's regular. so don't even worry or go to the doctors. you're just an average teenager. :)

good luck
take care

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okay.
im 13.
i just got my frist period this morning.
i dont wanna tell my mom! should i keep it low for a while? or no..?
i took some of my sis's pads.

you need to tell her. if i were you i would walk up to her really casually and say "mom, guess what?" and let her say "what?" and then answer by saying, "this morning i got my period." she probably won't make a huge deal about it. it's only best to tell her. that's your best bet. you're going to have to eventually tell her anyway, so just get it over with now, right? it's not like it's some disease. every female that has ever lived on this earth, does live on this earth, and will live on this earth, will eventually recieve their period. all girls go through it, so don't feel like you're alone. trust me it might seem scary, but as soon as you let it off your chest you'll be glad you got it done and over with. you're not by yourself out there. i've gone through it too.

best of luck
take care
~~~~*isabella*~~~~

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will swimming around a 14ft. pool 25 times with just my arms, help get rid of the fat under my arm?

if not what can i do that will work in like 1 week.
il rate 5s.

yeah it will. eat healthy too or you'll just gain all the fat back. i'm glad you're staying with your commitment. you should see results. if not tell me and i figure out whats wrong. :)

hope i helped &herats;

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i hate it when people talk about me behind my back but unfortunatly people do. and i dont know how to deal with it anymore. i used to ignore it but i cant anymore and im ready to snap. what should i do?

tell the school guidance counselor. they will make this come to an end. you'll never have to deal with it again. end of story please just take my word.

i know i only gave you one suggestion, but i feel this is the best way to solve your problem!

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I'm 14/F. ok, I'm going to a graduation party this weekend and we will most likly end up playing spin the bottle or truth or dare, or some other type of kissing game. A guy I like might be at the party and if me and him are supposed to make-out, is it a turn-on to him if I'm like "ok, let's go for it!". (or basically not turning the kiss down.)

PS... not sure if this is in the right topic, but I just figured it fit this one best.

heyy. haha, this is a good question. i think you shouldn't even say anything at all. if you say "lets go for it" you might scare him! so don't even respond and just put a little grin on and casually walk over to him. that's a *little* bit more romantic i guess you could say! i hope you have fun at the party!

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so I fantizise about my gf a lot. not like sex but like making out and stuff. we've never made out but I know she'd like it but I don't know how to tell her that I want some of these things without seeming like a perv. like making out and laying on a bed and stuff... laying between her legs and kissing her that kind if thing. how could I tell her that I want that or would it be better to just do it and see how she reacts?
thx!

just straight up tell her! when your hanging out with her whisper in her ear that you wanna make out with her to make it more "sexy." if you're a teenager which i'm guessing you are, most girls want to make out with their boyfriend. i'm sure she fantasizes making out with you too. it's perfectly normal and i'm sure she wouldn't blow off her chance if you asked her to do it!! she'll probably be thrilled you had the courage to bring it up.

hope i helped ♥

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Hey guys..I just wanted to know what you think is better..Being single over the summer or having a boyfriend?

well if you're single you can flirt with anyone you want and you just feel free with no limits.

if you have a boyfriend, you can do fun stuff with him like a walk on the beach, golfing, going in a pool and it would make a great date! Remember if you see another cute guy though, you can't flirt with him even if you're tempted! haha

i didn't fully understand the question, so i tried my best.

hope i helped. ♥

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Can u get pregnant by masturbating?BY any chance?
in this way, i mean masturbating by yourself

hey. it takes BOTH a male and female to create a baby and to fertilize an egg. you can't get pregnant without a sperm from a male. so NO you can NOT get pregnant. you need to have sex with a boy to get pregant.

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On one of my mySpace pictures, this guy wrote "Rawr! that's hot *tssss*" I don't get the "*tssss*" Is that supposed to be like a sexy cat noise, or does it mean "Rawr! That's hot---no"



he thinks your hot! congrats lol. you know when people put their finger in their mouth and touch their tounge then put the finger on their butt and go "tssss" it just means it's sizzling (aka hot.) It's a good thing! Don't be mad, be glad. :)

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A couple days ago, on myspace, I was on my friends page, and I saw this guy [one of his skater friends] and I thought he was hott and he lives in my town, and he's my age, so I figured I'd add him as a friend because there are good chances of us already knowing each other. Well it turned out to be one of my ex-boyfriends from a few years ago. You know. We dated when we were young. I was like 13-14 or something. Now I am 17 & He's 18. Well when we were together he liked me a lot and he was really sweet and everything. Like a perfect boyfriend, but we were young, so it really didn't matter. Well now we found out who each other is, and we can't believe we are talking again after these years have gone by. Well the problem is, I have been talking to him again for a couple of days and we talk on the phone and stuff, but he tells me how cute I am, and he brags about me, and he TELLS ME HE LOVES ME. I don't know what to do. I don't want to ignore him anymore, I just want to be friends because I have my most recent ex boyfriend whom I love very much and he just got a job for me and everything.

let everything off your chest. tell him how you feel. that's really all i can say. he'll understand. i promise. you have my word.

♥ hope i helped

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well theres this guy i sorta like. but my friends really dont like him. and im embarrased to go out with him or what ever. i dunno what to do cus i cant stop likeing him!

tell your friends to screw off! (excuse my language) it's your life not theirs. if you want to go out with him then it's your choice. don't let your friends butt in and tell you what to do. take control of your life, and if you like him go for it. don't care what people will think either.

hope i helped ♥

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When you shave are you supposed to shave the upper part of your leg too? I never have because the hairs are so light you can notice...but are you supposed to?

if you want to. it really depends. if the hair is really light, then you don't need to. remember if you shave it, it will just grow back DARKER. so your choice.

♥ hope i helped

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My friend gave me a bottle of purfume that she didnt want a couple of months ago. She doesn't know where she got it from, and im not sure whats it called. But im in LOVE with it. It smells awesome. It has a blue cap and the bottle starts at a blue at the top and fades to a pink towards the bottom. Its sort of tall and skinnier, not short and wide. It has 3 hearts on the bottom one inside the other. Right below the cap, theres pink chrome and the letters e s c a d a, seperated by hearts. im not sure wich order the letters are in because i dont know where the letts start and stop. if you could tell me what this purfume is called i will def. rate a FIVE and give feedback. thxx

that purfume is the escada pacific paradises. i should know because i have 4 bottles of it and actually i have it on right now, as we speak! haha. it smells REALLYYY good. don't you love it? lol.

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Here is something I have always thought to be true:

If you go to a food service-type industry, and the person serving you interests you, it is not entirely wrong if one were to make some sort of 'move' toward the person, perhaps in a subtely manner which may or may not end in the reception of a phone number.

However, unless provoked, the person serving, unless attempting to simply milk a tip from the person, should not directly hit on any customers.

Does anyone else agree? I work at an ice cream shop, and during the summer, there are plenty of...well...chances.

wow, you have good vocabulary. i can hardly understand one word you said but i'm going to try to help!! i agree with you. end of story.

there's nothing else to add because what you believe is a good thing so good choice!

hope i helped

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k, i know if 13 but i WANT bigger boobs, i hate waiting! i'm always being called 'flat' and i hate it, can i eat something or do something to make them bigger without stuffing or implants?!

you should deffinitely go to victoria's secret and get push up/padded bras! if you know what bra size you are, then just go to the store and ask them for what they prefer! victoria's secret has the best ones, and i know a lot of the other people already said that, but i wanna keep re-inforcing it! k-mart's might be okay, but if you want a good brand that will deffinitely make a difference, then go to victoria's secret.

here's a link to the bra section in victoria secret...
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/category/?cgnbr=OSBRPZZZZZZ

find a bra you like and maybe print out a picture of it and bring it to the store! yeah, they cost a lot, but trust me they work! i used to be REALLY flat chested and i got a pushup bra from victoria's secret, and it didn't look like i was flat anymore! haha.

hope i helped!
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