Mackenzie's advice column

♥[?]♥ Ok, So im a guy and im wondering if girls like guys when the shave down there. Should We shave completly or trim it so its out of the way. Whats best? All answers are appreciated.

I always thought a fuzzy man is the man for me. Though recently, someone showed me that things can be quite lovely on the other side. Honestly, shaven was probably appreciated. A little less to worry about, but when it comes right down to it, beggers can't be choosers, and I still have a thing for a masculine, furry man. Hope that answers the question? It's just one opinion. Really, you should do whatever makes you feel comfortable. You're the one you should concern yourself with pleasing first. If you're uncomfortable with your body, how do you expect to reveal it to someone else, you know?

♥[?]♥ what do you find atractive.. because im having som troulbes in the ladies department

Manners, much facial hair and a firm hand shake is what it takes to spark my interest. Beyond that, I like to surround myself with good, frequent conversation, an all around sense of humor, and someone who views themselves respectfully and strives to be a better person with each and every passing day. :)

♥[?]♥ My best friend is moving away tomorrow! Tonight I was going to bake cookies or cake for them, which do you think is better? THANKS!

While either one would be a lovely gesture, I say cookies. You can still decorate them - perhaps in a variety of colors and patterns, which would make things more fun. You could also choose to make an assortment of kinds, instead of one chocolate cake, which someone might not like. Also, if she is actually packing up and leaving tomorrow, cookies would be easier to transport.

♥[?]♥ The other day I was thinking, and if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend and you kiss a friend. Like the person is totally just your friend and nothing more.. is it still cheating ?

Absolutely-Positively.

♥[?]♥ hi is there anyway to tell who reads your blogs on myspace?

Simply check who reads them? Nope, unfortunately. You can, however, see who has Subscribed. Though, most people don't bother doing the Subscriptions. Probably because they never want to be found out, in most cases.

♥[?]♥ is it true that when your ears ring it means someone is talking about you?

my friend said it was true..but i dont believe it.

There's no way of knowing whether it's true or not. It's just a game. When your ears begin to ring, you're supposed to say a number at random between 1 and 26. Whichever letter of the alphabet that number is, is the first letter of the first person you know whose name begins with that letter. Say you pick number 13. The 13th letter would be "M". So maybe you know a Melissa, or Michael, or whatever. It's just whomever springs to your mind first is said to be talking about you. Make sense? :)

♥[?]♥ How do I delete a blog comment?
My friend left a dirty comment under my myspace login on someone else's blog. How do I delete it?

Unfortunately, there isn't any deleting a Blog comment on a Blog that was not written by you. Only the Blog owner has the option of nuking the comment. =/

♥[?]♥ Does anyone know of a website that can calculate how many calories you burn while doing an exercise. All I can find are sites that only tell how many calories you burn when you are like..skiing, and biking. Is there any simple ones just like...pushups, sit-ups, chin-ups, hogging in place, weight lifting, etc.?

I would really appreiciate it if someone could answer this for me.

http://www.nutristrategy.com/activitylist4.htm

The best website for the job, if you ask me. =)

♥[?]♥ Do you have to be 18 to buy condoms?

No, you do not have to be 18 to purchase condoms. Somehow, kids generally find a way to do whatever it is they want to do, regardless of what anyone says. Bottom line is, if you can't stop their decision, you might as well encourage them go about it wisely. Using condoms is considered safe sex, and nobody has the right to take that away from you. :)

♥[?]♥ My dog died. I've been trying to forget about it. It died when I was on vacation about 3 weeks ago and my friend and her parents also my older brother was watching him while we were gone so they said he was attacked by some other animal. How do I forget about him?

Negative. You don't "forget", you just accept matters and find a way of adjusting. A dog is just as much a member of the family as everybody else. Things will be different, but you can manage by hanging onto fond memories. It might be devastating, but all good things must come to an end.

http://www.belairemanor.com/home/rainbow2.html

There is a link you might be interested in checking out. It's a very sad video, and it will probably make you cry. The point of the video is that even though the animal might not be visible.. that doesn't make them any more alive in your heart.

Just remember that true friendship bears zero limitations. (=

♥[?]♥ Hey, Im a guy, still a virgin and i was wondering how reliable a condom is. Is it a recommended Idea to double up. I know the chances are like 2-3 in 100 but would doubling up make it like.001 percent chance. Thanks answers are appreciated

Never, ever wear more than one condom at a time. They will rub together, which will cause friction and result in an easy tear.

♥[?]♥ My boyfriend and I went to breakfast today and he kissed the waitress on the lips and she had a nickname for her. He insists she is is like a sis to him. They have known each other before I even met him. Am I too jealous, how should I react?

WTFFFFFF!!!!! You need to give him the BOOT!

♥[?]♥ what is a link where i can watch the old geico commercial with the soap opera? the one where its the man and woman and the man goes "i just saved a bunch of money on my car insurance. i saved! i thought that meant something to you?!"

Here ya go:
http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=704375410 :)

♥[?]♥ alright i was with my girlfriend and she was on top yah know..and she orgasmed before i did...and well frankly she pulled off too soon and i was about ready to ejaculate...now that i have blue balls and it hurts like a bitch. how do i rid myself of blue balls.

i rate answers.

Whack that junk, Dude.

♥[?]♥ 15/M Do girls like guys that wear cologne? Would they like a 15 year old with cologne? I've heard that girls don't like it because cologne reminds them of their dad or grandpa. I was just wondering.

Oh jeez. My man wears the most amazing cologne. Makes me want to hold him tightly every single second! Generally speaking, there isn't much going wrong with cologne. Just don't overdo it. If you apply too much, it seems to smell sour. Though once you find a scent you are pleased with, it becomes a great personal remebrance. It makes for fantastic, everlasting memories. My man and I live further apart than we would like. We don't get to see each other often, but when he sends me mail, he sprays it with his cologne. It gets me through. =) =)

♥[?]♥ 19/F

My mom called me this morning to tell me that my dog was at the veterinary clinic all last night, and that he's dying of kidney failure or cancer. They've decided to put him to sleep today.

I feel really guilty because I haven't been home for a month, so I haven't seen my dog. I really want to be there to say goodbye to him, but I can't go back to my parents' house until this coming weekend.

Does anyone have any advice on how to get through this? I feel like I've lost my best friend.

http://www.belairemanor.com/home/rainbow2.html

There is a link you might be interested in checking out. I want to warn you that it's an extremely sad video, and it will probably make you cry. The point of the video is that even though the animal might not be visible.. that doesn't make them any more alive in your heart. :)

♥[?]♥ I have been invited(not yet, but going to be) back to rejoin a forum that I was banned/deleted from .well I htink I was just deleted because of stupid reasons and we are trying to work things out with the webmaster who owns this forum. Should I actually go back? Due to what is happening, I am afriad since I was deleted along with a friend that things will start up again. I know that people hate us for whats going on, etc. But I am not so sure about going back to a forum where I was loved because everyone hates a friend of mine and they hate me, etc and I am just afraid things will get worse, etc. anyone ever been invited back to a forum before? Any help would be awesome!

Actually, they're likely to think less of you if you didn't go back. Show them that you have learned from your past mistakes, or your friends, whatever the case may be. Show them that you have what it takes to readily own up to and place these errors in the past and start anew. :)

♥[?]♥ hey people does anyone no any good snowboarding beats to shred to on your board if you dont no wht i meen like .. beats like fast and fruious tokyos drift - restless and like if you no any good techno beats tell me or jus any good songs thanks
dianna

I hope you're planning on downloading these songs legally. Otherwise, we will all be in trouble for providing assistance in committing a crime. I'll place my trust in you, and take a chance here. :)

La Bouche - Be My Lover
Less Than Jake - The Science Of Selling Yourself Short
Juvenille - Back That Thang Up
Basement Jaxx - Where's Your Head At
Boyz II Men - Motown Philly
Jimmy's Chicken Shack - What Do I Do
Blumchen - Heut Ist Mein Tag (I think it's German (?), but it's REAL intense!)
Rockell - In A Dream
Amber - This Is Your Night
Gina G - Just A Little Bit
Hollywood Undead - No. 5
Technotronic - Pump Up The Jam
Technotronic - Move This
Hampton the Hamster - Hamster Dance

♥[?]♥ When would the appropriate time to let your boyfriend finger you? I'm ready but we've only dated for 1 month would that be pushing things to fast in our relationship? Thanks in advance!

Moving "fast" to you may not be fast to others. Then there are those who prefer not to engage in sexual activies before marriage to begin with. I think the most important thing to keep in mind is that sexual encounters should always be comfortable. If you have to ask this question, then ovbiously the level of comfort has not been met, and that is absolutely fine. There just isn't any set "time" to do these things. It is all dependant on your morals and personal beliefs.

♥[?]♥ ok well my girlfreinds birthday is coming up and she told me to buy her perfume that i really liked, beacuse she's sweet like that. any ways. i really dont know much about perfumes, but i really want to get her prefume and use this chance because a good smelling perfume is a HUGE turn on for me.
so my question is this..what are some decently priced perfumes that smell really good, i just dont know where to start. there is this one kind of perfume that i smelled once, but i dont remember any thing about it, except that it smelled amazing.

so got any ideas?

Liz Claiborne's "Curve Crush" smells fantastic, if you ask me. I just got some the other day. That can be purchased at Walmart for $21.00 and change. Might I also recommend another fragraince by Liz Claiborne, "Mambo", which is my all time favorite. :D

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