Question Posted Wednesday November 8 2006, 11:03 pm
alright i was with my girlfriend and she was on top yah know..and she orgasmed before i did...and well frankly she pulled off too soon and i was about ready to ejaculate...now that i have blue balls and it hurts like a bitch. how do i rid myself of blue balls.
Erronius answered Thursday November 9 2006, 2:21 am: LOL @ the 1st 2 answers.
But seriously, they pretty much sums it up, or at least the most obvious answer. Its either that, or get used to it. Its pretty much up to you, but I can tell you from experience that its not all that hard to endure, its more annoying than anything else.
I've known women who think this is a myth, along with thinking that men 'make up' being hurt when they get their testicles crushed ("Why is your face that shade of purple? Oh c'mon, that couldn't have hurt, I didn't put all my weight down...").
sizzlinmandolin answered Thursday November 9 2006, 12:33 am: Your girlfriend should have your interests in mind too. There's no reason why she can't keep going for a little bit. If she doesn't want to have sex anymore, she can give you oral sex or manual sex to help you finish. I'm sure she wants you to, but how is she supposed to know what's going on if you don't tell her? All you have to do is ask. The most important thing about sex is talking to the other person and telling them what's going on. If she's doing something wrong or could do it better, tell her how. If you're mature enough to be having sex, you should be mature enough to talk about it. Talk even while you are having sex. Phrases like "just a little longer" aren't going to offend her and they will solve your problem. She should talk too and let you know when she's about to have an orgasm and such. If for some reason you get interrupted and aren't able to continue with it, just masturbate when you get the chance. I can't see how you would have a problem with that if you're having pre-marital sex with her anyways. Good luck. [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
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