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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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um i know this is kind of a weird question but how do u kiss/makeout? like what are some "techniques?" and what exactly is making out, it it basically french kissing? thanks, i rate

omg there is soooooo many techniques that you can never go wrong when kissign and making out. something you might u want to try is while makin out put ur hands different places. liek on the neck, the ass, hold hands and do it etc,french kissing is basically stickin your tongue into someone elses mouth and playin wit it. if you want i can give you some stes to help you out. just drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hi, I am 15 and I will be 16 in March. My ex boyfriend broke up with me cause his parents were afraid he would get introuble with the law cause he is 19. We weren't doing anything sexual, is it still illegal to even date? I live in Michigan and I know the age for sex here is 16, but what about just dating?

Now he wants to wait till he moves out at the end of March or later to go back out. Cause he HAD to leave me or get kicked out of his house. Should I wait for him.. or move on? I really love him.. and he doesn't even know if we will ever get back together. I'm confused and heartbroken, any advice?

if you really love this guy you will wait for him. a guy has to do what guy has to do. i mean would u want him kicekd out of his house?? i hope not. just talk it out with him and tell him how you feel about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm having alot of trouble with the whole 'love thing'. I've been dating this kid Billy for a really long time, well about a month, but we dated once before for a long time, but we had a little bit of a break in between. At the same time, I've been talking to Bryan. Bryan is one of my best friends, and I fell in love with him about a year ago. He's twenty one. I haven't been able to move on my feelings though, because he dated my other best friend who is in love with him, but that's how I met him. I don't know what to do. I love them both to death, but how do I know what to do or who to pick. Billy lives in North Carolina, and Bryan lives in South Carolina. I live in New Jersey, so the whole distance thing sucks. At the sane time I want to be single because I don't want to be tied down, but I love being in relationships too. I'm so confused! What do I do?

you need to think about the pros and cons about all three possible solutions. i would suggest not to go out with bryan because it might ruin you and your friends friendship. i dont think a guy is worth a friendship. i cant really tell you what you need toso but if i were in your situation i would get single and get all the stress out of ur head.
*~Stephanie~*

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I am a girl and was wondering if any other girls have the same thing that I have. Well this is going to sound really gross, but here goes. I have hair growing inside of my butt cheeks, right near my anus. It's not just fine hair either, it's dark and course, like the same type of hair that I have growing on my vagina. I goes all the way up my butt cheeks. It's so embarrassing! I also have dark hairs growing on my breasts, right around my nipples. My question is: is this normal? And if it's not, what can I do to get rid of it? It's too hard to shave down there. I would appreciate any advice!!

hey girly! everything on you is perfectly normal. i swear everyone has hair growin on them on every part of there body.
*~Stephanie~*

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there is this girl that i realy like

(she is in 8th grade and i am in 7th)

the only problem is that our parents are going out... what should i do?

you better watch out on this one. i mean it is like a 50% chance but you guys might become brother and sister and i dont think you sould be wanting to go out with your own sister. but in the mean time just do what you do best talk to her, flirt wit her, get to know her, and eb yourself. to find out if she likes you flirt with her and figure out her reaction. that will tell you a lot.
*~Stephanie~*

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is 16 years old too old for a 14 year old?
because i don't think its a problem and it never ever seemed like a problem until one of my friends brought it up. hes totally cool with it. and he doesn't like force me to do anything. its nice. but is he really too old?

hell no there is nothing wrong wit that. shit that si same age difference wit me and my bf. lol.. nobody should tell you not to go out with somebody because of there age. you shouldnt listen to people when they tell you that kind of stuff. hun dont worry about wothers think it is all on you. you are goin out with him not them so dont worry about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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Well i like three boys and two probably likes me back but i dream bout two boys and but 1 might not like me bak i really do not now which one to pick because they all are sweet but one has a reputation of playing girls what should I do?

well you need to follow your heart and do what you think is right. it isnt like anyone over here knows the guys and even if we did wqe arent the ones going out with them you are. just do what you think is right/ like make pros and cons for each person and figure out which is better and why. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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alright a while ago i was basicly raped and forst to give oral sex.. I went to get tested for stds and everything and they said if I get cold sores to come back for herpes testing.. well I have like dry spots on the edge of my mouth but i dont think its herpes! its just lik a lil cuts on the edge of my mouth but i dont think i have any stds..

what do you think?

i would go to planned parenthood and get tested. i would go there because eveyrything you say to them is confidenatual and they wotn tell your parents ntohing. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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15/f Okay, so I went out with this guy for almost 9 months. I grew really attached to him. Then suddenly he said the relationship wasn't working. So you can imagine I was crying nonstop for a few days because he was acting all happy while all I do was lay down, not eat and sleep. So 3 days after the split, I went to see him and before that, he said we shouldn't kiss but yeah...we made out. I went to see him again after that and we made out again. So a couple of days pasted by, he said we shouldn't get back together but lately he's been calling me "babe" and telling me "I love you" and similar things to that. He said he won't date other people and that he hasn't been flirting with anyone. A lot of girls found out he's single and has been flirting with him like crazy but he's avoiding it all. What am I supposed to think? He says hes single, what am I? Am I on a leash? He says he still likes me a lot. Should I still hold onto him or try to move on?

you need to move on. forget this guy. it sound like right now he is usin you because he knows you were attacted to him and noes you will go back to him.
*~Stephanie~*

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alright now i need help boys are welcome too..well i have known this boy for 9 years and he's ok. we went out a few times and still to this very moment like each other. We're in 8th grade and are 14yrs old .but we can't go together (distance). Well he keeps doing stuff that really turns me off and i know i have to deal but how? Like he says stuff like just messing with me but it really annoyes me cause resently i've become pretty sincitive about his comments. so all and all technically we go together but literally we don't.I try not to respond to him like he's my bf but i can't help it which is making things worse. Confused and feel helpless! Pleez give advice.

P.S first time writing nixt time i'll try to make it shorter srry : /

well you can do two things. if you guys really have strong feelings towards each other i suggests tryin to make it work out. number two stay as friends and stop feelin so attacted to him. (like dont feel like he is ur bf) you should get over him and find someone new to set your mind on. as for the fact of him bothering you tell him to stop. he probably thinks it isnt botherin you and that is why he keeps doin it.
*~Stephanie~*

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is there any way to become, less depressed?

go somewhere do soemthing fun and stop thinkin so negative. that will make you less depressed.
*~Stephanie~*

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Theres this guy ive talked to for about a year now. Well recently he saw me for the first time..now hes always sayin like you shuld move up here. he'd be like how old are you again and id tell him hed be like damn id say why and he`d take awhile and be like uh i dunno..whats he thinkin?does he like me or is he jus curious? I am 16 hes 18 we both live in california different parts though. THANX A BUNCH!

the reason why he says damn when he asks how old u r because he is an adult and u r concidered a miner. nobody really knows what is goin through his head because guys have crazy things goin through there heads all the time. what you have ot od is ask him what he thinks.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay. So this guy is a junior and I'm a freshman...and he goes to my school and everything. We talk online, when he is on. And I see him at school and he like sometimes looks at me and stuff. He talks to me like everyday and like ever since its been after christmas break, he has like stopped talking to me. but he still looks at me and stuff. but like he has seemed like hes mad and I have tried talking to him online, and he wont reply. But one time I did ask why he didnt talk to me? and hes like i dont know. So I dont know if he likes me anymore and I kind of miss him talking to me.

leave the guy alone. dont waste your time on him. it seems like he doesnt like care. find yourself a guy that is a keeper and not an ass. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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can you guys tell me anything you can about limewire. past expierences, problems, things you liked, things you didnt like, do you think its worth it to DL it.

thanks!!

i have had limewire for 2 years now. i love it. if you have a firewall and virus protection then you got nothin to worry about. i also used to have Kazaa. that thing sucked ass.. not all the songs work on it and it wasnt good. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I am an advicenator and i am new so i didn't know what to do. i pushed random quesion for me to anwser and i got one about a girl and she said her friend started cutting himself and she said he might commit suicide, i told her to get an adult now! did i do the right thing, please help i am new!

on this site there really isnt a wrong answer. it is all what you think and believe. nobody is wrong unless they are being dumbass on this site. hope this helps.

p.s.

yes you did do the right thing.
*~Stephanie~*

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My mind always fills dirty things about guys. I always fantasize about their penises like how big they have, shaved or un-shaved, fat or thin. Its about all men, young and old, known or unknown. Imagine when I talk to a man, my mind goes fantasizing about his penis, Is this sickness?
I am 15/F.

actually it is kinda normal.. i mean nobody can help it when they are horny. you are just more horny then most people. it is natural to be like that. dont worry about it. everyone goes through a time like that. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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me and my bf made a bet about who could stay up the longest, and if he lost, he had to go some where with me, and if I lost, i have to kiss him. WE called it a tie, but we still have to go through with it. What should I do?

ha ha ha me and bf always do that except instead of who will stay up longer it is more like which team whens the football game. and or to do thing was not as clean as urs. anyways we always mess around but never really do it bc my bf knows that i am not ready yet. but it is always fun to joke around like that. but since yours isnt so bad i suggest to just go through wit it if you are ready. this all depends on how long you have been together and if this is ur first kiss. if it is then dont worry about it. it isnt as difficult as it sound trust me. hope this helps. if you need anything else drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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OKay Im 13 female.. and my best friend is .. 12 male .. im serious he iS MY BEST FRIEND!
Well i accused my best friend of someting and ive been totally killing him and he just looks at me an f rowns.. and i cussed him out.. then i found out he didnt tell my secret.. someone else did.. and he told me wen i accused him HE WUD NEVER TELL anything about his BEST FRIEND and he said he loved me.. what do i do to apollogize.. and he tried to kiss me on the cheek and hug me.. and i turned around ! WUT DO I DO!!?!/
I WILL RATE 5!!

figure out a way to call him up or cotact him and tell him how sorry you feel and how you made a mistake. remember true friends are hard to find so you need to get him back and apologize and maybe if you have to give him a hug and a kiss on check just like tryed to do to you. hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

i am behind you 120% of the way but just like real world there are stupid dumbass like that. there is a way to ban then but then since they know the site they will just make a new one and come back.
*~Stephanie~*

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is it true tampons make your cherry pop? and does it mean you're not a not a virgin anymore?

yes you can pop your cherry with a tampon but you cant loose your virginity to it. the only you can do that is if you have sex wit the opposite sex of you.
*~Stephanie~*

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