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Love triangle?
I'm having alot of trouble with the whole 'love thing'. I've been dating this kid Billy for a really long time, well about a month, but we dated once before for a long time, but we had a little bit of a break in between. At the same time, I've been talking to Bryan. Bryan is one of my best friends, and I fell in love with him about a year ago. He's twenty one. I haven't been able to move on my feelings though, because he dated my other best friend who is in love with him, but that's how I met him. I don't know what to do. I love them both to death, but how do I know what to do or who to pick. Billy lives in North Carolina, and Bryan lives in South Carolina. I live in New Jersey, so the whole distance thing sucks. At the sane time I want to be single because I don't want to be tied down, but I love being in relationships too. I'm so confused! What do I do?
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Firstly, if your friend is in love with this 'Bryan', you need to make sure you stay well away. I understand you have feelings for him and I would never suggest for a second that you ignore those feelings but you need to remember that NO guy is worth losing a friend over.
As for Billy, if you're this undecided about him, it's probably you also don't date him. For one thing, dating over long distances is difficult enough and if you're unsure of your feelings then there's no point in trying to hold the relationship over a long distance and it would be more fair to both of you to go your separate ways.
It sounds as though right now you really don't know what you want. Unfortunately, I can't help you there but I can suggest that the best thing for you might be to stay single for a while and sort yourself out.
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you need to think about the pros and cons about all three possible solutions. i would suggest not to go out with bryan because it might ruin you and your friends friendship. i dont think a guy is worth a friendship. i cant really tell you what you need toso but if i were in your situation i would get single and get all the stress out of ur head.
*~Stephanie~*
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