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there is this girl that i realy like
(she is in 8th grade and i am in 7th)
the only problem is that our parents are going out... what should i do?
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If your parent is going out with her parent... its a bad move to go out with her. What if your parents get married? Then your step-sister would be your ex!!!!! That would be weird. But if that doesnt bother you, or her, ask her out. Its worth a shot.
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you can't date someone who could end up being your step-sister! if you tell her how you feel, since she is a matur 8th grade girl, she will probly tell you that that would be odd and probably tell her mom, causing you more embarresment.
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It will make it strange that you two might be quasi-siblings. DO NOT PURSUE. There are other fish in the sea, you are young yet. Trust me, it will be better for YOU if you leave it as is.
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Flashbacks of when I was yur age - trying to let a girl know i liked her. Before you jump into ( the dating world )this... You need to know how to handle rejection. If you can't handle rejection; like starting to sob there on the spot or blocking the rest of teh world out for a month after a "No" then wait until u (no offense) mature some.
I'm pointing this out to you not because I'm trying to scare you, but to try and protect ya little byrd. In this situation I already see three cons against you:
1) She is older than you - though a 1 year age difference doesn't make much difference in the adult dating life, a year is a lifetime in junior high.
2) Her mother is dating your father
3) She has no idea you have a crush on her.
- Tell her flat out you like her
- i know, easier said than done.
- Be creative
- find a common ground you both share
I know @ yur age, when you really like someone, it sucks because all you do is think about that person, you get that butterfly feeling, and it's hard as hell to tell her you like her.
You know a good way to break the ice is to... Carry her books for her to one of her classes ( sounds gay, but if done right - its perfect ). Go up to her, " Give me your books" if she asks why or what are you doing? just tell her -- " Give me your books, lets walk together - I need to tell you something" Tell her "you know, theres this situation I have. I know our parents are dating, which makes this all the more difficult, which is why I have to tell you this sooner than later." Then tell her in your own words that you like her.
All you need right now is to know if she has mutual feelings. If she doesn't, both yur parents will never have to know about this and it's done.
Lol, i can just imagine what yur going through. sorry ddint mean to laugh but --- im just remembering myself when I was yur age, telling the 1st girl I liked - that i liked her.lol
Good luck little Byrd.
~Infamous Trump~
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Dude, you better hurry up and get you some before she turns into your sister.
lol, im KIDDING gawd.
You're 12 yrs old man... it's np
First importantly, you don't want to embarrass yourself or the girl.
If you can't get this girl out of your head, then you NEED to find out if she likes you.
If she doesnt like you, then bam we're done here.
If she likes you, then I think you should tell father about it and see where his point of view falls on the situation... If your fathers 1 of those bastards that'll go tell that girls mom about it and embarass yur girly friend - then don't do it --- remmeber - 1st n most importantly --- don;t embarass the girl.
lataz
~Infamous Trip~
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you better watch out on this one. i mean it is like a 50% chance but you guys might become brother and sister and i dont think you sould be wanting to go out with your own sister. but in the mean time just do what you do best talk to her, flirt wit her, get to know her, and eb yourself. to find out if she likes you flirt with her and figure out her reaction. that will tell you a lot.
*~Stephanie~*
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wait until your parents break up. Then make your move in the mean time don't show any intrest in her.
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Most of the time when you like someone, they like you back. Don't worry about that. If she's worth it (she sounds like she is) be willing to take the plunge. Before asking her out I think that you need to talk to your parent that's dating her parent. It would be the respectful thing to do and you'd figure out how they would feel about it. Personally, I think that it is perfectly okay just as long as you aren't living together. If you're living together it's incest. I hope I helped you and good luck. :)
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If it turns out she's interested, date her anyway. It's not like your parents are married. And if they ever did get married and you guys are still dating, who cares? You aren't related by blood and it's not like you grew up together.
P.S. It is not incest if you two did end up living together. That's really melodramatic. It's only incest if two people who share the same genes participate in sexual activity.
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Jesus, divorced parents who date while they have kids are so selfish! It causes a lot of problems.
You aren't related by blood, so I'd say as long as your mom's relationship isn't serious, do it.
You might want to be safe and wait though.
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You should ask her out and see if it works out and if it does then thats great!!
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If the relationship with your guys parents are serious i`d forget it cuz that might be your step sister but if they just startin out or something maybe not be girlfriend and boyfriend but try being good friends then see what happens from there.. Your still quite young and so is she so you don`t want this to be something serious at a young age but if it happens that way good for you =) ♥Dez
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