Today the kid who sits across from me(who i kind of like, but would go out with) said,"Do you want to be my girlfriend?" I said "what?" "Do you wan't to be my girlfriend?" I kind of laughed it off.
The thing is, even though i would go out with him, we fight like brother and sister so I'm not sure if he's being serious about this or not. You can't really tell with him. How do I find out if he was actually serious or not? (He asked out one of my bfs yesterday and got turned down)
Please help
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Hell, if i were you ( if i was a girl ) and i liked this guy, and this guy asked out one of my boyfriends - he's a fag... why would you want to go out with a fag?
hahaa - Just kidding!! I know what you meant...
Do the same thing to him...
Go up to him in class and say, " Hey!! You wanna be my boyfriend?" and act a little mysterious like he did so he doesn't know if yur serious or not.
You'll find out that way 100% if he was being serious or not.
Good Luck lil Byrd
~Infamous Trump~
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i'm 16 and i'm in high school right now and I know this might seem like a cliche, but all of my close friends are getting into serious drugs and alcohol, and I made an oath to myself awhile back never to get into that shit. So what to I do, find new friends? Tell it's stupid and have them exile me? Even I myself at one point almost gave in.... I keep trying to tell them pot makes them stupid and they're alcholics. Any suggestions?
I'm going to tell you this out of experience.
First off -- WTg on your oath to yurself and goodluck in keeping it.
2nd --- It's not a question of you abandoning your friends man. ( Pause and re-think that, take a second )
... your friends already abandoned you.
Trust me on this when I say everything about drugs n alcohol, even if you don't use it, but if you're around it -- nothing but bad can come out of this for YOU. Sure, try to get them to stop using the crap, but being a DD, or haging out with them while they're drunk n high... dude --- NOTHING good can come out of this for YOU.
Remember --- it's not that you abandoned them... Hell, you're going to school and you made an oath to yurself not to drink n do drugs - why? Because you're trying to make a future for YOUESELF man. The second one of yur 'friends' offered u a line of coke or a hit of acid or a puff off of a blunt... that shit was a slap in yur face for yur future. They abandoned you man.
WTF you want backing you up in the future? some guy thats easily manipulated as to start doing drugs because 'their friends are doing it?' or you would you rather have someone trustworthy, someone with a backbone that knows right from wrong, someone that stands his own ground?
They abandoned you
You wrote to the wrong place man
What you should do is write a note to those friends of yours and ask them why they abandoned you.
You value your future enough to know this is right.
You value your future enough to know that everything your parents taught you was not for nothing.
I was one of those guys that used drugs starting in High school. Sure, they'll say -- "dude, im not addicted - im just having a little fun, relaxing. Don't be such a good2shoe pussy"
lol - i told my friends, "hell no i dont think about it all the time, I can stop whenever" and I actually believed it. And when I look back upon those days now --- thats all i did after schoool - get high . On weekends - Get high. lol@ i dont use it all the time ... I was using it every second I could, and didn't even realize it.
anyway...
Good Luck Lil Byrd
~Infamous Trump~
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can someone tell me things that people do if they DONT go to college?? im just wondering, im debating weather to go to college or not, but i have no clue what id do if i didnt go?
Lets see here...
... What do people Do When They Didnt Go To College...
* Could always smoke crack
* Could start pimping
* Start selling Drugs
* Live with your mother until you're ...say 35 yrs old.
* Definitley you would smoke a joint here n there
* Work @ a Gas station for $6.00/hr
* Stay on the internet day in and day out
* Start a porn web site
* Become a heroin addict
* When you have no place to sleep - its always easy to find somewhere that'll welcome u - get arrested and have a nice stay @ the county Jail.
* Sell your body
* Regret that you never got an education...
Don't be stupid, Go to school and get a degree --- it's a great security to have for when/if you need something to fall back on. People with college degrees avg $56k a year, people with out a college degree avg $26k a year.
~Infamous Trump~
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yes, i am asking for advice for my cat because im a loser like that and i love her wiht all my heart.
Ok, well my one cat Oreo is afraid of everything! No lie. She is afraid of my parents, my sister, TVs, lights, windows, refrigerators, the only thing she isn't scared abotu is me. She spends most of her day aroudn me, and if i go somewhere she'll follow. When I'm at school my mom says she is frightened to death and spends all day until i come home, in my oom under the covers. I don't know what to do, I feel really bad for her. We got her when she was a kitten so she never was abused. WE don't know why she does this. Should I make her face her fears so she can be more comfortable aroudn the house? When she is in my arms she feels very safe and protected ( if i make her face her fears i don't want er to be afraid of me also!) Please help me, and my cat.. ?
Awwwee.. poor lil kitty
Since this kitty is so attatched to ya... there's really only one thing to do.
You have to "introduce" the kitty to your family.
You've had this cat since it was a kitten, and you probably babied it, always smothering it, always hording it. It's not a bad thing... The cat just liked your affection so much that it blocked everything around her out, except you.
When you're home, try not to be alone with the cat. Having your parents/sister pet the cat while you're around is a great start. Also - ignoring the cat once in a while is good too -- don't worry - it's just to jump start her curiosity. Have somone else feed your cat.
lol "facing your fears" is all good, but don't like stick it outside in a thunderstorm or lock it in a cage w/ a pit bull or anything :O
Good Luck
~Infamous Trump~
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okay so when ever i use tampons they make me feelreally sick. im putting them in right because i cant feel anything but they make me feel really ill! and my period is quite heavy so its always annoying to have to go to the toilet all the time.
why do they make me feel sooo ill? ive tried different makes and absorbancies of them etc so i dont think its anything to do with that.
IE: yur reply #2
rotf - u must have a real bad case of self control. I feel sorry for the man in yur life - unless you already drove him off.
Obviously you don't have a sennse of humor - profanities really wasn't necessary, and as for my age - why don't you read some advice I've already given out... "think ahead b4 you say something??" don't be such a hypocrite.
My wifes laughing, and so is my daughter whom is probably older than you...
...you'll soon learn to respond sensibly ( while on the rag ) instead of responding emotionally --- the hard way
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I don’t know what to do anymore, my life seems to be dying slowly even though I am alive. I don’t want to live anymore; I have imagines everyday of me jumping out my window. My life just seems all messed up. It may seem like nothing to you but all my problems put together are just killing me little by little. No one understands. Today I came from school all upset I couldn’t take it and told my grandmother I don’t want to live anymore. She got mad, called my mom and dad and was yelling at me telling me how lazy I am. She kept saying I’m just a lazy person that wont get anywhere in life without studying. She kept yelling and talking and now her and my mom got into a fight over this. My grandma tried to make this all seem like she’s the victim and I’m taking advantage of her. She kept saying with a grandchild like me the one who cries for every little reason she should just take an overdoes and die. Why on earth would she say all these things when she knows how I feel about life! I go to her are you crazy you bitch, don’t you understand why I want to kill myself you are one of the main reasons. I don’t have a main reason its juts that I’m very unlucky, I have really low self cofidecne, some people tend to make fun of my face, since I have acne and put a lot of cover up on. Which hurts the most because I had acne for about five years and I tried everything, I went everywhere, took her pill possible, and nothing works. It’s like a long rode that never ends no matter how hard you try. You keep running and running until you think you got to the end but it just keeps on going. That’s how my life feels. Now we got new teachers and new students in our classrooms. I hate most of my classes, and most of all I hate my math teacher. Now I’m really bad at math I mean really bad I don’t even know what 7 times 8 is unless I think about it for half an hour. Yeah sad I know. Hes really mean and trys to bring people who are not as smart as him down. I tired getting out of his class but my counselor is such a bitch! She told me to come early to school today so she could change my singing class since they put me in the wrong one. They put me back to the one I already took, so I would be learning everything all over and I passed her class with a 90. I come back at the end of the horrible day I had and she tells me the teacher said its okie and I can stay in that class. I was like butt … she stooped me and said theres nothing I can do. I was like but wait im learning everything over again I don’t understand. She goes yeah I know but then we would have to change your whole program I was like sooo you do it for everybody else. I know shes just a fucken lazy bitch that needs to get fired, Counselor my ass. I don’t know what to do! I hate schhol and wanna quite im only 16 but I don’t see school in my future. My grandma makes me feel like shit about this but I don’t know what to do!!! Please help and don’t say talk to her because that wont work ill just end up killing myself faster. I don’t know what to do with my life. Please answer if you ever felt like this about school and juts ur whole life and tell me what you
I was the short chubby kid with acne.
I didn't have much friends; no one understood me.
I hated my school and my teachers.
My parents didn't want me - they left me @ my aunts home 9 months out of the year.
Girls wouldn't talk to me; they thought / everyone thought I was weird.
The jocks, the preppies, the "wanna be" gansters all picked on me.
Life seemed dreadful; everyday was long and grey.
There was never anything to look forward too.
I always loooked forward to the end of the school day, and then what? I dreaded even going home... I loooked forward to when my aunt was sleeping; when everyone was sleeping; when the whole world was sleeping, so I could be alone. I'd lay my head out the window from where I layed on my bed and gaze up at the infinte sky and ask why am I here. It was peaceful. I knew I wasn't normal - I wasn't like anyone else... I didn't even fit in any groups.
I wanted to sleep forever.
Either that or I wanted the world around me to never wake up.
I had all this negative energy - always asking myself why, and how, and how come. I decided since I had all this energy -- I'll put it towards something else besides the negative. I started working - making money -- working anytime I could after school.
My problems started to not seem so important anymore - they semed to fix themselves and I had money -- lots of money.
Years after graduating High school - I'm driving in downtown Chicago, and to my right I see someone I used to know - he was one of the jocks that used to pick on me. He was short, balding, and was working at a pawn shop. I pulled over and waved him over... he hardly recognized me - I was 5' 11" now, no acne anymore, people said I was handsome, I had a girl, I have a successful career - quite the opposite of what I used to think of myself back in high school. The jock felt small - I let it be and drove off.
My point here is Everything you do consists of energy. Energy that needs to be managed and leashed out in the proper places. My tic ( negative ) was always thinking and asking myself "why? why me? how come?" My tac ( good ) keeping myself occupied; working. It worked for me - I stopped being so self- righteous, accepted myself as I am; I matured.
Whats your tic - tac?
We all know what your tic is
finding your tac is up to you.
Find yourself something to occupy yur time.
Roll with the punches.
Accept yourself - love yourself.
Everything'll fall into place.
Life is an adventure man
live it and love it
love yourself
you're unique
i'm unique
have fun n meet new people
do something new and diffrent.
sky's the limit.
Soar to the Sky little Byrd and rest your eyes upon something tantalizing... then go get it.
~Infamous Trump~
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hey ive seen you answer some questions about cars, so i was wondering if you could give me some help.
i drive my moms car now(sadly), but im about to get my license. i was wondering if you knew of a car that was easily upgradeable(other than a honda), and had good room for a turbo/supercharger. i was also wondering what other upgrades i should get for this(I.E. short throw shifter, new shocks, etc). im looking in the 10-18k ($) price range for used. any help is appreciated.
You're just about to get your drivers license - meaning u must be what... 15 16 yrs old?
And ya have a $18k 1st car budget... life must be good.
Buy yurself a used honda for $2k and put $16k in a savings account. Since this'll be yur 1st car... learn some driving techniques w/ a cheap used car, and tell your parents exactly that. They'll be like dayyamn, our lil boy really has matured. Then when yur ready for a real car in 2 years... hit your parents up for another $18k. That's the way to do it.
~Infamous Trump~
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Why are some guys such JERKS? No, that's not really my question, but I would like to know.
My question is this... I have a boyfriend. I think. Thing is, I haven't spoken to him since early December. He WON'T take my calls. How do I know? "Hello Mrs. Carr, is Andrew home?"
"Just a second" *calls his name in the backround*
*Andrew whispers back* "Who is it?"
"May I ask who's calling?"
"Yes ma'am, it's Brandy."
*Andrew whispering again* "I'm not home."
*His mom* "Brandy honey, could you call back in a few minutes please?"
"Of course."
So I wait a few minutes, about fifteen, and call back. NO ANSWER. I call my friend Meg who lives right next door to him and asked if he was there. She said yes. I called him again. No answer. I waited a few more minutes and called back. No answer.
He missed my birthday and hasn't spoken to me at all in over a month. I just don't know what to think. I mean, he hasn't broken up with me, so does he want to be with me? And if he didn't want to be with me, couldn't he grow some cohones and tell me instead of ignoring me?
*Sigh*
Brandy Brandy...
You're so young and nieve ( what an age to be ).
First off -- If your b/f hasn't contacted you in a couple days let alone a couple months ( ah heem including passing all the holidays?!?!?!) consider that a break up.
Andrew's just young and immature; he doesn't know how to deal with his problems correctly yet. It's a mistake that happens to almsot all of us when we jump into the dating world.
I know closure and maybe an explanation is what you're probably looking for, but sometimes life just doesnt toss you the right cards.
What an ass Andrew is though, letting a prettie little byrd like you wait day in and day out. I'm sorry you had to go through this Brandy, but it's a lesson learned, and it's time to move on.
~Infamous Trump~
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okay. Sorry if this is long but.. I just went to the Doctor's yesturday and he told me a bunch of things wrong with me like..
*I might have,
*Lime Disease
*Mano[spelling?]
*Dislexit
*I have Asthma
*I have Dislexia
*I have ADD & ADHD
*I have to go see a shrink
Okay wow alot of things known in just one check up, right? . Well idk what to do. Becuase i might have depression and stuff. And i feel like a problem child in the family since my brother doesnt have anything wrong with him and neither do my parents. Which sucks. So i guess i just need someone to talk too and i just need help.
PS. I'm 13 if that changes anything? .
Whoa - yea --- that's a lot to learn in 1 visit !!!
You coasted 13 years of your life without having any of yur teachers knowing you have dislexia - pretty impressive!
Yea that psychiatrist should be able to help you a great deal- uh huh.
~Infamous Trump~
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I Have been feeling depressed for almost a year now, and I have read nearly all the articles posted about depression, but none of them really help me. I took the first step of talking to a trusted adult, who was one of my former teachers. She tried to help me by calling my mom and referring me to different counselors. But this made my mom very angry. My mom refuses to let me see a counselor, and she is not allowing me to have contact with my teacher either. I don't understand why, but I think it's because my mom feels like I am placing blame on her for my issues. Now I feel so alone because I have no one to talk to. I want to call my teacher, but my mom would be very angry if she found out. What else is there left for me to do if counseling is not an option? I fear I will keep getting more and more depressed like I have been. Please respond to my question, I really need your help!
Here's what I do when I get depressed...
1) you could fill that void by eating obsessively.
2) piss every1 off by ignoring them - have yur headsets from yur mp3 player on 24/7 in class, @ home, on the bus, @ work.
3) those cherry bombs down the toilet is always dimple-maker.
4) start experimenting with anything new; sex, drugs, rock n roll - what have you.
5) shoplifting is always neato!
6) Don't take everything so literally and serious. Know the sarcasm and irony in yur everyday surroundings like... say #'s 1 - 5 ? haha?
You smile yet? I know ya did. That was my ice breaker.
Okay down to business... I take it you must be in Junior high or High school, and I'm sorry you're feeling depressed, but I need to point out something very odd but serious about your situation...
You stated that your mother won't let you see a counselor. There's something you're probably not telling us - and the ball is bouncing off the walls.
People might tell you that counselors and shrinks are bullshit. Thats not true little byrdy. They are there for a reason. It's a profession for a reason, and you bet yur little heart they can help you - if you want to be helped. Now this thing with your mother still puzzles me - and since I only have a general comment from you about your situation... it seems to me that the only reason a mother might not want their own flesh n blood to seek proessional help is --- maybe they're afraid you might tell them something that may jeopordize something very important to them.
Nevertheless, I advise you to go and talk to your counselors at schoool. Try talking to your mother again about seeking help before you talk to someone. Tell her how you're feeling; if you're sad and unhappy, or feeling all alone and trapped. Cry your heart out to your mother for help first, afterall, your parents should be the first to know about any problem that you may have ok? It'll be all good -- problem may be just a communication gap.
Chin up and eyes to the sky little byrd...
you're on yur way to a brand new day!
~Infamous Trump~
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I wrote and performed music for twenty years. Had fun, played with great people. I'm now 43, don't want to perform or write anymore, but don't know what to do next. I'm still an intellectually curious type; read all the time (which is thoroughly enjoyable up to a point) and listen to underground rock, old jazz, newly discovered classical, all that, but I NEED focus. I sit around all the time, and still use mind alterers, and don't know what the hell to do with myself! Any suggestions? Please, no religious freaks. Let me rephrase: no religion-oriented suggestions whatsoever. That includes AA.
Otherwise, advise away!
-Jack
Okay... you wrote and performed music for a living right? For 20 years?
Um... you sit around and get high all day from the money you made from writing and performing music ... right?
That right there ( above ) that's awesome... being able to make a living from 'jammin' tunes - while using yur 'mind-altering' what have you.
I think you are intellectual... I don't doubt that.
I also think you were maybe just a little too high, maybe not thinking too correctly when you stated, " don't want to perform or write anymore." But your intellect prevailed thus stating one key phrase and I shall tell you clear as day what is that you need...
You stated, "I NEED focus."
I don't believe for one second ( neither do you ) that you want to give up music in any way shape or form. You need a little change. Might be the environment you're in, or maybe some people surrounding you - or not surrounding you. I suggest you take your 'mind altering' what have you and travel somewhere; anywhere - perhaps a magnificent mountiantop or the ocean. It's not that you lost interest in music buddy; all you need is that inspiration back. Maybe meeting someone new could fill in that blank spot again.
You just need that "something" to help you Focus again.
Reach for the sky...
Jump in the Ocean...
Climb that mountaintop...
Go find that special something u...
Get your inspiration and sing your Heart Out little byrd !!
Soar Like An Eagle ( lol ok ok u get the hint hehee )
Good Luck to You Friend...
~Infamous Trip~
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i have severe agoraphobia so i cant get out. im getting help so i dont need advice about that, i really needs ideas though on what i can do while im stuck in the house all day everyday. ive been like this for 4 years so i get very depressed especially when im bored. i get bored of tv, computer, videos/dvds. if anyone can think of things to keep me ocupied and happy that would be fantastic thank you x
Oh man!!!!
I've a million things to keep you occupied and have fun.
See, I was on house arrest for the loooonnngggeeesssttt time.
lol - e-mail me --- I've a few things u might find interesting...
...and btw I'm a little curious about this phobia ya have ( no offense ), I never met or spoke to anyone that has it.
Are you a guy? How old are you?
Reply please - I've a few question for you If you wouldn't mind.
~Infamous Trip~
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Does anyone know what it is called when you can make your eyes blurry? I don't even know if anyone knows what I'm talking about. But I can make my eyes just go blurry whenever I want them to, and they don't even look different.
If anyone knows what I'm talking about, or what it's called then please tell me and help me out!
Uh.... Squint ?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
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there is this girl that i realy like
(she is in 8th grade and i am in 7th)
the only problem is that our parents are going out... what should i do?
ie: yur reply
Flashbacks of when I was yur age - trying to let a girl know i liked her. Before you jump into ( the dating world )this... You need to know how to handle rejection. If you can't handle rejection; like starting to sob there on the spot or blocking the rest of teh world out for a month after a "No" then wait until u (no offense) mature some.
I'm pointing this out to you not because I'm trying to scare you, but to try and protect ya little byrd. In this situation I already see three cons against you:
1) She is older than you - though a 1 year age difference doesn't make much difference in the adult dating life, a year is a lifetime in junior high.
2) Her mother is dating your father
3) She has no idea you have a crush on her.
- Tell her flat out you like her
- i know, easier said than done.
- Be creative
- find a common ground you both share
I know @ yur age, when you really like someone, it sucks because all you do is think about that person, you get that butterfly feeling, and it's hard as hell to tell her you like her.
You know a good way to break the ice is to... Carry her books for her to one of her classes ( sounds gay, but if done right - its perfect ). Go up to her, " Give me your books" if she asks why or what are you doing? just tell her -- " Give me your books, lets walk together - I need to tell you something" Tell her "you know, theres this situation I have. I know our parents are dating, which makes this all the more difficult, which is why I have to tell you this sooner than later." Then tell her in your own words that you like her.
All you need right now is to know if she has mutual feelings. If she doesn't, both yur parents will never have to know about this and it's done.
Lol, i can just imagine what yur going through. sorry ddint mean to laugh but --- im just remembering myself when I was yur age, telling the 1st girl I liked - that i liked her.lol
Good luck little Byrd.
~Infamous Trump~
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Dude, you better hurry up and get you some before she turns into your sister.
lol, im KIDDING gawd.
You're 12 yrs old man... it's np
First importantly, you don't want to embarrass yourself or the girl.
If you can't get this girl out of your head, then you NEED to find out if she likes you.
If she doesnt like you, then bam we're done here.
If she likes you, then I think you should tell father about it and see where his point of view falls on the situation... If your fathers 1 of those bastards that'll go tell that girls mom about it and embarass yur girly friend - then don't do it --- remmeber - 1st n most importantly --- don;t embarass the girl.
lataz
~Infamous Trip~
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My cousin is engaged to my ex boyfriend.
They're getting married in May.
I was the first person she told her engagement to.
She wants me to be her bridesmaid.
I don't know what am I suppose to feel.
Don't be depressed --- why are u depressed do u still have feelings for this guy? I thought not... get over it.
Your cousin has he adacity to ask her fiance's x girlfriend to be her bridesmaid? Helllooo??? Wdf is wrong w/ yur cousin? Thats pretty lame of her to ask you that.
This isn't your fault, so dont feel depressed.
Don't be her bridesmaid - situation is all too weird. She's a total b*tch for asking you that.
If you want to be told what to "feel" about your situation, if anything - feel pity ( and laugh )for yur x b/f, cause he about to be tied down for the rest of his life to a non - common sensed stupid, no thinking ahead broad.
Just imagine all those little preventable situations they will have in the future. Maybe you can observe them and write a sitcom about it 10 years from now.
Cheer up, yur cool
~Infamous Trip~
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I took a hallucenogen 5 days ago, and I think it's really messed me up. I researched it a lot before I did it, and it didn't seem to cause problems in anyone else or in medical studies.
But I feel so sick. My appetite is really inconsistent and food tastes digusting. I have constant headaches and I get disoriented really easily. I'm also having trouble recognizing familiar people. My emotions are weird too. I still get happy and sad, but really mildly.
I will never do it again. I'm too scared to go to a doctor about it. I'm afraid that I'll get sent to rehab, which is pointless because I only did it once and I'll never do it again.
So my question is, what do I do? Will I ever get back to normal, or did I _really_ screw up? Does anyone know how I might start feeling better?
Thanks in advance.
ie: your reply
First, glad to hear you're doing better.
Second, I went to your 'diary' web site and I can see clear as day that you definitely have talent. You really should further your education in 'writing or journalism' something along that line if you're not already... Your description of your 'trip' was if I were in your shoes - i understood you. You're a good writer.
Hoping to read more from you,
~Infamous Trump~
Ok, first of all, you need to calm down. Don't get all hyper and parranoid and make yourself think that somethings wrong, otherwise thats exactly what will happen to you.
I think you took ACID ( blotter form ). Acid is very complicated, and shouldn't be taken by people that can be easily manipulated, that are parranoid, and/or have any mental issues including depression. Trust me on this - I've tripped over 500 times ( not bragging ), and seen certain "kinds" of people have bad trips because they couldnt handle the drug.
You're okay. The situation with your apetite will get back to normal w/in a week or so...so don;t worry about that or how food tastes.
As far as you saying you have a hard time recognizing people you know... seems like you had a pretty hard trip. You're reality was probably really bent out of shape while you were high yea? you probably also tripped for a good 12 hours or so. Try not to think about it... Drink a lot of Orange Juice, and take some vitamins. You're body/brain is just dehydrated and burnt right now.
My advice for you is -- yea -- don't trip again. Try to get a good 10 hr straight sleep. And most importantly you have to give your body good nutrition... Acid really drains a body man. Remember - Acid is a mind altering drug - it's not a joint, or a line of coke. You have to tell yourself everything is okay - to be okay. Got it?
Post a reply man --- i'll check up on ya.
Acid's no joke, but if you tell yourself it is --- then laugh it up, cause its just all so fucking hillarious.
~Infamous Trip~
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