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I am a girl and was wondering if any other girls have the same thing that I have. Well this is going to sound really gross, but here goes. I have hair growing inside of my butt cheeks, right near my anus. It's not just fine hair either, it's dark and course, like the same type of hair that I have growing on my vagina. I goes all the way up my butt cheeks. It's so embarrassing! I also have dark hairs growing on my breasts, right around my nipples. My question is: is this normal? And if it's not, what can I do to get rid of it? It's too hard to shave down there. I would appreciate any advice!!

Girl, yes thats normal. Every female has hair on every part of their body. and if you really want to get rid of it down their then id suggest shaving or waxing. waxing youd have to do less oftine. and for the nipples id leave them alone.

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Why are some guys such JERKS? No, that's not really my question, but I would like to know.

My question is this... I have a boyfriend. I think. Thing is, I haven't spoken to him since early December. He WON'T take my calls. How do I know? "Hello Mrs. Carr, is Andrew home?"
"Just a second" *calls his name in the backround*
*Andrew whispers back* "Who is it?"
"May I ask who's calling?"
"Yes ma'am, it's Brandy."
*Andrew whispering again* "I'm not home."
*His mom* "Brandy honey, could you call back in a few minutes please?"
"Of course."
So I wait a few minutes, about fifteen, and call back. NO ANSWER. I call my friend Meg who lives right next door to him and asked if he was there. She said yes. I called him again. No answer. I waited a few more minutes and called back. No answer.

He missed my birthday and hasn't spoken to me at all in over a month. I just don't know what to think. I mean, he hasn't broken up with me, so does he want to be with me? And if he didn't want to be with me, couldn't he grow some cohones and tell me instead of ignoring me?

*Sigh*

ya your right he is definently a jerk. Gurl you shouldnt let him or his mom walk over you. It looks to me that you have two options: You can either call him and if you know hes there, tell his mom to hand him the phone, and then tell him off and break up with him. because this relationship isnt working. Or you can just move on and ignore him just like hes doing to you_ Because it sorta sounds like you guys have already broken up.

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recently, ive been cutting. i cut because i have so much emotional pain, it relieves me when i cut. it makes me forget all about my emotional pain because i focus on the physical pain. well, just this morning, i found myself thinking of suicide. this afternoon during health class too. We were talking about cutting in health class today and i just wanted to die. i was so uncomfortable. only 2 people knew about me cutting in my health class besides me but i still wanted to die. I dont have a boyfriend. I dont think im pretty enough to. My life is fucked up. no one cares about me. my parents are never home and when they are, they just yell at me. They always fight too. But the thing is, i wouldnt trade my life for anybody elses. its the way that i know life. I wouldnt trade it. and im serious. I wore a belly shirt to school a few days ago. Bad choice. some people saw my cut i made on my stomach and they said stuff to me. No one understands me. They think that i have the ideal life and they even tell me that. i dont. every one thinks i am perfect (or have to be) becuase my dad is a pastor of a small hick church... which i hate. I dont believe that shit. w/e. i wanted to stop cutting until today. i did it again today. its just a bad habit. any suggestions? anything anyone wants to say to me?? yes i have contemplated suicide. several times.

well sounds like your going through alot right know. and there are always going to be times in ourlives when we just want to kill ourselves. But once you commit to suicide theres no way to change it no way to come back. and maybe if you stick it out and maybe find some more friends and maybe get into sports or clubs. and then maybe you'll have a chance to change your life just a little. honestly i used to cut my self and i thought about suicide once.
but then if you think about it, ya cutting helps you feel releived, but commiting to suicide is one of the worst chooses any one can make. So think about and just try to relax and find someone who you can trust..

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um i know this is kind of a weird question but how do u kiss/makeout? like what are some "techniques?" and what exactly is making out, it it basically french kissing? thanks, i rate

Well no one has the perfect answer for you, because their are different techniques different ways.. But to makeout is just to have you and another persons lips together and ya somewhat just french. and when you kiss all your doing is putting your lips together with someome else... any more info just email!!!

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well, ive liked this boy for months! hes a really shy sweet guy and i dont think that hes ever had a gf before. but a couple of nights ago, i found out that he liked me to. i was having a party, and he was there, and we sorta hung out. hes a very nervous and shy person, so he doesnt really tlak to me that much. but im a shy person to. well, last night, he asked me out. and i said yes. but today, we barely said more then 2 sentences to each other. and i have no idea what to do. im shy, and hes shy, and we cant have a relationship if were never going to talk to each other. but i realli like him, and i really want this to work. does anyone know what i should do so that we could communicate more, and like make our relationship work..?

thanks

okay, is you want this relationship to work you have to make the first move. Ya your shy, but the only way you can get a better relationship is if one of you makes a move. Try hugging him, starting the conversation.. You have the courage, you just have to push yourself a little!! Holla back for more info!!!

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Well i like three boys and two probably likes me back but i dream bout two boys and but 1 might not like me bak i really do not now which one to pick because they all are sweet but one has a reputation of playing girls what should I do?

Well, gurl you have two options, you can wait until one asks you out or until you feel more comfortable with only one guy. because like rite now you say they're sweet and every thing, but then ones known to be a player, so holla back for more info and if you make a decision let me no what happens!!!

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