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my "now" boyfriend
well, ive liked this boy for months! hes a really shy sweet guy and i dont think that hes ever had a gf before. but a couple of nights ago, i found out that he liked me to. i was having a party, and he was there, and we sorta hung out. hes a very nervous and shy person, so he doesnt really tlak to me that much. but im a shy person to. well, last night, he asked me out. and i said yes. but today, we barely said more then 2 sentences to each other. and i have no idea what to do. im shy, and hes shy, and we cant have a relationship if were never going to talk to each other. but i realli like him, and i really want this to work. does anyone know what i should do so that we could communicate more, and like make our relationship work..?
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okay, is you want this relationship to work you have to make the first move. Ya your shy, but the only way you can get a better relationship is if one of you makes a move. Try hugging him, starting the conversation.. You have the courage, you just have to push yourself a little!! Holla back for more info!!!
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♥ h i i i. Dont worrrie.
I know where your coming from. I have had so many relationships like that. I know exsctly how you feel. Your not alone.
The only thing you can really do, since its pretty awkard, is to just make moves. But in a really subtle and nonobvious way. Just sort of hint him on some things. Whatever you do, dont call him over and over again, you'll annoy him.=/
So basically you just be yourself, and step up to the plate a little. Do whatever you can to be friendly and natural...that way he knows he can feel comfortable around you.
You two just need to get to know eachother a bit more!
GOOD LUCK !!! ♥ always,Lauren xoxo
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well, the only thing you can do is talk to him. i know it is really hard, but u gotta do it. just think, what are u worried about? hes not gonna make fun of you! you already know he likes you. so talk to him, theres nothing to worry about.
GOOD LUCK!!
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well, he worked up the courage to ask you out, and that takes more courage than simply talking to someone, trust me. You're likely just nervous about looking stupid in front of each other. DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT!! =) really, if you just try having a normal conversation about anything (even ''hows the weather'' if you're too shy for anything else at the moment =D ) talk about whatever you can think of. Like, what do you talk about with your friends at lunch, or when they're over your house? Just by having normal, everyday conversations you'll become more comfortable with each other. Good luck with everything and I hope it all works out!
♥ Laura Michelle
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