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how do i deal? girl AND boy advice pleez
alright now i need help boys are welcome too..well i have known this boy for 9 years and he's ok. we went out a few times and still to this very moment like each other. We're in 8th grade and are 14yrs old .but we can't go together (distance). Well he keeps doing stuff that really turns me off and i know i have to deal but how? Like he says stuff like just messing with me but it really annoyes me cause resently i've become pretty sincitive about his comments. so all and all technically we go together but literally we don't.I try not to respond to him like he's my bf but i can't help it which is making things worse. Confused and feel helpless! Pleez give advice.
P.S first time writing nixt time i'll try to make it shorter srry : /
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well you can do two things. if you guys really have strong feelings towards each other i suggests tryin to make it work out. number two stay as friends and stop feelin so attacted to him. (like dont feel like he is ur bf) you should get over him and find someone new to set your mind on. as for the fact of him bothering you tell him to stop. he probably thinks it isnt botherin you and that is why he keeps doin it.
*~Stephanie~*
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i feel in this coflict of interests you talk to him.
he needs to know how you feel.
can't do much more then that.
Solemnstar
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hey, i know exactly what your going through i have this guy friend of mine since i was 3 and im now 15 and he moved like a LONG way away this past summer. Anyways i think what you need to do is just ask him if his feelings for you are real and you need to decide if hes worth the long-distance. Trust me, hes not close by so its not like you have to go through the embarassment of seeing him if he disappoints you but you get the answer and thats what matters! You will still be friends it might take a little bit to go back to normal but like in my case with my guy friend, he found out i liked him alot and the next day i slpet over at his house and everything was normal and by him doing so i recovered and realized that my feelings for him most likly wont change but hes my best friend and thats more important. I hope i helped you and tell me how things work out! (btw im not telling you to give up and just be friends because friends make the best boyfriends but im telling you to take the chance and make sure you and him stay friends)
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