Question Posted Wednesday February 1 2006, 12:46 am
15/f Okay, so I went out with this guy for almost 9 months. I grew really attached to him. Then suddenly he said the relationship wasn't working. So you can imagine I was crying nonstop for a few days because he was acting all happy while all I do was lay down, not eat and sleep. So 3 days after the split, I went to see him and before that, he said we shouldn't kiss but yeah...we made out. I went to see him again after that and we made out again. So a couple of days pasted by, he said we shouldn't get back together but lately he's been calling me "babe" and telling me "I love you" and similar things to that. He said he won't date other people and that he hasn't been flirting with anyone. A lot of girls found out he's single and has been flirting with him like crazy but he's avoiding it all. What am I supposed to think? He says hes single, what am I? Am I on a leash? He says he still likes me a lot. Should I still hold onto him or try to move on?
KissTheStars answered Wednesday February 1 2006, 3:45 am: If any guy would leave you for no reason then he isn't a good guy. I think you should continue seeing him and being friends, DON'T kiss or anything. Play hard to get and keep an eye open for a new guy. Maybe he will come running back in your arms.
SoInToYoUx0x answered Wednesday February 1 2006, 3:02 am: you need to move on. forget this guy. it sound like right now he is usin you because he knows you were attacted to him and noes you will go back to him.
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whabit answered Wednesday February 1 2006, 2:02 am: Hi there! He's just playing with you, looks like he wants to be single for a while, he wants to play the field (even though he says he woun't date other girls, doesn't mean he wouldn't make out with them...) I would say try to move on! I know its hard but it would safe you from alot of heartache!
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