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My name is McKenzie and I'm a freshman at Reedley College, I love to help people out with problems and to write. I want to be a writer someday. I love to make friends. Ask any question and I'll attempt to answer it.

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I`m Havin my birthday party in a week and idk what movies to rent for the party.
(Its a sleepover and I have 8 Friends coming ) We all like comedies/chick flicks such as Mean Girls. Some of my friends are still 13 so please not any R rated movies. We also like some scary movies.
Thankss for the help loveliess``.

Rent White Noise which is rated PG-13. Or Signs which has the same rating. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Does anyone know where I can get an extra self for a locker. I've seen other people with them but I figure it would be wierd to ask them since I dont know them. An extra locker self like you know how at school they have those top and bottom lockers. I got a top one and since I'll most likely be sharing lockers with close friends I wanna make it looks nice. PLus does anyone know where I can get a magnet mirorr. and while we're at it any tips/ideas on how I can decorate my locker? =] Thank you so much!!!

You can find a magnet mirror at Longs, or Home Depot, or anywhere you buy school supplies. Decorate your locker with posters of your favorite things and maybe ribbons. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I just started a brand new school, and met this girl & she asked me to sit with her so I did, she said "Bring 5 dollars or so tomorrow & we can get a Subway." Um, basically my question is, she is asking me to sit with her again right? lol Thanks!

Yeah. She wants you to bring money so you can share a sandwich. Hope I helped!

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is it alright to have a crush on an actor as long as you dont go bananas??? like a small one not too serious??? i feel guilty because i do>>>> sorry that this question is properly punctuated> the shift key has suddenly been deactivated

:) hollis

Yes its ok. I have a crush on Orlando Bloom. A small one is ok as long as you don't like write him/her all the time. Hope I helped!

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ok well me and my girlfriend have been going out for like 8 months and we have kissed but we talked bout it we want to makeout but i was wondering making out is just kiss a lot at ounce isnt it?
and if its not then please help me cause she really want to and i want her to like me doing not be like ok no more kissing go awayi want her 2 want more so please help =)....she doesnt want to french....just so you know...lol....ok thanks....ummm sry if i didnt make a lot of since or sounded wierd im knew with this advice thing

OK frenching is like sticking your tongue in your partner's mouth basically. A few things to remember:
1. Take it slow
2. Check your breath
3. Have fun
4. Enjoy!
5. Practice

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(16/f) ok so this guy caught me playing with my breasts and other places in the washroom at school and now hes threatening to tell everyone unless i go out with him and let him fuck me whenever he wants. what should i do?

OK that's just wrong for a guy to do that. You were just curious that's all. If that guy asks you that, he's a loser and just blow him off. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Ok, at church we had a lesson on being sexually pure, and they said no "necking and petting" ...what is that?! I'm really curious...

I'll give a 5 for accurate answers!

signed,
Confused and hopeless.

Necking is like kissing on other areas like the neck or ear. Petting is like playing with parts of the body with clothes on. Hope I helped!

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We've been together with my bf for 1 yr and 1 month and recently we had a fight(a big fight) two days ago.And in the next day, he wont call me,text me or even visit me at my house...i miss him so much because everyday he wud visit me in my house...and that night i texted him that are we still together? and he doesnt text back...today i texted him that im home now, will u visit me and he didn't...i really really miss him...i cry a lot bcoz i totally miss him...what should i do?forget him?or should i stay in this realtionship?

i will rate 5...promiz

jean

I say maybe wait a little bit. If he doesn't say anything, dump him. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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My problem is simple. I like this one girl "Megan" a lot. And I want to ask her to the winter dance as a date. Just, I do not think we'd go as a couple, just as friends. That's set. Just, I am a soft wimpering jelly muffin when it comes to confidence. I just don't have the nerve to do it. How can I build that up?

Speaking in front of people a lot helps. Try that with a few friends and you'll get your confidence booster. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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i'm 14/f and i'm 5'2 in height. i started my period when i was 10 and i want to increase my height by doing whatever it is i can. i slouch and it's hard for me to do anything with my back straight. i've been slouching since i was pretty young so i think thats why i haven't been growing that much. what are some things i can do to help myself grow? i want to be atleast 5'4 or 5'5 before i stop growing altogether. thanks.

My mom always tells me, "Stand up straight or you'll end up like your brother." Try poking yourself in the back when you feel yourself try to slouch. When your sitting, put your whole back against the chair. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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hi, I am a girl who is 13. I always act mature for my age, and have friend's who are always older than me. Is this normal?

No its not normal. Find people your own age to hang out with and you'll be happier. As for being mature for your age, no problem at all. Hope I helped!

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i dont get it...i only got 4 hours of sleep last night and i was very tired throughout the day but i cant fall asleep now! i've been trying for hours. all i do is lay there with an empty mind..not thinking about anything...how could i fall asleep?

The body wants to fall asleep when its tired so you have to force it to fall asleep. Listen to relaxing music, turn the light off, cuddle with your blanket and rest your eyes. You'll be asleep in no time. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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what do girls like in a guy im 13 m and id like to know what girls like anfd stuff like what are their faveiot features not just on looks but like other things like persanality to

Well their favorite features on them are legs, eyes or butts. And on personality she likes a guy who respects her, who she can tell anything too and that can make her laugh. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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i have been cutting since 5th grade, im going into 9th now. I don't want to stop because i love the way it feels, and its the only thing that helps me to forget the things i dont want to have to remember anymore. Ive tried stopping before but i physically can not do it. Im so attached to it. But, i cant get caught anymore, and i hate the scars i have all over my body. can anyone help me..?

The best way would be to stop or go to a group thing after school. My ex boyfriend used to cut and he went to a support group after school. I went with him and it helped him a lot. He's no longer cuttting. Maybe if your a female, put coverup on it but be careful. It may sting. If you're a guy put some windex on it. lol. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Lately I've been thinking I'm depressed and I've been very unexpected with my moods. I was talking to my boyfriend either and this is what was said:
Me: I don't understand myself sometimes..
Him: honestly, i dont understand you sometimes either

Allowing myself to say it and then hear him say it feels so different. It hit me hard when he said that. Would anyone else be not offeneded, but confused if your boyfriend said that to you? It hurts so much more hearing it from him rather than myself...

I would ask him what he means by that. I would be offended too. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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My sister is coming to visit me from out of town. She has 2 kids ages 1 and 3. I don't have kids of my own and am a single guy, which means I know nothing about having little kids around the house. Can someone maybe give me some tips on what I might need to do to childproof my house before they get here? I don't want my nephews getting hurt!

Put all animals outside and keep them there. Put out a bunch of toys for the kids and put a blanket down for them to sit or sleep on. Put little fences up on stairs, or anything you think they'll get into. Toddlers are curious so they love to touch everything. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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i'm a straight A student. but my grades are always in the mid 90 range. wat are some ways to help me get 100 instead of just 95s. there always seem to be a small detail or something that causes me to lose a few points and be second.

Focus on the small details but don't forget easy stuff. Remember, nobody is perfect. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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i was wondering what is a good sweet 16 present. my aunt asked me what special thing i wanted and right now i have no idea. im an anverage preppy girl i guess i love my hollister and would love a car but thats way out of the question. any ideas other than clothes or the normal stuff?

Maybe since you love Hollister, a Hollister gift card would do nicely. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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okay my crush wants to talk on the phone..and i do too but i hate when there are awkward silences! like it kills me and i never have anything to say. what are some topics i could bring up? and like what things can i say to like lead him on and kinda make him realize i really wanna go out with him but not make myself sound
retarded and freaky! please help! FAST!

Maybe talk about yourr day or how he is. Hint around that you may like him and ask if he has a girlfriend. Maybe flirt with him a little bit too. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok, im 13, and i don't no what to do, i want to start to wear makeup but i kind of don't, i mean if i do, how will i tell my mom ,and if i don't when do i start?

Just ask her if you can one more time. Wear it and if you don't like it, maybe wear just lip gloss or chapstick. I don't like mascera but you don't have to start wearing a ton! Drop a message in my inbox if I can help anymore. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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