(16/f) ok so this guy caught me playing with my breasts and other places in the washroom at school and now hes threatening to tell everyone unless i go out with him and let him fuck me whenever he wants. what should i do?
PunkPie answered Saturday August 27 2005, 5:13 pm: well thats sexual harrasment and sorta raping. if you say yes. but you should either tell someone who can do someone or just let him tell everyone you were playing with your breasts...you could always tell people he was in the girls bathroom :) [ PunkPie's advice column | Ask PunkPie A Question ]
x_C010rMyW0r1d answered Saturday August 27 2005, 5:01 pm: Thats sexual harrasment.. I dont think i have to tell you what you need to do... but seriously.. he needs to face the consiquences for that.. and Why was he in the girls bathroom !? [ x_C010rMyW0r1d's advice column | Ask x_C010rMyW0r1d A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Saturday August 27 2005, 4:27 pm: i would rather have a rumor going around about my playing with my breasts than having to fuck someone for him to keep it a secret and THEN having a rumor going around about both. if you hear ppl talking about how you played with yourself you can 1. deny it... who would wanna say they saw they saw you doing that...no girl would wanna be called a lesbian for that. 2. say you were doing somthing else...miss eliot impression or something...its not that big of a deal...deff not worth letting someone that hates you fuck you all the time. hope that helps! <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
ronda answered Saturday August 27 2005, 4:23 pm: First off what the hell is he doing in the girls restroom.I know what you where doing in the restroom before the guy came in is somthing personal that you wanna keep to yourself.But when he came in that is somthing you should tell a grown up about and what he said to you is somthing you should deffintly tell a grown up about.Even though it is embarressing you should tell someone.And i still dont get why the hell he was in the girls bathroom and that is somthing you could use aginst him if he tells someone about what happend.
mooch789 answered Saturday August 27 2005, 4:02 pm: OK that's just wrong for a guy to do that. You were just curious that's all. If that guy asks you that, he's a loser and just blow him off. Good luck! Hope I helped! [ mooch789's advice column | Ask mooch789 A Question ]
emotedardorxx4 answered Saturday August 27 2005, 3:35 pm: Even though this is an embarressing situation, you need to tell someone, you can leave out the part of what he caught you doing, but just say he is threatening you and all of that.. thats the best thing to do in this situation i believe. BEcuase you cant give in to him and let him basically rape you, and im sure it would be embarressing for that to go around school.. good luck
Mackenzie answered Saturday August 27 2005, 3:27 pm: Are you serious?? Is this a serious question?? I'm sorrie, this scenario is just so infantile and pathetic that it's ridiculous [but that was not directed *towards you].
First of all, why was he in the woman's restroom to begin with??? Either way, you're 16. You're not a little baby. You know the right thing to do here. Also, you have nothing to be ashamed of. Hundreds and thousands and millions and billions of people around the world masturbate. It's nothing to be worried about. I realize it might be alittle embarrassing, but it's really no big thing. Masturbation is perfectly natural and healthy. You're only human, and everyone becomes sexually arroused. It's certainly not a crime - you must realize this.
And so what if he tells?? No one says you even have to clarify this RUMOR as fact. This guy is CLEARLY a trashy creep - what credibility could he POSSIBLY hold to his name anyhow??? Personally, I wouldn't even worrie about it. Now, I realize that my saying this might not change how you're feeling, so if you're still concerned, I recommend bringing this up to the school principal. I know your principal will NOT be thrilled to hear he has this scummy punk acting in such a degrading and dispicable manner in his school. I'm shore he will take appropriate action. If not, get your parents involved. You might not want to take it that far, but if it comes down to it, I sincerely hope you will. I don't know how this boy can be so messed up in the head, but something needs to be done about it.
Hopefully everything works out. =/
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" wow. this is the worst advice i have ever recieved. i should report u"
Excuse me? Report ME??? Give it a shot then. I'll beat you to it. I realize by now that this question was a joke, and I don't find it humorous that you go around wasting everyone's time and efforts to then go and tear them down for it. And for the record, whether this is a joke or not, I don't see anything wrong with my advice. I didn't mean for it to be rude or sarcastic in any way, shape, or form, and I do NOT view it as such. I was simply trying to provide you some reassurance and support for something that would not have been your fault.
If anybody sees this and is willing.. I'd appreciate some honest feedback on my answer, please. I'm curious now if other people feel I was out of line, though I suspect his rating was as big of a joke as his question...
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soccerplayer5674 answered Saturday August 27 2005, 3:14 pm: let him tell everyone who the heck cares deney it unless you want to end up with this guy and let him do that to you
orphans answered Saturday August 27 2005, 3:06 pm: okay, tell him NO. dont be afraid to say no. and when he tells people, say "idk what are you talking about.. any proof?" and then he wioll have to admitt he was in the girls bathroom :) and noone would care about you playing with your brests, everyone would care that he was in the girls bathroom, tell me if you need more advice. update me! [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
DancinCutie08 answered Saturday August 27 2005, 2:41 pm: i would talk to a counsler at school or something. just tell them that some boy saw you doing something you dont want to talk about and now he will tell everyone if he cant do what he wants with you. [ DancinCutie08's advice column | Ask DancinCutie08 A Question ]
afro_timmy answered Saturday August 27 2005, 2:17 pm: first off what was a guy doin in a female washroom?
i live in the UK so i dunno if its different in USA but here we have seperate areas lol
so yer
just make out that when he saw you playin wid ur self he flashed his dick and it was really small. or summin he he
OOOO pretend you went to shag him n make out he couldnt get it up
hope i helped
emma xoxo [ afro_timmy's advice column | Ask afro_timmy A Question ]
mystical_breeze answered Saturday August 27 2005, 2:16 pm: Tell your parents/guardians or a teacher right away. This is so immature of him, and he should be talked to by a teacher right away. It might be embaressing to tell your teachers what he was threatening with, but you'll feel better once you tell someone (would you rather go out with him and makeout with him whenever he wants?). Also, if nothing changes and he still bothers you, talk to the police for harassment (sp?). Good luck, and God Bless.
Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze
*Edit: What the hell? I tried my best you jerk, so why'd you give me a one? You're an idiot, and don't say, "ur advice sux" because what the hell were you doing playing with your boobs? Sorry if you don't like my advice (or anyone elses for that matter) but you don't have to act that way. [ mystical_breeze's advice column | Ask mystical_breeze A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday August 27 2005, 2:12 pm: well if he threatening to do it then deny the whole thing.. and maybe lie on him if you can like say *you seen him beating his meat and all you have to say is bless its lil heart lol..* or just say something similar lol.. just ruin is rep like so he cant get girls cause they'll hear his dick is small.. but really dont let that get to you.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
iloveyoumost69 answered Saturday August 27 2005, 2:08 pm: well hun really all you can do is if u dont like him tell him no and then when he tells everyone deni it he doesnt have proof that u was doin it!!! i hope i helped good luck hun! [ iloveyoumost69's advice column | Ask iloveyoumost69 A Question ]
CutieAllTheWay41 answered Saturday August 27 2005, 2:07 pm: Well you should,ve told a teacher or your parents about this!i bet they would report this or something!Well is the boy YOUR type!i mean if he is then take a chance and go out with him.If he isn't just tell somebodybody.Well anyways that boy is a sick dick!
Hope you liked my advice!
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Well guess what your a fatt ass bitch cause all these people gave you advice and you turn them down with rating them a 1!!what the fuck are you thinking!Were trying to help you out and taking our whole time giving you some fat advice but you just turn us down dont you bitch!and i beleive one of the people that gave advice was right but you just give them a low score!& trying to make excuses that there advice is wrong!And i think the boy should blab his mouth about you,you ol' slut! [ CutieAllTheWay41's advice column | Ask CutieAllTheWay41 A Question ]
cookierat123 answered Saturday August 27 2005, 1:58 pm: ok, first of all that guy is a sick sick purve. you really should tell an adult. i know its embaracing but you really have no other choice. in most schools he would be expelled. just tell a teacher or someone you trust that he saw you do somthing embaracing and he is doing that. they will take care of it. [ cookierat123's advice column | Ask cookierat123 A Question ]
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