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my one friend wants to help me with my imperfections..i mean she hasn't said it but i know she wants to.so should i be offended? or should i think its nice?

Be appreciative, because if she wasn't ur friend she wouldn't want to help you.

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I have this stomach ache in my lower left side of my stomach. It hurt soo bad that i can't move. Its like a cramp but 10 times worse! What should i do?

Take some pain killer, and go see a doctor.

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My ex and i have decided to get back together, the only problem is, is that my mom can't stand him. My mom is so pissed and upset at him for breaking up with me the first time and she says she can't trust him! I don't know what to do! How can I convince my mom?

It's not your mom's job to trust him, or her decision. tell her thanx for caring but your old enuff to take care of yourself. She'll get over it.

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Is it more apropriate to tell a guy your home phnoe nummber or your cell phone number?

Cell phone number duh... It's easier if he just calls you reaches you on your cell rather than calling you house and having to ask for you. Ew who wants to do that.

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what is the amount of calories per day that is healthy? like how many calories a day should you have?
please&thankyou

That number varies depending on weight, height, and sex.

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does anyone know what the average clothing size and inches around your waist or hips is for a 15 year old female??

there is no average clothing size according to age, it varies according to weight and height.

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what are some excercising tips/eating tips of how to get a flat stomach?

decrease food intake, and increase physical activity. It's really pretty simple. :)

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and embarrasing..
but...
i havent gotten horny for like..
two years..
does anyone know why?
14/f.
its starting to scare me..
and me and my bf want to have sex
but yeah..
please help.

You could possibly have a horomone problem, you could try and see an endocronologist.

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I might be pregnant, Il find out in a couple of weeks if i miss my period or not but im so stressed out about that fact that i might be pregnant this could cause my period to be late. If i am pregnant, what do i do? I cant keep it but i wouldnt know what to do if i was to have an abortion? I cant tell my family. I feel so alone, i always cry. Please can you give me some advice.

STOP HAVING SEX!!! Didn't think of that one now did ya there...?

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i was wondering if anyone knew any tricks to make henna tattoos stay on your skin longer or not fade. i am going on vacation to the beach and i want to get one but i dont want it to fade beore i come home. ive had one before and they always fade soon. does anyone have any tricks? thanks

I've heard putting vaseline or oil such as coconut or olive make it last longer

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I've heard putting vaseline or oil such as coconut or olive make it last longer

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Just recently my girlfriend has left me to go back with her old boyfriend. I know that he abuses her phsyically and emotionally,and I treated her like gold. What should I do? and will she ever come back to me?

probably not... girls are stupid... they like bad boys, if she left you she is NOT worth it, try to go out and meet sum new people... and remember time fixes everything.

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I'm fifteen years old and I seriously need some money. I have to pay my parents back for buying a chihuahua for me. I don't want to work in fast food like my parents want me to, so my question is if anyone knows of some good places that will hire me. I was considering working at a tanning salon called "Tanland" but I heard you have to be at least sixteen to work in a tanning salon. Is this true?

Thanks.

you bascily have to be 16 to work anywhere in my area, but since your parents are at least ok with you working at fast food, ask them to get you a work permitt, than you can work anywhere you want.

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13f... my feet crack. they dont get all dry and just look cracked like u see on gold bond commercials, they actually split. i hate cuz it looks terrible and it hurts. what can be causing it? is there anything i can use to get rid of it? ive asked my doctor and she gave me all kinds of lotions and stuff and none of it worked. help!

try nivea creme

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I think that I might have gotten Chlamydia because I basically have all the signs but I'm so scared to go to the doctor because I will have to tell my parents and not only will i be embarrassed I'll get in trouble..i have no idea what to do please help

Don't be scared, find a local std clinic in your area. You will not have to tell your parents about it to be treated. Look it up online. Trust me you'll be fine, if you have ne more questions leave 1 in mi box. :)

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yesterday i went to my friends house and she pierced my ear with her earring. well, we did sterilize it by putting the earring/earring back in a little cup of that ear alcohol stuff..

well first she used a sharp earring (sterilized) to pierce my ear, and then she took it out like 5 minutes later and put in a regular earring. my ear is fine, no infections or anything- just a little blood at first.

um, so, i was wondering if you can get AIDS or anything by using somebody else's earring to pierce your ear. idk, cause i would think it's like a needle or whatever. im assuming my friend doesn't have AIDS, but who knows for sure?

also, does anyone know if there's a test for AIDS besides getting a blood sample?

please.

HIV is very serious, and yes you could of gotten it from your friend. To get tested find a local clinic in your area. and no there is no other way of testing other than blood

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I am getting an MRI scan soon for my head (jaw). Would I have to take out a belly button barbel? It's some type of surgical metal I don't quite remember what type. Is there anyway I can keep it in? I have had the piercing for a couple of months but I still have a month to go before I can take it out or change it and I really don't want to mess with it.

Thanks!!

You probably aren't gonna have to take it out, if you do try to see if you can get a spacer put in it... either that or have an alternate scan.

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hey..u just anwsered my question and i just relized something...well...ok.....my cousins are really overprotective...and my parents...i'm not allowed to date till i'm 18...and well if we go out..soon it'll get around and people will find out... then soon my cousins will find out...and if they do then *B* and me will be in big trouble...then wat do i do??

Be casual, dont let ur cousin know you like him. Chill in groups, and if u dont want ne 1 to know about it your gonna have to talk to him yourself. DOnt be scared, just do it. You will never know untill you ask.

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well...so there's this guy named bryan and i liked him ever since i saw him in the 4th grade...i think he likes me too...b/c when he looks at me and then i look at him to see if he's looking at me then he looks away...i want to see if he likes me..and tell him i like him...but i don't know how...i'm friends with his cousin....so i can get his contact...i don't know wat to do???

Talk to his cousin, and ask him to hook y'all up. Go out with him & his cousin. Take it step by step. Make sure u flirt with him. Guys love that.

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A dog scratched me all over my arms and it looks like I cut myself and the scratches are really noticable and I really have to wear short sleeves or I will die out in the sun. I don't want people to think I cut what can I do to make the scratches and the burns from them go away?

I don't understand why people can't comprehend to mother nature's way, it's like you expect one of us to find some sort of "magical" cure to make scratches go away? make my scratches go away, make my hair and nails grow faster. ew, no one cares. get a life.

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