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girlfriend trouble
Just recently my girlfriend has left me to go back with her old boyfriend. I know that he abuses her phsyically and emotionally,and I treated her like gold. What should I do? and will she ever come back to me?
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Darling,
Be the best friend you can be. Call her once in a while and dont be to flirty or she is not gonna be comfortable but just lether vent on you. Talk about her. Let her know that when she is having a hard time she can run to you. Make her feel comfortable around you and make her laugh. Trear her like pricless gold once again. She may not come back to you but your gonna have to take that risk. Listen!!! Listen!!!! Listen to her!!! So then she is gonna she what she is missing. Let her know its her altimate decision but that its not fair for her to be treated that way, she deserves to be treated like a princess(dont say you deserve better_just don't) Don't say it to often she is gonna see only that you want them to break up. If he is abusing her emotionally she needs to feel good once in a while. So once in a while tell her, i know you dont get this from him so i just wanna let you know your amazing and beautiful and he should be counting his bellsing every day to have you.
Hope everything works out, keep me posted.
Sincerly,
Vennessa.
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probably not... girls are stupid... they like bad boys, if she left you she is NOT worth it, try to go out and meet sum new people... and remember time fixes everything.
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Hi, try and tell her that she is making a big mistake and you love her. Thats the best you can do really. Daniel.
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tell her that he treats her like crap while you treated her like royallty and why should you be with someone that does all of this to you .....tell her hes only gonna get her to trouble
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Bleh, i hate when people tell you to pray.
I swear it won't help the situation.
But anyways, what you can do is talk to her, calmly. Ask her what she sees in him that she didn't see in you? Ask her questions kind of like, comparing you and her ex. Also, you can talk to her parents about it secretly, telling them about her new boyfriend, and how he treats her.
But really, only time will tell.
If you two were meant to be together, she'll realize it, and come back to you. :]
Best of luck.
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Ok
1- dont stress yourself out over somet hing you have no control over, you cant force her to come back to you
2- if you know he abuses her tell the police or her parents and save her
3- just pray about your situation
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so this is probably one of the tuffffer questions. first off wen she left you that was her choice so don't be down on yourself for that.
second if he beats her and you know this for a fact you should tell somebody. i know that may have never occured to you as an option but there are programs that you can tell someone and remain anonymous. if you don't want to tell anybody(which it is realy up to you) talk to her
tell her how you truly feel. you should even talk to her about the situation. but if she isn't the kind of person to talk to about that then ignore it and substitute it with your feelings
lastly who knows if she will come back to you. if you play your cards right and choise your words wisley more than likely she will. don't change yourself for her though. if she isn't willing to except you than she isn't worth it. but remeber to not be sneeky behind her boyfriends back because that could be a terrible sight. remeber to be true to yourself!
♥Cheyenne
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The best thing to do is to try to talk to her. Tell her all the wonderful things you'll do to her to make her happy and talk about how bad her boyfriends now is. If you are friends with any of her friends, talk to them about how bad her new boyfriend is and they will most likley talk to her. Usually girls listen to friends better than ex's... But whatever you do try to not be extremely clingy and dont beg her to come back.... this drives girls NUTS and it is a total turn-off. Hope my advice helps!
~Camilian247
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hey
i know well about your problem mostly because iam a girl i know girls like these but nooffence you were her little toy to get her ex jealous then when they made up and cuddled cuddled with him she dropped you faster than a heart beat which you obiously didnt deserve ...girls like that drive me crazy they dont care if you gave her gold she doesnt care i know those types of girl they like the bad boy hit me baby one more time aha *giggle giggle* type of guys and yes she will come back to you but thats only when bombs drop between them and she will hurt yu again and leave either for him again for for some other fag so she is a waste of time and she isnt worth your feelings im sorry for what she did to you i hope you find someone you desvere bye
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Dear Girlfriend Trouble,
It's hard to get your heart broken especially when they leave you to go back with their X, so let me start off by saying I am really sorry about that and hope you're ok. I think it's so nice that you still care about her, So here is my advice to you: If he is hitting her and being cruel and you have proof I would bring it with the police or parents Abuse is a very serious thing and can really hurt someone. So tell anyone you can to try and stop it. Your X-girlfriend my be very hateful towards you but it'll be ok because in the end she will realize you did it because you care. I can't tell you if she'll come back and I am sorry about that but I do know that if you get her help (even if she doesn't think she needs it) then she will appriciate you even if it doesn't seem like it at first! Well I hoped I helped and I hope that all goes well for you!
Signed,
DancinHottie
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sometimes girls make stupid desisions... even when the guy that we have went out with was totally mean to us then so we break up, and then we find someone whos amazing, we tend to go back to the guy who hurt us thinking that they wont do it again while deep down incide we know they will. sometimes/most of the time we break up with the guys that hurt us phsyically and emotionally but we still like them.
if you really like the girl who has done this to you, i advice you to sit back, lay low of the dating list and keep it single. when she gets hurt she has you to come back to. then she may relize her mistake in leaving the guy who treats her like gold. most girls relize that but may never admit it to the guys. be their to talk to her stay really good friends with her. and maybe you and her will be going out again, but this is not always the case. sometimes the girl just cant/wont/or is scared to go out with you again. but you can still be good friends with her. find out what she likes in guys. im not saying change for her but see if your really right for her. then if you decide that your truely love her, and she still hasnt come back to you, and your friends with her, and you believe that she likes you too, write her a note, saying things include how you feel about her, and how you felt when she did this to you. then wait till friday, when the bell rings to get out of school, find her and give the note to her and tell her no one can read it other then her and she cant read it till she gets home. it may help, it worked for some guy who did it to me.
i hope this helps <3
if you need any more help and like my advice send me a message. :)
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i think that your [x]girlfriend is just confused. maybe you should just give her some time, let her know that you are there for her. i am sure she knows that you treated her great, she prolly just needs some time to understand that. im pretty sure she`ll come back to you :) xx best of luck, tell me if i helped
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