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the name is lindsay, but call me lu. i'm crazy, calm, happy, optimistic and spoiled. i've got my best friends. yes i've made mistakes but who hasn't. i've gained some of the most amazing people but also lost a few great ones. the past is the past, i'm over it. the future scares me but i'm ready. i am very independent, i need my space. my family is definately one of my number one priorities, they never let me down and always work hard to make me happy. i look up to my brother shane, he is one of my best friends. i try my hardest not to judge others. i refuse to settle for less. i finally figured out who i really am and ive never ever been happier. i want to become successful, and someday i know i will. i'm the blonde one, thats me :) probably the biggest sweetheart, and one of the most understanding people you'll ever meet. just don't piss me off. i make the best out of every situation. i don't trust easily but i'm a strong ass girl. smiling is something i'm good at. i never give up. i keep my chin up. i stand up for myself and don't let people walk all over me. i don't get mad, i get even. i believe in myself, and in who i am. i live life to the fullest which also means taking risks and chances. i probably don't care what you think, because right now i've got everyone i need. being in love is one of the greatest things i've ever experienced. everything is meant to happen for a reason. live life with no regrets and have fun. change is something thats necessary, even though it's not always good. get to know me, i promise you won't regret it. i live my life for myself and not others. i love the life i was given, and i'll never stop being me.



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Hey. Well, I'm going shopping this Wednesday, and I was wondering if stores like Forever 21, Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister, Victoria's Secret, Nordstrom, Aeropostale, Charlotte Russe, etc. have sales by then because of after Christmas or upcoming New Years, etc. Thanks!

yes they do!
♥ Kristen

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26/m
i don't know what to expect from this but here goes.
everytime i really start liking a woman i always end up being "like a brother", this last time seemed to have taken the life out of me to the point where i start feeling resentfull towards woman and sociaty in general.
I really want a girlfriend, and always try to be just myself, but nobody seems interested, EVER. i've never had a girlfriend, i really can't believe that i'm such a big loser.
I really don't know what to do anymore :(

the woman wants to feel protected, so first off make her feel like she can trust you with her life. do something sweet for her also, maybe make her dinner? show the sweet side to you! get her roses, most women love those! or just a nice gift, it doesnt even have to be expensive. well hope i helped some!
♥ Kristen

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Okay I really wanna lose weight (really badly) I NEED advice!!! I wanna lose it the "healthy way". I know anarexia and bulliemia are easy ways to lose weight but i wanna be fit and healthy. Can you be both? anyway so i have been excersising alot latly. and i know one of the ways to lose "stuburn belly fat" is doing situps. well every time i do situps it makes my tailbone hurt. At first i thought it was excersising in jeans so i put on pj's it still does it. How can i lose belly fat the "healthy" "in-expensive" and "not hurtin way" is it possible? i wanna lose belly fat (thighs too) lol. Anyway does anybody have any idea's? i would really appreciate it. Happy new year.

~Belly fat

hmm well how many situps a day are you doing? i do about anywhere from 30-100 a day lOl i know a wide range but it doesnt hurt my tailbone? well yeah you just need to first eat healthy, stay away from the junk food, and the soda. running is also very very good for you! this will help your thighs. well thats all i can think of sorry i couldnt help much. hope all works well!
♥ Kristin

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I'm 14. I'ma girl and I've been smoking for 2 years. Im a smoker and I like it and I know I'm not going to quit. I'm tired of hiding it and I want to smoke in the house with my mom like she does. I just dont know the best way to tell her. Should I just say it or should i write her a letter.

**K8e

your only 14 and your already smoking?! oh man oh man! well anyways im not gonna tell you what to do and what not to do because its your life =) live it how you want to! but i would personally tell my mom in person, face to face. even tho i would be scared shitless i think its the best way to go. good luck!
♥ Kristen

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Hey everyone. Well for New Years me and my one friend want to get drunk. Well, not drunk with alcohol but like maybe a caffeine high...play it safe. What are some drinks that have a lot of caffeine in them or any other drinks that get you really hyper...almost as if you were truley drunk. haha Thanks for the advice!

um well the only thing i can think of is any sort of energy drink or mountain dew lOl. hope i helped
♥ Kristen

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my friend andrew wants to know if u finger a girl if she hasnt had her period is it bad or will anything happen?
thank you

its perfectly fine..nothing will happen!
♥ Kristen

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14/female
I'm always jealous of other girls because I I know that their so much prettier than me. I'm even jealous of my friends. One of my friends is like so perfect: shes pretty, all the boys are like in love with her.. her life is just perfect all together. and i am SOO jealous! I reallly want to get over it but i dont know how. I'm constantly comparing myself to other people .. and i think that brings down my self-esteem.
i just want to stop being jealous because it just makes me feel worse about myself..

how do i stop being jealous? and is there anyone else out there who feels the same way ?

aww sweetie! jealously is a tough thing..i know exactly how you feel! i feel that way all the time..but you cant let it get to you! every girl has their flaws, but guess what? nobody pays attention to them..trust me! there is always gonna be someone out there that you think is better than you, but i bet there are girls out there that are jealous of you! you have to bring up your self-confidence. tell yourself that your beautiful and believe it! it may sound cheesy but it will work =) do something nice for yourself go shopping get new clothes do your makeup different or your hair! boys are jerks and sometimes only go for the looks. but a smile can go a thousand miles sweetheart! i bet you are a gorgeous girl, dont get down on yourself! hope i helped and if ya need anything eles make sure to leave it in the inbox
♥ Kristen

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hey beautiful ♥

have you ever heard or smelled of the perfume from victoria secrets called "very sexy" for her. i want the boys to be attracted to it and like it! haha i just want people to think i smell good :) just wondering your opinion! and also..how many sprays do you think i should do..because i want people to smell me..but i dont want it to be too strong!

well thanks
your my fav.
haha

OMG i just got that perfume for christmas and i absolutely love it!! im not sure what the boys will think of it yet? lOl but umm usually i put like 2 or 3 on my neck 1 on my wrist and like 1 on my whole body!
♥ Kristen

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Ok,...well, There's this kid Ryan, he's like my best guy friend and my ex. He broke up with me because he was busy with baseball and could never see me. Well, when school started, I found out that he was in 3 of my classes.That half of my classes and I go to lunch with him. Anyway a couple of months later, I hooked him up with my 'best friend'. We're just friends now, but we used to be really close. I hooked him up with her, I don't know why. I'm gonna get off track for a sec, but it kind of leads up in a little while. I've always been jealous of Katie, my friend. She's alot prettier and skinner than I am, and guys always like her instead of me. And the guys that I do get, when they break up with me, their next girlfriend is Katie. So I went out with Ryan before Katie did. And this past month, I've relized how much I'm in love with him. I remember all the things we used to do whenever we were little and they're so cute. I told him how I feel and I just wound up getting hurt. He said he didn't feel anything for me, he had this weird feelings for Katie. I asked him why I had this weird feeling for him...I just cried, and I don't know why I love him, I don't want to but I just do! Anything that will help me I'll rate!!!



Sorry it's so long!!!


Thanks in advance



im so sorry sweetheart! well im not quite sure what your question is but i think its what should you do about ryan and your feelings for him? well i think that if your really in love with him..then you should try and wait a bit..and see what happens with him..if nothing happens you just have to move on! go out and meet other people..there is that one guy out there that is waiting for you..go find him! plus you said how your friend katie was so much prettier and skinny..well sweetie looks dont always matter..yeah guys can be total jerks and just go for the looks..but that one guy out there..is gonna love you for who you are and not what you look like! just go out and have fun, go to the mall or movies and meet some new hotties lOl. you'll find the right one, trust me! well hope i helped
♥ Kristen

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okay so i met this guy like dec. 20th @ a bball game. and we exchanged numbers. :] he called me like wed. night and we talked for like 2 hours. [ i think i like him] he said he would call me the next day after his game. he never did, i tried to call him but he didn't pick up. and i did the next day & his phone was off. idk what to think. if it means anything.. do you think he will ever call me?
thanks x0ox ♥

well since he called you in the first place..of course he is interested in you! but what i would personally do is wait for him to call you..and if he doesnt then move on! the way i see it..if someone is interested in me then they will make an effort to call me :) well hope i helped hun!
♥ Kristen

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13/f and well i have just recently gotten my first period, but its been a week and 3 days already and i still have it !! its light right now but is it suppossed to be like this considering its weird the first time or is there something wrong with me ??

xoo ♥

dont worry sweetie its totally normal! there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. everybody is different with their periods..some have them for a longer period of time and some dont. also since its your first period its gonna take awhile for it to be on a regular schedule!
♥ Kristen

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Whats The Legal Age To Have Sex


Thanks
Tami

well im not 100% sure but i dont think there is a legal age. The only thing i know is that someone over 18 cannot have sex with anyone under the age of 17.
♥ Kristen

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Hey Guys, This Has Really been bothering me and I don't know what to do. I Knew what sex was when I was about 6 years old. I'm 13 Now. But I'm Worried that I wasn't Raised Right. I mean Most Kids don't even know what Making Out is When their like 7!! But I Knew! Was I or Am I Normal??? No SmartAzz's About This....Thanks

aw sweetie dont worry about it..your totally normal! everyone is gonna find out sooner or later..you just found out sooner lol!
♥ Kristen

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What is the best cell phone plan you can get.. I want to get pay as you go but where? Verizon, T-mobile..etc? thnxs

VERIZON. i have a cell phone from there and i love it. its awesome! but thats just my opinion
♥ Kristen

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my sister & i made a calendar for my parents & we want to bind the paper pages together (it's construction paper). what place can do this for us? or is there a way to buy something & do it ourselves?? (no more than 10 dollars!!) thank you!

sounds cute! i would either go to Office Max/Office Depot or use some cute ribbons! your mom and dad will love it..trust me! hope all goes well
♥ Kristen

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what kind of medicine helps sore throat, and coughs, and runny nose
i do rate high so please help me okay and if you give reasonable advice I will rate you high

I usually take Advil Cold and Sinus or Nyquil. Either of them helped me! Hope you feel better.
♥ Kristen

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My old best friend (now were just friends) is flirting like CRAZY with the guy i like. ive liked him for just about forever. She knows i like him and i know that she doesnt like him more than a friend. I dont mind if she does it al little bit but shes just totally crossing the line. What do i do? i cant confront her with out me sounding like im jealous!! what do i do?

aw im sorry hun! that always happens to me..girls can be such bitches sometimes. personally what i would do is just flirt with him even more! give your friend some competition. i would'nt let her get away with it!
hope i helped
♥ Kristen

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How would I properly say this sentence -

If I were you.
If I was you.

If i were you
♥ Kristen

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