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Telling Mom I smoke
I'm 14. I'ma girl and I've been smoking for 2 years. Im a smoker and I like it and I know I'm not going to quit. I'm tired of hiding it and I want to smoke in the house with my mom like she does. I just dont know the best way to tell her. Should I just say it or should i write her a letter.
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all i have to say is dont tell her while you two are in the ca, because if she gets mad you will wreck and that wont be good.
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I know you don't want to hear about the badness off smoking... so instead of saying that (which i really think you shouldnt be smoking) but that wasnt your question... tell her to her face. i know everything seems easier in a letter...because you dont actually have to "face" her... but it will be easier for you 2 to talk it out, comproimise and argue... haha! good luck!
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Haha, I remember when I told my mother! =] She was so mad at me, but in a way she understood because she started smoking when she was 13, and my dad started when he was 9. =] I came home SMELLING like smoke, and she knew most of my friends were smokers, and talked to me about it. Although at first she was pissed, we made jokes of it day after day I came home smelling like smoke. When she finally asked me, if I smoked or not, I told her yes & she said Thanks for finally telling me but I really want you to stop , and I think the only way that'll happen is if I stop & so does your dad. So, we all stopped - except my dad secretly smokes behind our backs all the time. =] But oh well. I think you should tell her face to face, because it'll make you look more mature. =) Just because writing her a letter seems kinda weird, she might get super mad about it, like all of it hitting her at once. But you could try the letter thing I suppose because you could tell her the reasons, how long you've been smoking, when you started, stuff like that. =] Yeah, go with the letter, because you'll get everything out at once!
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Well im not going to judge you or tell you how bad it is im just goin to tell you what you want to know
I would tell her to her face... writing it in a letter only makes it worse... Start up a harmless conversation about her about it and then just say "well u kno.. i smoke" it wll be a shocker but if your mom smokes she should tlka to u about ti CALMLY!!!!
I hope i helped
Askme247
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your only 14 and your already smoking?! oh man oh man! well anyways im not gonna tell you what to do and what not to do because its your life =) live it how you want to! but i would personally tell my mom in person, face to face. even tho i would be scared shitless i think its the best way to go. good luck!
♥ Kristen
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First of all I hope you know the dangers of smoking. There are terrible diseases that can come from it. Such as lung cancer, and alot more that can destroy your health and the health of others (example would be second hand smoking). Also I hope you know that smoking is illegal for somebody your age, just like drinking is. If you are prepared to suffer the consequences of smoking then that is your choice. But if you really want to tell your mom then I suggest telling her in person, to her face, because writing a letter seems very immature and impersonal. If you want her to take you seriously, as an adult, then tell her directly. (Even though you are not an adult and should not be smoking). I am also 14 and understand that you may like it, I just want you to understand the consequences.
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If you want a reaction from her to your face, then you could just tell her straight up when your talking to her.
But if you worried on what she might say, then write her a letter, or something of that sort.
♥ Alli
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