I need help deciding between 2 pictures to send in for an audition. I know these are basically exactly the same, but I can't pick the better one.
Help?
http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b123/flippyfloppas/mebluee.jpg
http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b123/flippyfloppas/mebluee2.jpg
Definitely the first one. You look tanner and it is less blurry. It is a lot more colorful and it "pops" more. By the way, I LOVE your eyes! :]
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lately my mom's been acting strange. she run's more errands, goes back and forth cleaning the house, and is nervous when she cooks dinner. im so confused! when i ask her whats wrong she doesn't say anything and walks away. what is going on? no, my parents aren't getting a divorce, trust me.
-Patrice
Well, it is the holiday season. Is your Mom entertaining?? If so, this can be extremely stressful. First of all, theres cooking and cleaning. Then having to send out all the christmas cards and decorate the house. Not to mention presents for you and the rest of your family! Perhaps its work or she has had a bad couple of days. Let her relax and try to help out around the house! Let her know youre there to help her and eventually, after all the holiday chaos has settled down, she will too.
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I'm moving in a week and we're getting new cell phones/plans. What is the best phone I can gete for under $250? Any deals you've seen with certain providers? I mostly call & text but pics & videos wouldn't hurt. Durability is always a plus. I want a really good phone so any opinions are appreciated. I'm sixteen & a female.
Top 2 favorite phones:
Motorola Razr - 49.99 (text, IM, camera, video, games + internet.)
T-Mobile Sidekick - 249.99 - Just what you said :] haha. But its SO worth it. My best friend has one and its utterly amazing. It has a built in MP3 player, text, IM, camera, video, games, internet and its built like a keyboard ..EASY texting.
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well i've jsut recently found out that im pregant, i took a test after i missed my last period. but me my boyfriend have had sex since then and really still want to have sex but will it harm the baby? we have a very active sex life and i dont know what to do. how can we keep our attraction to each other without sex?
You can still have sex when you are pregnant! Its perfectly ok. However, a site online where I looked up information said to NOT have sex when youre pregnant IF you:
have a high risk of miscarriage
have a high risk of premature labor
have broken her waters
have pain
believe labor has begun
are unable to find a comfortable position.
Also, if you dont want to have sex theres always mutual masturbation, oral sex and massages.
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15/f
I was decorating the Christmas tree last year when suddenly it fell over. All of my ornaments (from generations and generations.. and the ones I had been collecting since I was born) were suddenly broken.
Just now I was decorating the tree this year thinking I have so much good in my life but I am not happy and I should try harder (I am constantly trying to improve my life.) But then I dropped an ornament and it reminded me of last year.
I work so hard for everything, but I know how easily it all falls apart and how disappointed I am. Should I see the omen of the falling ornament and stop trying to avoid disappointment? Or do I keep trying to improve my life and self?
I fear disappointment and know it will happen eventually, no matter how hard I try. Maybe I should just give up.
Any words of advice would make a huge difference in my decision.
Thanks so much
I know this ISNT really all about the christmas tree ornaments. Its about something much deeper and that is the want to stay safe from all hurt and dissapointment in the world. Life is all about taking risks and doing things to improve your self and make you happier..but sometimes it just doesnt work out. But that doesnt mean what you did wasnt worth anything. It didnt all just fall? You had fun decorating that tree and you had many memories and good years with the ornaments. Just remember the quote, "The journey is more important than the destination.." In other words, its not about what happens in the end sometimes you fail, but how you get there IS important!
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If seems like everyone wants to be thin. Does being skinny mean your heathy. I mean there are thses girls that pig-out on junk food and are lazy, but there skinny? WHAT THE HECK!!! I'm having weight problems and I jsut don't know what to do. I can get up put on shorts and tennis shoes and have lots of engery - but I don't know what to do with that engery. I know what your thinking just go to a site to get some exercise moves. I guess i'm spazing. Any enercise tips, opions about skinny is heathy?, or something to jsut make me feel better - Thanks. =)
Im going through the SAME exact problem right now. Its a true fact that the girls who pig out and stay superrr skinny are blessed with a fast metabolism. Which means they can eat a lot but their body digests it very quickly. But, this isnt a get of jail free card forever :] As people get older (usually) their metabolism slows down. And these girls already have bad eating habits that will be harder to break. Also, just because someone is skinny does not mean that they are healthy! They can still get heart problems, liver problems etc. So, dont be fooled by their figure. If YOU want to get healthy and lose weight, you have to find a plan thats right for you for excercise and healthy eating. Currently (its only been 3 days) I just cut out a lot of stuff from my diet and it seems to be working.
I cut out junk food! God, thats a big deal. Its really hard to do this, but its worth it in the long run, not just to get skinny but to get HEALTHY. Your body will be so much healthier. I also am trying to cut out meat and get my protein in other ways such as eggs and soy. Its hard because my parents are steak and chicken addicts, but Ive tried to explain to them what Im trying to do and theyve been pretty understanding!
For excercise, you have to fit your schedule and likes/dislikes AND problem areas. IF YOU HAVE MOD MOVIES ON DEMAND (its like an extra channel, for me its 900.) They have a program called the Girls Next Door workout in the Sports and fitness section. Its so much fun, moderately hard and works. I use it all the time :] So, I reccomend it. But, in your shoes and shorts, why not go running? Its not really my thing so if its not yours either, dance! I always just put on some music and dance. You dont have to know moves and stuff, but once you let go and just dance like your in a club or music video you will burn calories, be working your arms, legs, abs, inner thighs, everything! So good for you.
Whatever you do, eat! Ive been anorexic so I really dont want you to go down that road. Eat six small meals a day and excercise a moderate amount. Maybe 4-5 days a week.
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Hey im starting to workout cause my bmi is a little high. So I need some ideas for some music that I could work out to. I like all kinds of music so any ideas you have would be great.
Heres a few songs I like to listen to when Im working out :]
Here it goes again
Fergalicious
Push it
Beating Heart baby
Pump it
Rock show
Im not ok (I promise)
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Hey everyone! Well, I have some BOY PROBLEMS and FRIEND PROBLEMS! well, I really really really really like this guy. But, 3 days ago, one of my friends started to like him! I'm not mad at her, but she is skinner than me, and smarter than me and prettier than me and pretty much everything better than me. And I'm just sad because of it. But I think he may like me just because we talk a little more than they do and stuff. What do I do???? Should I just ignore her liking him, or confront her about it or what??? Thanks everyone!!! Love Ya lots!!!
Remember friends arent there to compete with you...if they do, you have an issue. First of all, does she know you like him? If no, then you must remember she probably isnt doing this to you. People cant help who they are attracted to. If yes, you may need to consider her actions. Is she looking for a relationship? My best friend is gorgeous..and a lot of guys like her over me. But, there have been those FEW guys that prefer me because of my personality. Beauty is skin deep..if its meant to be he'll go out with you. If he goes out with her, dont look at as shes better and youre worse. Because were all pretty and unique and special in our own way. Dont worry about it, because also chances are they wont go out FOREVER (if they even do.) Tell her how you feel and how much you really really really really like him. Then see what happens. Oh and also, just because she likes him doesnt mean he likes her necessarily. I know its hard but stay confident and REMEMBER friends are soooooooooooo much better than guys in the long run!
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Okay well me and my boyfriend have only been going out for about a month and christmas is coming up and im not sure what to get him..he says that i dont need to get him anything but i know he got me something so i want to..any ideas? i know he's into like hunting uhm and he plays basketball but he is like hardcore emo haha..soo its gonna be kinda hard
Hardcore emo :] Hotness. Ha, that actually makes it easier! Heres some ideas of things to get a guy:
- GIFT CARD. Gift card is probably the best idea since its only been a month/he isnt really saying what he wants. Find out what his favorite store is (maybe without asking him if thats possible).
- A CD. Get him the newest band out there or something you like that you'd think he'd like. DONT get him his favorite band's CD..chances, are he has it already so it will be useless to him.
- MIX TAPE. But actually a Cd. haha. So cute. Get a lot of good songs that he listens to (If you need ideas, check his myspace/facebook if he has one and look in the music section..that should help. Or ask his friends) Then put a card with it, naming all the songs/artists. And include a little note with hearts and stuff.
- TEE SHIRT. Find out his favorite band (or one of his favorites) and go to Hot Topic and check if they have the band's tee shirt! Theyre really cute and only about 20$ usually. Plus, he'll wear it a lot.
- KISSES. And a "homemade" gift card that says a free date with you to do anything he'd like! Let him take you wherever he wants to go even if it is really dorky and really guyish. He'll be happy to be with you! Its the thought that counts.
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I have only been dating this guy for two weeks
i rlly like him
i have already kissed him and i have never done that before this soon anyway
we already tell each other i love you and all this
some of my freinds say im falling to hard to fast
what should i do ?
do you think it is true?
Its okay to go fasts as long as you (AND HE!) feel comfortable 100% without any regrets or uncomfort. Its really important. But, kissing is pretty normal if youre going out with the person. If it was pressure to have sex it might be different. Just remember to go at YOUR pace with relationships and keep communication open with him.
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Okay, I tried out for a solo in choir on Friday, and we find out who made it and who didn't. Everyone says I'll get it, but how do I get rid of the nervous feeling in my stomach untill Monday? I couldn't sleep untill after 1 in the morning last night.
Oh GOD. Ive been there TOO many times :] Dont worry..The thing about solos is that they are all about who can sing the song the best, NOT whos the best singer. If you practiced and you think you truly did your best, it will be fine! Relax. If you do get it, great. If you dont, there will be so many more solos in the future. Try to get out and do something like hanging out with friends to get your mind off it.
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ok 14 years old and i've never had a boyfriend or kiss or anything. i don't know whats wrong with me. all my friends have had boyfriends but no, not me. im not ugly or anything like not to be conceited or anything but alot of people had told me i was cute and pretty. and i also have like alot of friends and they all say they love mt personality. i just don't get it. any answers to why i never had a boyfriend or how to get them to know im interested?
Im 15 and Ive never had a boyfriend. Some of the most beautiful girls dont have boyfriends..its not all about looks! And I know it sounds cliche, but good things take time to make it seem more worth while. When youre 14, youre in high school and the guys are really immature. MOST want sex and sexual acts just to say they did it to all their friends. Therefore they go for the easiest girls who will give it to them without emotional attatchment or hassle at all. Those guys are lazy. Also, high school relationships are stupid to me. Dont get yourself hooked on TV shows like Boy Meets world where Cory and Topanga are perfect and stay together forever OR the Notebook blah blah..Wait till college or even after that to find a boyfriend. It will mean more. And the guys will be so much more mature. Maybe the guys your hanging out with just arent meant for you. Dont worry..youre only 14. Thats not ABNORMAL to not have been kissed. So, be patient and try to find something else that makes you happy. A talent or a hobby. Do something worthwhile or help people in need. And remember you dont need a guy to make you happy! Stay gorgeous and fabulous and just flirt. Live it up because youre single! Its not THAT bad :] Its fun - look at it that way.
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ive been trying to lose about 10 pounds for the past couple months. i eat regularly and everything. sometimes when i have a craving for something fattening i eat it then make myself throw up. (then i win both ways. i get it, and i dont lose weight) i dont make myself throw up all my food, just the fattening food right after i eat it. is this dangerous or bad for my health?
It doesnt matter how much you do it. An eating disorder is an eating disorder and I hate to be that blunt but it can turn really serious fast and it could be very dangerous. Some of the effects of making yourself throw up are:
an imbalance in electrolytes;
inflammation of the esophagus, salivary glands, and jaw;
problems with teeth, gums, and lips;
chronic irregular bowel movements due to abusive laxatives;
feelings of shame and guilt;
depression;
low self-esteem; and
damaged family and social relationships.
and death...
Please try to stop and if you CANT break the habit, get help because youre doing a lot of harm and it is bad for your health. Youre never getting both ways..maybe for a while, but not long. And also, throwing up doesnt get rid of ALL the calories, by the way.
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How do you make the name above your default picture big without having a layout?
And you can change the font of it and stuff.
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where the x is you can use any font you think is big enough. Its probably 6 or 7.
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what are some good ways to destroy jeans at home?
thanks so much in advance!!
Get sand paper and rub them on your jeans! It rips them without making a huge hole and they end up looking really good :]I do it all the time
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okay for the girls. i started my period and it kind of smells.how do you et it to be like virtually odorless like a certain kind of pad?
i neeeeed answers :)
Well, there are certain types of pads that cover up the smell. They work too! But, other than that, always change your pad OFTEN. Maybe like every hour or 2 if your period is heavy. And take a shower every day during your period. When you do, make sure you wash down there as well as you can. Its normal for it to smell.
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my school's winter formal is some time in january, but i want to get a really cute dress because last time i got mine at the last minute. where are some stores or websites i could look for a fancy-ish but not too fancy (it's not like prom) dress. i like short dresses - knee-length or a little shorter or longer. anything CUTE.. thanks!
also, how should i wear my hair? i have curly hair and i dont want to straighten it. should i get it done?
I just looked all day for a winter formal dress! Thats so weird :] Im the exact same way. Its semi-formal wear. I shopped around at the mall and I went to Lord & Taylor, Forever 21, Express and I tried on Id say about...45285 dresses at Macy's. Ha. Then I went online and I found such cute dresses. Go to Nordstrom.com and click Juniors. Then look around. Im ordering three dresses to see which I like best! And theyre all like, 68 dollars from NORDSTROMS! Because theyre on the more casual side but they still look nice and you can make it more formal which is what Im doing with jewels, heels and good hair and makeup! So, yeah I would try Nordstrom. Or go to the websites Forever21.com. The store didnt have good dresses, but the website did. I hope that helped! Heres some dresses I put in my favorites..some Im ordering.
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2911755/0~2378467~2378483~2377032~6008190?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6008190&P=3
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2916795/0~2378467~2378483~2379598~2381736?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2381736&P=1
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2907178/0~2378467~2378483~2379598~2381736?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2381736&P=1
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2901290?refsid=99890&refcat=0%7e2378467%7e2378483%7e2377032%7e6008190&SourceID=1&SlotID=2&origin=related
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2920470/0~2378467~2378483~2379598~2381736?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2381736&P=1
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2890869/0~2376776~2374327~2374331~6001765~6001769?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6001769&P=5
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2890000?refsid=25812&refcat=0%7e2376776%7e2374325%7e2384392&SourceID=1&SlotID=1&origin=related
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2918173/0~2378467~2378483~2377032~6008194?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6008194&P=1
For hair, if you want to get it done, thats fine. But for a semi formal dress you could probably do it yourself. Or have a friend curl your hair. I like this style for a semi formal dance:
http://www.beautyriot.com/article.php?id=3648&c_id=65
Hope that helpsss
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im really popular now
but im so scared that im not gonna be throughout highschool.
Ive been pretty popular for a few years, im just scared
and i know its not all about being popular
but once you get used to it, then its hard to not be it.
help??
You pretty much answered your own question. I hate to tell you, but it doesnt matter. And another thing - popularity changes all the time so dont get attached to it. One day youre "in" and with one mistake, suddenly youre "out." Ive found that the way to stay popular and keep friends close is:
A) DONT gossip. Even if you think its cool when other people are standing around and gossiping..you will get caught.
B) Keep a positive attitude. If you all the sudden change and become depressed, no one will want to be around you. Usually the popular kids are the ones who are always positive and smiling.
C) Be interesting. Dont just follow everyone else..throw a party or invite your friends the popular kids out to do something really cool.
D) Dont be too clingy. dont let them know they have control over you.
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okay well at school and well practically everywere i go i turn red when im talkin to someone like whenever im doin projects i turn red in front of the class and next year im startin another year in highscool and people are gona start callin me like blushy or 'hey its the girl tht turns red ' and laugh and please someone HELP how can i stop turnin red i hate it please help
thank you
-dianna
Youre just embarassed. To stop turning red, theres not much you can do except try to build up your confidence.
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what is the best program for downloading music?
Limewire :] or Morpheus.
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