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Why do i turn red?


Question Posted Friday November 24 2006, 7:40 pm

okay well at school and well practically everywere i go i turn red when im talkin to someone like whenever im doin projects i turn red in front of the class and next year im startin another year in highscool and people are gona start callin me like blushy or 'hey its the girl tht turns red ' and laugh and please someone HELP how can i stop turnin red i hate it please help
thank you

-dianna


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Vikki27 answered Saturday November 25 2006, 9:00 am:
My best friend always used to have the same problem until recent years. Any time anyone looked at her, spoke to her or spoke about her near her, she flamed bright red and she was so embarrassed about it!

The thing is, most people with this problem go red because they lack self confidence and therefore always feel shy or embarrassed whenever attention is drawn to them.

Unfortunately, only time and building your self confidence will rid you of this problem, because you need to feel more secure in yourself before the blushing will stop. Remind yourself two or three times a day "People like me. People like to talk to me. I am worth talking to and I cope well being the centre of attention." You will probably feel a little silly saying it at first but make it your mantra and every time you are the centre of attention, take a deep breath and remember the affirmation. Over time, this should make you feel more at ease with the attention and in so doing, should make you blush less.

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karenR answered Saturday November 25 2006, 1:13 am:
Everyone blushes to a certain degree, especially if they are thrown into an awkward or uncomfortable situation. Unfortunately since its an involuntary response there isn't a lot you can do to stop it.

Once you are familiar with something the blushing usually stops. Sorry I can't be of more help.

I have heard that some guys find a blushing girl to be attractive. :)

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xOx_LoOvE_xOx answered Friday November 24 2006, 11:54 pm:
You turn red becasue you`re nervoeus or embarrassed. Also if you`re hot you turn red or if you`re jumping around. If you`re in front of a class you have to concentrate on the project that you`re doing not how you look or something else. Take deep breaths and I hope that helps.

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xomichelle891xo answered Friday November 24 2006, 9:33 pm:
Youre just embarassed. To stop turning red, theres not much you can do except try to build up your confidence.

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