ok so i got those glasses with the plastic frames last year cuz i liked them (at the time). they r blue with sparkles. i got them from da adult section cuz they werent in the kids section. at the time i didnt realize that they were too big for my small face soo i never wear em anymore. im afraid people will make fun of me, so i dont risk it. im only supposed to wear them at school and at home watching tv or sumthin anyway but sometimes i feel like i cant see anything without it being blurry. i dont want to wear the glasses at school cuz they look bad on me but i need to c the board. last year i got bad grades cuz i couldnt see anything. please dont nag me for getting the glasses in the first place, i cant fix that now. its already been done. please, i dont want to wear them cuz i made fun of enough but i need to see. what should i do?
Try picking out some other frames. Bring someone with you, or ask the optician for help finding ones that look good on you. Pick out frames that fit your face and face structure, rather than just frames that are cute. I fell in love with some frames that looked awful on me and went with the sleek black ones instead, and I'm so glad, they look awesome. There are frames for all face types, with enough work you'll find something.
Otherwise, get contacts. You can get plain ones that no one will notice, or you can get cool colors and designs.
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I'm 13/f with long blonde hair. I'm getting my hair highlighted (a lighter blonde) in a few days and i was just wondering is it really really bad for your hair? Can highlighting it do permenant damage? I'm not sure if i still want it highlighted if it's gunna ruin my hair.
I know that dyeing can hurt your hair, but I highlighting won't. I have auburn hair, and I have golden brown highlights professionally put in, and it has never had any bad effects on my hair.
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hey i want to get my tongue pierced but i was just wondering how much it hurts to get it done. either way i am going to pierce it i just wanted to no ahead of time......
thanks
I never had mine done, but my best friend and her fiance both did. Her fiance said it hurt a little, and she said that she didn't even feel anything.
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for some reason guys always take me as a whore..is there anyway i can make them stop thinking that?! i realli need help! i'm so depressed n crying! i'll rate!
Try to dress conservatively, if you look it, they will think it. Also, don't flirt with all guys, and don't hang all over them. I don't know what you normally do, just don't act like you give it out.
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hey yall i need some help (16/f/single) well i was with my bff yesterday..and we invited over her bf and his friend who i kinda like!..well my friend and her bf were makign out...and i was talking too the other guy and well he put his hand on my leg no big deal then he was rubbing it you know it was comfortable..well i told him i liked him and he said he liked me! it was great lol then he fingered me...while we were making out...then he asked me out i said ya...then i ono what came over me i took his hand and wa\lked upstairs and we had sex..greaaaat sex...i was on the pill anyways and we used a condom...but am i a slut and was that a bad thing?? im not pregnant or anything...sry that was long..please tell me! PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS IS IMPORTANT TOO ME!!!
Since you asked for opinions, I will tell you honestly and not sugar coat it. I don't think you're a slut.If you were doing this all the time with lots of different guys you would be a slut. I think that you are fast and easy. If you are comfortable with that, with that sort of relationship, and with yourself, then I guess there is nothing wrong with it. I think that you should know someone better before any sort of sexual thing (fingering or sex).
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My sister always likes going swimming with me and my dad. I find it fun too! But the thing is she's been planning it since last Sunday for her me and my dad to go Swimming today. But when I went to the bathroom this morning, I found out that I have my period. So I told my mom that I couldn't go swimming. But then when we were driving home from Church today, my sister brought up the subject, and my mom said that I couldn't go. She kept on asking and asking why I couldn't go and we told her because I can't. So now she's really mad at me. She's only 9 and doesn't know about periods and stuff so she's really mad at me. I feel really bad. I wish she was a little older so that she could know. So now I feel really guilty. What should I do?
You can swim with a tampon in. There's no reason to change your plans because of your period.
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Who here has a friend (including family member) who has had depression?
This includes the full spectrum of things such as: aenorexia, bulemia, traumatic abuse disorder, manic depression (bipolar).
I believe it is important to educate youth about this stuff because more than 25 percent of people will be disabled for some time of their life with depression!
Thanx!
I don't know exactly what you want to know. My fiance is clinically depressed and he is on meds for a chemical imbalance. He was always cutting and tried to commit suicide several times. He had a constant feeling of hopelesness, and always wanted to die.
He's on his meds now and he's fine. The key was getting help. He no longer cuts, and never even thinks about suicide. He's not over-the-top happy, but he jokes and laughs, and is generally in a good mood. He is so much better now.
If there is anything else you want to know, let me know.
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is it better to shave or bleach the hair on your arms?
I think that bleaching is better. If you shave you have to keep it pretty often or you will have stubble.
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Ok, I gained a lot of weight all at once. Now I have stretch marks on my stomach. If I lose weight will they go away? Will they go away when I'm older? They are really bad but only on one spot on my tummy. Is there anything to help them? This really makes me unhappy. I saw them and cried for a really long time and it makes me unhappy with myself. Please help!
They will fade eventually. You will always be able to see tiny white lines where they were, but they will not be obvious; you will only see them in a certain light.
Try rubbing a vitamin E aloe vera lotion on your marks twice a day. They may make them fade a little faster.
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Hey...im a girl and im addicted to masturbating. i do it whenever i can with whatever i can. if my parents found out they'd kill me. but...i was wondering 2 thins
1) can your cherry pop when you're masturbating?
2)if you masturbate too much, can it make you sterile and not able to have babies?
Im so scared of these two things...but im so addicted...help me!
It won't make you sterile, so your safe there.
If you don't insert anything, your hymen ("cherry") will stay intact. Anything that you insert, even just a little, will most likely break it.
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I have some trouble getting a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I've only had 3 boyfriends where my friends have had a bunch more! It's not like I'm trying to compete, it's just weird! I mean, people tell me I'm pretty, but I don't think I am. I also know I'm not fat but not thin... and I have a lot of friends! I don't really know what's wrong with me! Can anyone help?
Maybe you should be worrying more about school and having fun and hanging out! Don't worry about boys. I'm 19, and I'm engaged...to my second boyfriend. Relax, and enjoy being a teenager while you can.
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this is yet another odd question, but i am very hairy down there, and i dont wanna shave my head and die my scalp green. i mean, its not just you know, the hair in the V - area, i mean like. hair growing outta my buttcrack!! EWW!! Its horrible!!!!!!!! and when i shave a break out, and when i wax, i break out, and when i remove hair with a deliprattieuittrieforty, i break out. help me and i will love you forever.
You area actually quite normal. If you have the money, try a professional wax. You could also look into laser treatments for places outside the V-area. I would not permanently remove the hair in the V-area, so that you can still have a choice of how you look depending on the situation.
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Wow, usually I give advice, not get it. Oh well. Lately, in the mornings, I've been getting really bad charly-horses, in my mid-calves. You know what a charly horse is, right? Yeah, it's like a major muscle cramp, and it hurts RELALY bad. They last for like a minute and a half, and I can rub my leg and it feels better, but I don't know. Is there any excersises or anything I can do to help that?
Eat lots of potassium. Try having a banana right before bed. When you get one, keep your leg straight and point your toes toward your head. If you need to, use your hand to help. It hurts like mad for a second, and then it's over.
Try very gentle calf stretches in the evenings. Stand on a block or step with just your toes, and slowly lower your heels as far as you can. Stand flat on the floor and stretch your whole body straight to the ceiling. Sit flat on the floor with your legs straight in front of you and try to touch your toes. If you can grab them, pull them towards your head. If not, bend one leg, keep the other straight, and pull the toes of the straight leg back. Do all of this very gently and slowly. Hope that helps!
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When I am embarrased or telling a slight fib, (or maybe a bigger fib hehe) I blush! My face turns all red! For example, if someone says "Do you like Josh" and I say "no" (When really I mean yes) I blush, and you can tell I'm lying because I blush! Or when I embarrass myself, like say I fall, but try to make it seem like it didn't bothe me. You can always tell it bothers me b/c I blush! Blushing is soooo embarrasing!! Any tips on how to stop the blushing? (Or is it not possible?)
Signed,
Bashful
I'm the same way. As I get older (I'm 19 now) I blush less often. There isn't really anything you can do, except try things that give you an opportunity to be in front of people without blushing.
Try theater. Reader's theater is especially good for people starting out. Call your local theaters and ask if they have any similar programs.
Also, you could try signing up for a speech or debate class, if you're still in school. Join a band, or maybe chorus. Anything that will help build confidence in front of people should make you blush a little less. Other than that, just age and experience.
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I am a 15 year old female, and i have been having a lot of sex in the past two years. Im not pregnant but i havent had my period in 2 months i have been throwing up in the morning. Im not sure i dont want to tell my mom but i don't know what to do PLEASE HELP!
Are you sure you're not pregnant? If you're throwing up, and DEFINATELY if you're two months late, you are probably pregnant.
Buy a test yourself, you can get them at Walmart, most grocery stores, and drug stores. The cheaper ones usually work as well as the expensive ones. Take the test in a public bathroom so that if you're not, you won't have to worry about your mom finding out. I would test soon, because if you are you need to start seeing a doctor.
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I'm 16 and i know im pregnant. Im starting to gain weight, my family has a good reputation,like no pregnancies below 20 i dont know how to tell my mom what should i do
Out of respect, I would tell her soon. I think that it is better for you to tell her straight up than for her to start to notice and suspect things before you tell her.
I got pregnant when I was 17 and waited a long time to tell my mom. She was upset, but mostly because I had waited so long to tell her.
I went for a drive with her, and we got milk shakes. I told her that I was late a while back, and I tested and it was positive.
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K Here's the deal. I recently went to tx to see my dad's side of the family 4 the first time. When i got there my 17 y\o female cousin gave me a tour of the yard as per my uncles request. A wasp flew down her shirt and a so as not to get stung on her boobs she lifted her shirt briefly exposed herself to me. I turned around out of respect but i still saw. And i liked it :(
my question is, that wrong. i mean shes very attractive and a total stranger to me. I mean i would'nt feel that way about any of my cousins that iv know 4 many years.
please help me AIM: MicroSurjj88 email: loser1588@hotmail.com
THNX, Microsurjj 16 Y\O
No, there's nothing really wrong. To try to pursue a relationship would be wrong. You saw nice breasts on an attractive girl, and you reacted the way that any guy would. DOn't feel bad, you're completely normal.
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omg ok i have to get my wisdom teeth pulled! SOMEONE PLEASEE answer...how bad does it hurt? are you awake? and how long is your mouth all swollen? im really scared.. i ABSOLUTELY hate the dentist..and im scared to go.. but im more worried about the ?'sz i asked..soo please answer! p.s i rate!
Usually you're awake and they just numb locally. However, when I had mine out I asked to be put out, because the dentist scares me to death, and I hate mouth pain. (I had a baby without drugs, but not me teeth pulled). I was sore for a while, but my friend was in awful pain for two days, and sore for weeks.
The best way to combat the soreness is to soak gauze in ice water and then put it on the place that hurts. Ask your dentist about something that you can swish with (like cool water or sea salt).
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I really liked your advice with an example meal that you gave me! I would like some more ideas and tips for good meals, and some recipes too! I also rated you a 5:)! Thanks
Sure! Here's some more ideas (feel free to mix up things from different meals, they're just ideas :-):
BREAKFAST:
Drinks with breakfast are usually
1 c milk
1/2 orange juice (or other fruit drink)
1 cup V8
Coffee or tea with milk or sugar
1 cup strawberries
Oatmeal (i use old fashioned 1/2 c oatmeal, 1 cup milk, sprinkle cinnamon, walnuts, and splenda)
OR
Berry smoothie (8oz fruit flavored yogurt, 1/2 c berries, 1/2 c crushed ice)
OR
1 c Low sugar cereal (Kix is not bad!)
1 c fresh fruit
OR
1/2 fresh grapefruit
1 slice toast (whole wheat) with butter or topped with cheese and broiled until cheese melts.
OR
1/4 cantaloupe
1 english muffin with butter or low sugar jelly
LUNCH
Grilled chicken breast on romain (a plate full)
2 tbsp Low sugar dressing
Sugar free Jell-O (tastes just like the sugar kind!)
OR
Grilled Hamburger (no bun)
Top with stewed tomatoes
OR
1 cup cottage cheese
Any veggie you like on cottage cheese
Those are the simplest recipes. If you would like the more complicated ones (especially the dinner ones) go ahead and e-mail me, and I'll get back to you tomorrow: theysayhi@aol.com
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OK I REALLY NEED HELP. i am a girl and i have questions i will rate 5s no matter wat. ok well here goes: when i masturbate i usually rub it with something like a pillow or blanket. i don't really like to finger, i don't find a lot of pleasure in that. is that weird? please be honest. second thing: i don't know if i orgasm or not. it feels really good and i know that i'm "done" but i don't know if i actually Orgasmed or not. what's the feeling? does a bunch of stuff come out? more than the wetness before? how do i tell
Usually you are slightly more wet after an orgasm, but there is no hard and fast rule. An orgasm normally feels like release. Tension builds more and more, until finally it reaches a peak, and then pleasurably releases.
If you feel "done," then you probably have orgasmed, just too soon to really get the release feeling. If you masturbate often, try taking a break before you try again. Try masturbating in different ways. Maybe try putting a condom on your finger and exploring outside for a different sensation.
I don't know how old you are, but it wouldn't hurt to check out the toy selection at an adult store and see if anything grabs your interest.
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