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Question Posted Monday August 16 2004, 10:39 pm

OK I REALLY NEED HELP. i am a girl and i have questions i will rate 5s no matter wat. ok well here goes: when i masturbate i usually rub it with something like a pillow or blanket. i don't really like to finger, i don't find a lot of pleasure in that. is that weird? please be honest. second thing: i don't know if i orgasm or not. it feels really good and i know that i'm "done" but i don't know if i actually Orgasmed or not. what's the feeling? does a bunch of stuff come out? more than the wetness before? how do i tell

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gakkuhideto answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 10:43 pm:
That's not weird. Using your fingers get very boring after a short amount of time, so it's good to try different things. The orgasm question is a little tougher. Girls don't ejaculate. I guess it doesn't matter if you orgasm or not as long as it feels good.

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jokerzgrl answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 12:27 pm:
Its not weird, everyone is different, but orgasms...hmmm, I've never really...hmmm....I think that you will just know, and yes a bunch of mucusy stuff is supposed to come out, its perfectly normal. But if it feels good, do it, so long as your not doing it in front of children or in public!
much love,
Victoria

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MicroSurjj answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 2:00 am:
That sounds perfectly normal. Most girls below 20 years old dont even orgasm lots never do but they still enjoy sex just the same. Hope I helped ya sweetie

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surferchica answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 1:35 am:
i masturbate the same way..waaayy beter then my finger! hehe have fun..yes you can orgasm..you'll just feel wet and sometimes you tremble and it feels good haha

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hellraiser answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 10:18 pm:
first of all i think it's really sexay that u masturbate. no it's not weird theres different ways to doin it. well when u have an orgasm u usually start to moan and get wet.



hope i helped and to here from u agian.


p.s. a/s/l

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Mammie answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 7:09 pm:
hmm a pillow or blanket is really strange... lol ull know if u hit orgasm or not like ull feel it, so have u ever stuck ne thing down in ur vagina? that may help while also stimulating the clitoris... its sorta complicated but if u hit the "O" then ull know... hope i could help...

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HIMlovemetal325 answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 4:39 pm:
Nah I don't think its wierd that you don't like to use your finger. Personally I prefer the same way as you and with the rubbing. As for the orgasm i don't know.
- LIVEY

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Sunshine answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 12:38 am:
I don't think it's wierd that you don't like to use your finger, but you should be careful when you use the blanket, so you don't rub to hard or to long in the same spot, because you could get irritated and it might burn when you pee.

That done feeling that you get is what comes right after the orgasm.

If you have any other questions feel free to ask.

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cailoisa answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 12:05 am:
Usually you are slightly more wet after an orgasm, but there is no hard and fast rule. An orgasm normally feels like release. Tension builds more and more, until finally it reaches a peak, and then pleasurably releases.

If you feel "done," then you probably have orgasmed, just too soon to really get the release feeling. If you masturbate often, try taking a break before you try again. Try masturbating in different ways. Maybe try putting a condom on your finger and exploring outside for a different sensation.

I don't know how old you are, but it wouldn't hurt to check out the toy selection at an adult store and see if anything grabs your interest.

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SammyPie answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 12:00 am:
Warning: this answer sounds really dirty, and there is no polite way to word this. Ok, well here goes...

Masturbation doesn't just have to be with your fingers. Hence the creation of vibrators and dildos that people use. Different women "get off" in different ways. You have no idea what some people use, and I am not about to write in here the things I have heard about. About the whole orgasming thing, I've never heard of their being a specific way for a girl to "finish", I've heard that its different for every girl. Some girls let out more wetness, some girls don't. When you feel "done", then I'd assume you have had one.

I hope this helped. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask.

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bAyBeEgUrL8 answered Monday August 16 2004, 11:42 pm:
heyy babe--its not wierd that you don't finger, i dont find alot of pleasure in it either (( unless a guys doing it hehe)) an orgasm feels GREAT!! its the best feeling ive ever felt..and yeah the peak of the orgasm is right before you "cum" its kinda like an ejaculation on guys..

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exquizitehoney answered Monday August 16 2004, 11:31 pm:
not using yourfingers is a lil wierd because most girls fid it most pleasuring when touching themselves however if pillow turn you on then thats all that matters...when you have a orgasm you go numb and you get this overwhelming sensation that makes you tingle all over! it is definitley incredible...the wetness part indeeed so you get a good amount it is most definitley more than normal. like discharge but not as thick!

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xoQtBabyFacEox answered Monday August 16 2004, 11:11 pm:
first of all , yea its weird not to finger.. girls like that. yea u orgasm if u get a funny feeling(but a good one) and u cum (which is the wetness)

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