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Today is me and my girls 2 month aniversary, and she's grounded so i cant call her or visit her, but she snuck a call to me yesterday, i told her she would get a suprse today, i was goiing to get a white rose sent to her house with a teddy bear and a card, but the probleam is now my dad's bei a hard ass about it and sayin we'll have to do it tommrow plus all of the floral shops in my area are closed today. Im not sure ifi'll be able to reach her today and im worried she'll be disappointed.

Don't listen to your dad, and get her something else. Go to your local grocery store and get her a rose. or go to hallmark and get he a cute stuff animal. She would probably understand if you were not able to, but regardless she is going to be disappointed.

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When I had my last boyfriend everything would always go so great and after about 6 months we were both inlove and I really loved this guy! But then about 3 months later we were laying in his backyard in the hammock his arm was around me and we were just relaxing then i decided to put my hand on his chest and give him a kiss so i did and he pushed me out of the hammock smacked me and told me don't touch me so i ran away crying...i didn't talk to him for a couple weeks but he kept calling so i answered
~Convo~
me-what do you want?
him-im sorry i love you
me-too bad
and i hung up
then when my dog passed away he came over with flowers my mom didn't want him to come up to my room because i was really upset but she finally let him, then he started kissing me and telling me he was truley sorry so i forgave him and for about 3 more month it was all good and back to normal then again one night we were watching a movie in his basement (his parents weren't home only his bro and his gf) and we were all watching a movie and he kissed me and we started kissing then i put my hand on his cheek a little bit and he pushed away and was like dont ever do that again and threw the movie case at me and his brother tried to stop him but he just went mad at started punching me and his brother while his girlfriend tried to do somethin --im not really sure what--

So my question is I still love him, I know I shouldn't but I really love him I mean we have been together for about 2 years but stuff like this keeps randomly happening! I thought this guy was really right for me and sometimes he treats me really nice but others he hurts me phsically and mentally...I just want a guy to treat me right thats why Im trying to forgive him again but I can't just forgive and forget I'm scared something like this will happen again PLEASE help!

GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP... before it is too late. There is no reason you should put up with that. No one deserves that!

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ok, i'm really really bored. to the point that like i started crying. see if you can figure this one out and please give me advice on something to do. i'm sorry if it's kind of long, but i just wanted to show you the circumstances we're working with:

- i have my learners permit, but nobody ever drives with me because everyone is *too busy* yeahh right. i don't see anybody being busy but the point is that it's not an option because nobody really cares

- call up a few friends, the problem is that i don't have any friends! my only friend is on a three month trip a cozillion miles away and i can't call her because there is a really big time difference and when i'm asleep she's awake, vise versa. i talk to other people but like, nobody wants to hang out with me

- i don't have any schoolwork. i'm in summer..... and i hate schoolwork anyways haha but, i do have summer reading so reading is not an option because i have to read this REALLY boring novel that even my mom said that if she went to my school she wouldn't want to read it! so, that's pretty much out of the question too

- i'm an ony child, so if i go in the pool and stuff it's really boring. i'm just standing there in the pool looking at the sky and there's not really any young people in my family

-i'd go shopping but, we go back to problem # 1. no one comes with me, so no one is going to take me

- i'd go bike riding and stuff, but i don't know how to ride a bike/skateboard, and i don't have any skates or anything like that and even if i did, i wouldn't be able to go by myself. that's the one thing my mom won't let me do by myself. theres a lot of traffic where i live. I go to the gym, but i mean how long can you stay at the gym you know? like an hour? and then i come home and everyone is *too busy* to do anything else again

i'm really really bored. what else can i do?

Get a job... you'll meet lots of new people... keep yourself occupied... and make money in the process

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My hair is naturally frizzy and wavy.


Everymorning during the school year i straighten it for the most part

But my hair never looks the best until that night when it gets a little greesier (prob. because i dye it straighten it and sometimes blow dry it) but if i wash it every other day it looks really bad (like super greesy) the next day if i don't wash it

My problem is i am going to go running everymorning come home shower blowdry it and the whole shabang but my problem is it always looks dry and frizz's easily if it has been washed in the past 12 hours or so. I know its not the straighter but more of just my hair is dry but i know i have to shower after i run because I am going to be sweaty


My question is how can i wash my hair and get all the sweat out but keep it from being as dry looking (and it frizzes right away once i step outside if ti was freshly washed because its humid where i live most of the time). I was thinking maybe just rinsing it with water would work and acually shampoo it before bed but i wasn't sure

any ideas?


any products to help? I am not going to stop straightening or change straightener so don't suggest that (unless you use the most amazing straighter ever for under $50 because I use a helen of troy and i love it. but don't make your choice of straightener your adivce alone)


My school is an open campus so i go outside for about 5 mins every 45 mins so i can't avoid the elements (i live in PA)

try hair serum by frizz ease or Garnier Fructese... do not just wash ur hair with water without soap... just wash it using a mositerizing shampoo like thermasilk, or sleek look by matrix

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Hi, I am looking for big heart lockets. I don't like the hearts to be small, preferably around this size -

http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f334/yaaah222/ashtiflaptop.jpg

That heart is just a litttlee bigger then what I would want, but you get the point, I want a big heart. Can anyone give me some sites/names of stores where I can get one of those? Thank you so much!

i dont really have an answer... i just wanted to say that i think ur really pretty... :)

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I am going to the doctor Monday, but reading online I think i have anemia

I loose my breath
I am pale
I have a hard time breathing
I have loss of appitite
And I crave unusual things like paper, and grass


So.

Can someone please help me. Like when I go to the doctor, and he thinks i might have it. What should i expect

I hate needles. I hate them and im scared that they will need to do blood tests

SOMEONE HELP ME!

Yeah they will need to do a blood test... but trust me it wont be that bad

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in this school year, i got very popular, i have so many more frineds and everything, but my old friends are getting really pissed at me.. i dont even feel like a part of them any more .. what shud i do? :(

nothing... things change... people change... life goes on... and there is no such thing as a friend.

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Hi.
I want to go on a diet, but not a strict one. So I was wondering, if I drink nothing but water and eat KIND OF healthy, will I lose weight? When I say kind of healthy, I mean like no candy or junk food.

yes, you should see somewhat of a difference. just control ur proportions, and do some light exercise.

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I hate my eyebrows but im scared to shave them [w/ an eyebrow thingy] how can i make them look better without screwin them up using that thing?!

go get them waxed

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Hey so im asking this question to as many girls as possible. Well im 20 and my ex girlfriend is 18. In the past I was veri young and immature, we dated for two years but i wasnt really faithful to her. I never cheated or did anything physical but i did flirt with girls alot & talk to them on the phone. She broke up with me a year ago and this past year ive missed her more than anything. Ive realized how stupid I was and now ill do anything to get her back. i know her very well though, she would never go back to a guy who she feels doesnt respect her. I love her so much and I cant imagine being with any other girl. Ive bought her many many expensive presents to show her that i still love her but she just thinks that a guy like me cannot change.

how do I show her that ive changed?
she knows i havnt dated anyone since we broke up.

Buying her expensive presents is nice and all, but you really have to show her that you want to be with her, only her, and no one else. She is probably really hurt by what you did in the past, and it's going to take time for you to fix it and for her to get over it. Just don't give up. It may take some time.

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my friend went to the public pool today
and while she was swimming her purse got stolen
it had her makeup, notes, and her house key.
what should she do since it has her house key
and if they know where she lives they could get it!!
help!

Get the house locks changed

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Hey im trying to lose like 5 or 6 pounds and i was wondering if anyone new any outside games i could play with my brother or sister or even both
PLease and thanx XOXO

Dodgeball, badminton, kickball

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I'm a female 16yrs old:

Hey I am going threw a horrible brake up and I had this dream. I believe that dreams mean alot. I always have a dream that hints to whats going to happen, but I cant figure this one out.

In the dream I was listen to my brother and x talking on the phone, I was using the phone in my room and my brother was in his. As I listened I felt very sad and was breathing heavy but away from the phone so they wouldnt hear. My x was inviting my brother to go on a trip, my brother said ok I think. Finally I went into my brothers room and asked What happened what he say? what happened? Then he said Oh I'm going and tia(thats out aunt incase you odnt know spanish) can come too. My mom was also in the room. Oh and my brother was hiding under the covers if that means anything.

Please help, do you know what this dream could mean?!?

I believe dreams don't predict anything. I believe they are out subconcious thoughts and fears. So in my opinion, you probably have a fear that even tho you and you X are done, your brother my continue to have a relationship (friendship) with him. You probably have mixed emotions of fear, jealousy, etc.

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What can you put on your skin to make it softer?

try Nivea Creme

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hi im 15/f and my boyfriend 16/m andi are gonna have sex but i wanna kno is there a way i can make my down there smell better for him so it wont be all ew for him plzz help i rate high!

Just make sure you wash everyday and change your underwear, if you still have an odor, you need to use a douche. You can get that from the femine care section at any drug store, the box will have directions.

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ok, i bleached my hair about 3 months ago cuz it was black and i didn't want it that color anymore. it won't take color right anymore. i've tried to dye it 2 times[brown each time] and it keeps turning blonde after a few weeks. i don't want to be blonde. is there anyway that i can dye it and it will stick?

Go to a professional salon

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hey my name is ashley... and almost everyday afetr school i come home crying because i am always being made fun of because i smell... i have no reason to smell. whats going on, how do i get them to stop, what should i do about the smell?

What exactly do you smell like. Well whatever the odor is, make sure you shower everyday, and change your clothes and underwear. Also you could try switching your soap and deoderant.

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what can i do to stop arguing w/ my mom. Talking w/ her about it isn't helping anymore.
-i'm a 16yr old male

Ok this may sound stupid, but maybe you should stop talking to her. Ignore her & act like you don't care when she gets upset. The reason why women nag, and argue so much is because they want attention.

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i went out with this persn who lives in the same town as my cousin. I met him online though and thats how he asked me out. I never met him becuause i dumped him befor we got to meet. wen my mom found out about this she got really mad, and she told all my aunts and stuff, and she told me she never wants me to meet him. His best friend is my cousins bf though, so if i ever meet my cousins bf, then my ex will probly be there too, and we're still friends so i kinda do want to meet him. wat should i do? should i just avoid him?

Don't worry about your mom, do whatever you think is best for you. If you want to meet him go for it.

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ok, my mom is obsessed with myspace. and it's not like she has her own myspace. i suggested she gets one but she doesn't want to because she thinks that she shouldn't have one and she says she only wants to play on mine. she spends her time there. she starts changing my music, looking at different layouts, adding music videos and putting pictures on it. and sometimes, she doesn't even ask my permission! she puts things on and says its a suprise and sometimes she even acts like she's not doing anything wrong. she says that she's my secretary and it'sr really making me more and more mad. she comes home and checks my myspace! i really need some advice! i'm 15/f

HAHAHAHAH...Im sorry but that is hilarious... ok... why dont you try talking to her about it. If that doesn't work, give her a taste of her own medicine. Create a myspace account for her, apply a layout, add her pics, and put up YOUR favorite song. Lettme know how it goes. :)

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