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I wasn't sure what category to put this in, but I suppose this one will do.
Last night my cousin pierced my lip, and yes - I had permission. But I've been wondering what I should do now. She explained to me what she did, which I understand.
The stud I have in now is actually an extremely uncomfortable earring - but it's what we put in when we pulled the needle/string through my lip.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v722/xTie_Her_Downx/100_3844.jpg
Does anyone have any cleaning tips?
Any preferences towards what kind of ring I should get?
Any information they'd like to share at all?
Here's what it looks like now...
Outside:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v722/xTie_Her_Downx/100_3850.jpg
Inside:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v722/xTie_Her_Downx/100_3852.jpg (link)
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Here is a site that should help you a lot. :)
http://www.tribalectic.com/LipJewelryAftercare.asp
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Whats the normal heartbeat for a 14 year old female around 105-110 pounds???
today i had a surgery and i was really nervous and the nurse said my heart rate was 150 and i know thats bad. (link)
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Normal heart rate for a person your age is 60-100 beats per minute. You don't judge heart rate on weight.
If you are very athletic your heartbeat will be lower by the way.
It can rise as high as 150 bpm during exercise.
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Is there any way to find your previous advice columns? I cant remember the name, but I want to see if its still there. Any way to do this? (link)
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Yes there is. Do you want me to put it here for all to see or would you like it emailed to you?
You can only keep one by the way so you need to decide which. I don't know if you can blend the two together or not, you'll have to contact DN for that
info. :)
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I went on sites for msn icons and there are tons. But some of them move...like have slides and different pictures and some blink and stuff...what type of msn can use those? What version or series of msn enables the moving icons? (link)
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The latest version of MSN messenger is 7.5
If you don't have it update it. Lots of new stuff!
Easy way to check on windows XP is go to start and look for your messenger icon there and it will tell you what you have right beside the name. If isn't right under start, take green arrow to all programs and hunt it down.
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I really don't even know where to begin. My boyfriend found out two months ago that he was potentially the father of a two year old girl. He took the DNA test and he is the father. We have been together since a couple of months after the child was conceived. I have a 6 year old and we have a ten month old together.
The mother of the little girl was arrested for drug use and the child was put in temporary custody of the grandmother.
My boyfriend wasn't even in a relationship with this girl, it was just a very stupid mistake he made. Now they are trying to get him for back child support, as well as current support and medical bills since she got assistance from the state. Our children currently get medical coverage from the state so I don't see why he should be responsible for this other kids medical bills.
He has wanted to give up his rights to the child since we first found out about it. At first I tried to get him to do the right thing and try and get custody, but the more I think about it the more angry I get. I feel betrayed and hurt about this and it has me very depressed. I am trying to be strong for my children but I don't know what we should do. I love my boyfriend very much but I don't know if I can deal with him having a child with someone else. Just the thought of it makes me want to strangle him. If he had known about this child before I entered into a relationship with him I probably wouldn't ever been with him.
I sometimes think it would be best for him to try for custody for the sake of the child, but at the same time I feel I would have a strong hatred for her. Besides the emotional issues I'm not sure we could financially. I'm so tired of feeling like I am being torn apart inside. I just don't know what to do.
I'm really not a bad person, but I just can't figure out if I should stay with him or just leave. If I stay I don't know what we should do about this whole mess. Should I let him try and sign over his rights to her and just forget about it? He wants our lives the way they were before we found out any of this. I do too, but should we try and get custody of her even though it could ruin our relationship?
I really need some advice first of all to help myself feel better and not be so angry at him and the child(even though I know it isn't her fault, I feel like it is because she was born) Then I need advice about what we should do as a family. I would really appreciate some unbiased advice. Thanks (link)
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Legally, it doesn't matter to the state if he can afford it or not. He has been proven to be the father and has responsibility weather he likes it or not. I don't know what signing away his rights would do for him.
If you can allow yourself to see the whole thing as not being the fault of this child then I think you should seek custody of her and try to give her a good home with your children. Would you honestly be able to respect a guy who could just give up rights to his child weather he knew about her or not? I don't think I could.
As you began your letter saying, it was a mistake. He has been in a relationship with you for a while
so try and accept the fact that it was just that and move on from there.
She is 2. She is young enough to accept you as a mother figure without much trauma to her. Your kids will probably love her and you will learn to love her too.
It doesn't have to ruin your relationship. He must have accepted your 6 year old even though it is not his, and I apologize for calling your child an it...but you didn't mention boy or girl. :) I think you can do the same for this child of his.
It will take adjustment for you both. Not knowing
he even had a child has got to be a little hard on him too. Just signing over rights though won't put things back the way they were. You both know about her now and won't be able to just forget.
So, if there is any way at all you think you can get past all the stuff that is really not important anymore. I think you should really try and make room in your hearts and home for this little girl.
Good luck with everything, it will work out.
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Hey. A couple of days before Christmas I was in the hospital with heart and back pain. I recieved many heart tests indicating that I was okay. I have heard that it may be heart burn but I wanted to know if anyone knew if these sypmtoms lead up to that. Heart and back pain and then whether it be from that or fear dizziness and short of breath. Everyone has convinced me I'm ok but I'm really nervous and would like to be sure. Answer quick please
also if it is heartburn, i was perscribed omiprizol and does that help?
thank you so so so much to anyone who takes the time to answer this (link)
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Omeprazole is prescribed for people with GERD or gastroesophageal reflux disease. Here is what it is.
gastroesophageal reflux disease
n. (Abbr. GERD)
A chronic condition in which the lower esophageal sphincter allows gastric acids to reflux into the esophagus, causing heartburn, acid indigestion, and possible injury to the esophageal lining.
So take the medication, it will help you. I haven't taken it but know those who have.
You were probably told...and if you weren't I will tell you, try not to eat close to bedtime. Lying down with a big meal on your stomach can cause symptoms. As you know they are awful!
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My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. The first part of the relationship was long distance, so I didn't really think anything of it when he seemed uncomfortable. But, looking back, from the beginning he seemed hesistant about having sex with me. It was I who initiated our first time together and he just didn't seem as eager as I did. And to be honest with you, I can count how many times we have had sex in all of that time. I would say, and this is being generous, about 20 times, maybe, and as of now, I can't remember the last time we did it, maybe 2 months ago. He is very affectionate in other ways, but when it comes to that, he just doesn't seem that interested. Its always some excuse. I used to be on him about it everyday, asking questions, but now I don't say anything and I think that he is happier with that. I have never had this problem before, my last boyfriend loved having sex with me, but now sometimes I doubt my ability to please someone sexually. Another thing is that he never compliments me. Ever. I always have to say something first. Even on my birthday, of all days, I was looking good and he didn't say anything until my roomate said something. I feel that I have tried to talk to him and approach this situation in an adult manner, but I feel jilted. He never presented this side of himself before we started dating. I even asked him if he was gay. Nothing. And I see him checking out other women so I know that he is attracted to females. I feel that I am too young to give up my sexual life and not just on a physical level, but what it can help nurture between man and woman who love each other. I am not ugly, I just finished modeling not even a year ago, I am not overweight, I am not a prude in bed either, I don't stink. I feel I have tried everything and its frustrating to see someone that you love so happy not to be close to you, but want to be up under me all the time, just not that way. Should I even bother to stick around and see what the problem is or just leave now. (link)
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Whatever the problem is it isn't you.
First you need to talk to him about it. Does he have religious beliefs that are holding him back?
Is he diabetic? Sometimes having a disease like that can cause males to have problems with sex.
Is he gay? Sometimes guys have a problem coming to terms with that. Especially if brought up around homophobic people. They want to deny it if they are.
Whatever it is he should seek some medical attention. If it is religious beliefs then he needs to at least tell you about it.
You will have to have a serious discussion with him about it. Don't ask him straight out if it is religious beliefs, let him tell you. Don't want to give him an excuse to use!
Sex isn't all there is to a relationship as I'm sure you already know. It is an important part though. If your talk doesn't give you some insight
then you will probably have to tell him you will just be friends. :)
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ok if you dont want to go out with a girl but you humped a girl and you made out with a girl would you consider tha a lesbian. well its not for me its for my friend. she told me about this when she spent the night with this girl and i dont want her to be a elsbian but i was there and unfortuantley i saw the whole thing. she was all on top of her. when i left the room they came out like 30 min later and they said they got naked and they were humpin each other and everything. i dont want her to be considered a lesbian but i dont know if she is or not. (link)
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Many teens experiment. If she does not like girls exclusively she is not a lesbian. :)
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Should I cancel a credit card, and how will it benifit me. I am over my limit and really have no use for the card, but it just seems to keep piling up...please help. Thanks.
Jenn (link)
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What Razhie says is true. Don't cancel it. I just want to add that you can cut up your card and not use it. Just don't tell the card company.
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ok well my friend asked me what an orgasim i. I mean i know but i just dont know how to answer her. what should i say to her? ((how should i explain it?))
thanks (link)
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You could tell her to look it up on answers.com
Easyer than trying to explain it. :)
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when guys say how big their penis is do they say how big it is with or without an erection? (link)
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If they feel the need to talk abut their penis size...dig out a magnifying glass.
Just my opinion. Sorry couldn't stop myself. :)
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On the side of me, on the right side, down between my hip and where my belly button it, on the far right i have a extremly sharp pain. What is this? Nothing else hurts, Just this!! Help! (link)
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If you have a pain in the side or lower abdomen that won't go away it is best to seek medical attention for it. Especially if it is accompanied by nausea. :)
If mom says it is probably an appendicitis attack then that's all the more reason to seek medical attention. Though it is usually accompanied by nausea. You don't want to wait around for it to rupture because that is even more of an emergency. :)
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help im 10 and my bf wants to have sex with me!
i dont want to but he does he says we're ready
weve been going out for a year and he says its times
hes 11
HELP (link)
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This user has been banned for this question. You must be 13 to use this site.
Please, if you see one like this again file an abuse report. Several have answered but none of you filed a report on it. :(
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all my frineds make fun of me because my penis is too big, i am 14 and it is 9 inchies. Is i thought it was a good thing to have a penis. Is it? (link)
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If you are a male yes, it is a good thing to have a penis.
Sorry couldn't stop myself. :)
I agree with the others.
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i use chewing tobacco also known as dip alot and on a couple teeth my gums are getting lower.. will this grow back and how long will it take (link)
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No. It will not grow back.
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What are the early symptoms of leukemia? I understand that w/acute leukemia, the symptoms grow rather quickly, but w/chronic leukemia i heard it takes longer? what early detections can i see? my recent physical showed my white blood cell count was slightly higher than normal. and i am a definite HYPOCHRONDRIAC, so i dont if i'm just freakin out or should worry. my doc said this could be due to an infection or cold.... (link)
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White blood cells fight infection. ANY infection.
If you have recently been to the doctor and he didn't seem concerned then you shouldn't be either.
If you are truly a hypochondriac then don't look at medical web sites. You will find that a normal healthy person has had a lot of the same symptoms of many diseases. Only a doctor can tell you if you have a disease. Don't go looking for trouble because as far as medical things go...you will find something that sounds as if you have something dreadful when you don't.
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Ok another thing with my mom. Last year my Aunt Susie (87 years old - one of my moms sisters) came to stay with us for another aunts 90 birthday bash. As I told you I buy purses for $1.49 to $1.99 that look like $60 or more (strangers tell me they love the purses and cannot believe that I only spent $1.49 to $1.99). My mom said to me; Why dont you give one to your aunt; which I did. But this year I started to think about it and I got mad reason being she was being to free with my possessions. So tonight I confronted her about what she did a year ago (I know it was the past but it still bothered me). And she said; well if I had an 87 year old dying aunt I wouldnt hesitate to give her a purse that I had: I then said to my mom that is her not me. BUT I AM STILL ANGRY BECAUSE I DONT THINK SHE REALIZES THAT I BROUGHT 7 OF EACH COLOR BECAUSE THEY WERE INEXPENSIVE AND WILL LAST ME A LIFE TIME AND THEY ARE CLOSEOUTS AND I CAN NEVER GET THEM AGAIN. I keep thinking how dare she offer my possessions to anyone. It should come from me. I asked her what if Aunt Susie could come down again I am afraid you would do the same thing and she said that she would not knowing how I feel. MY QUESTION: Am I overreacting. (I am very close to all my aunts/auncles and cousins on both my moms and dads side.). (link)
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I'm thinking that if you are old enough it may be time to strike out on your own. A place where you can have your own rules.
If that isn't affordable then you may need to talk to mom and have her understand that what is in your room is yours and you really don't want her touching things in there without your permission.
Then keep everything of value to you in your room.
You are right, your mom shouldn't give your stuff away without consulting you first. It doesn't sound as though she did it to be mean to you though, she says if she knew how you felt she wouldn't do it now.
I don't think you are overreacting but you really should have said something at the time. Holding onto grudges for a year isn't good for your health. :)
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this might be werid or not, but when im at cheerleading or vollyball or any other sport i play, i get really sweaty around my butt and and crotch. its really akward and i get selfconscience becausei think its going to like show threw my shorts. it feels like discharge or like i got my period but its just sweat. is it normal? is there any thing i can do to stop it at all? (link)
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Use some powder, preferably one with cornstarch because it will help control odor as well. You could also try wearing a pantie liner (like a pad but much thinner) if you want some extra protection. :)
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How do I NOT care what my 80 year old mom thinks about what I do, buy, etc. and just do what I want, buy, etc. You see what tends to happen I get angry at her for insisting her way is better and then I say to myself; how dare you and in addition I build up a whole scenario in mind about what type of conversation would take place if I confronted her on the issues she makes comments about which gets us into a fight. Here are some things she does: (1) makes comments on the herbs I take (you see she doesnt believe in taking any type of supplements; (2) Gives me contradictory messages on the purses (they cost $1.49 but look $80) and jewelry (cost $1.49 but look around $40) I buy at the 99 cent store - she tells me that she loves the jewelry and purses I buy but makes comments on them as well; (3) I was going to buy reciprocal presents (frames) for three coworkers and she put down the fact that I was going to buy them at the 99 cent store. (I will elaborate on this on a new question. HELP. As I said how do I not care, not get angry, not say how dare you, etc. (link)
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When she starts making remarks you don't like just ignore them like she didn't say anything. Take your herbs and let her think what she wants. Go nuts at the 99 cent store and ignore her remarks.
Just don't let her bait you. She has her opinion and you have yours. Neither of you are going to talk the other into seeing it your way because you are both obviously stubborn.
For example, you have posted this question in many different variations. Why? And please don't post more questions about cheap purses and jewelery. No matter what they look like they are still cheap purses and jewelery. Get over it please. You have to grow up and ignore her opinion.
If you love it...great. Don't feel guilty about it
just ignore her. :)
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I just got banned for kidding around, mayonnays and i had a dispute and ketchup, her twin had this to say before banning me, by the way read the moderator board, im really pissed now i cant be a moderator... :(
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Okay. First, this is Ketchup. No, you havn't heard of me but you have heard of my twin sister. Mayonnaise.
Anyways, I heard u called her a "gothic freak"
You're a fuckin douche. You need to fuckin get to know somebody before you go and fuckin judge. You don't know her. I'm her fuckin twin whatever you call her, you call me. You need to get some damn manners and grow up. Stop being a fuckin 5 year old pussy. Thats what you are. We're not gothic. And we sure as hell ain't freaks. You need to learn how to give good fuckin advice cause yours sucks ass.
Think before you start fuckin calling people names. Especially if you don't know them. That just goes to show you're a pussy.
Grow the fuck up..
Oh, and you can get me banned. I really don't give a shit. So yeah..what you got to say now?
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Is there any way to become a mod again??? (link)
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FYI I banned Ketchup after approving your question
for her inbox question mentioned here.
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