my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he idd'nt have time for a girlfriend school and training. So he broke up with me and was realyl rude about it saying all I did was care about myself and I was self centered. But yet last night he had girls over at his house. He has time for hoes but not a girlfriend? I'm really confused I really love him and everything what should I do?
Well seems like he used that as a lame excuse..you could seem self centered to him but he probably used that as an excuse so he could what he wants with out worrien bout you.. i think you should move on cause you can probably do much better then this guy and probably deserve better then that..so i hope things get better and hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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This bitch lets call her Allie stole my crush from me. Then my friend Carley told her I liked him and Allie called me a slut to my face and now all my friends are turning on me. You don't know how bad I want this boy, and want my friends back. I mean I liked him first and this girl is younger then him. I'm so confused, what should I do?
Well if he liked you he would of got with you.. shit stop hatin on this girl..i mean it wasnt cool that she called you a slut but still he apparently dont want you or he woulda holla'd..he wants this allie girl not you..so stop hatin on her..~*DEZ*~
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I like this one guy in my class. I talk to him alot and we get along well. The thing is, first, he is a grade older then me (sophmore) and second, we are two way different people. He's really smart and kind of nerdy, I guess you could say. Also, hes more into a real relationship and doesn't seem like a shallow,"want to get some" guy. I, on the other hand have never had a real relationship because I always end up finding a shallow guy and I give it all away. I really want a true relationship and I have never liked a guy like him before, I guess my question is, how do I get a guy like him, what's he looking for in a girl, and does every guy just look for sex?
Well sex is on a guys mind alot alot.. but its on girls minds too we cant lie..but were different bout the whole thing we want a relationship and not jus be booty call..but if you really like this guy you should talk to him.. and theres not many guys out there that is wanting a serious relationship wit a girl so you might wanna snatch him up quick.. i mean he probably isnt really lookin for anything jus wants somebody to treat him good and like any other person wanting a good personality outta person..but i hope i helped and answered your questions i tried my best..~*DEZ*~
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ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now.
his ex gf is still in love with him and wont leave us alone. he feels guilty for leaving her for another girl and she wont stop trying with him. help !
Well tell her to back off.. i mean tell him how it makes you feel..cause im sure you dont wanna lose him over this... but if he loves you and everything then you should have trust and shouldnt have to worry about the whole thing..but i wish the best of luck..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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hey! i really want to get highlights in my hair. but i dont know what colors to get. can anyone help me? i have dark brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes. thanx!
get blonde highlights but dont get a bleach blonde get like a golden more natrual blonde.. or i would get like albrun highlights..but i suggest the blonde..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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hi
well this might be kinda long cause it needs a lot of explaining so im sorry but here goes...
i met a guy a long time ago and he was like...head over heals for me...at the time i didnt like him so i brushed him off, telling him i was interested in another guy.
it was only a bit ago that i realised how much he really did like me - he remembered everything and was so nice and kind and always there for me - an ive realised how much i appreciate that. he has now moved on and likes other people and i think i have feelings for him. now were like best friends and i cant tell him coz i dont wanna ruin things.
do you guys think that i 'like' him because i feel like ive missed my chance, because i cant have him or something? or do you think i genuinely liked him and realised it 2 late?
thanx in advance 4 any help. xxxx
Well you didnt like him so it wasnt a mistake to brush him off.. but you guys are like best friends you say so you should be okay tellin him you like him.. i mean you can be straight wit him he probably isnt goin to make a big deal outta it if he's still iterested he'll most likely let you know cause he had no problem tellin you he liked you in the first place.. so talk to him about it..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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ok there is this guy i really like and apparently he likes me too but he wont go out with me because he doesnt like my friends..... i dont know what to do because i cant get over him but at the same time i wouldnt be able to hang out with him and my friends at the together
Well friends are always there for you and this guy might not always be there for you..so jus stay friends wit the guy..or go wit the guy and jus dont hang wit em al at the same time..sometimes its easier to be wit your boyfriend when your friends arent around...Hope i helped ~*DEZ*~
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So I got offered this easy babysitting job from a rich family down the street, and they are going to pay me 50 dollars an hour, BUT at the same time my BFFs birthday party is going on. She said it was OK if i went to go babysit.i don't want her to think i don't care but I really need the money!!!!!!!!!!!
*Im 14 by the way and female*
Shit at the birthday party you'll get what cake and ice cream and spend money on her gift na shit go for the 50 dollar hour babysitting job.. i mean your friend and you can do something together for her birthday like go see a movie or something.. so thats what i would do..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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i'm forteen and i have never really had as serious boyfrined. Is there something special to look for in a guy? How do i know if hes the right one??? help please
Well always choose a guy with a good personality..and make sure they make you laugh and make you feel good when your with em.. make sure its somebody your atleast a lil bit attractive too cause you know looks aint everything..and make sure their matture and dont go to far outta your age cause you dont want somebody thats old enough to be your daddy..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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14/f...theres a girl in one of my classes and she'll sit there the whole class period and talk about me loud enuff for me to hear..so she obviously wants me to. Shes so mean and i've told her to stop and shes just like "I'll do what i want" and the thing is...she seems like a nice person but for NO REASON she hates me..when i asked her y she hates me so much shes like "the question is why wouldn't i" so she doesn't have a reason..theres this one guy thats her friend and always sticks up for me whenever she talks about me and its really nice and i think it'll eventually stop bc he always tells her too and she'll get bored saying everything when he just tells her to stop talking about me. but the stuff she says is mean and sometimes she IMs me outta no where to say how weird i am or i have no friends (which is not true) any advice on thing is can say bak to her when shes talking about me?? I RATE 5'S SORRY SO LONG!!
well jus ignore her..but i wouldnt wanna go out like a punk either.. jus tell her how it is..she's very childish for her age..and she needs to grow outta the second grade kiddy shit.. cause thats very immature for a 14 year old girl.. she must not have no life to jus pick a random person to talk some stupid bullshit..so jus say that then see what the girl has to say..hope i helped~*DEZ*~
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i started likeing on of my friends and he's 17. Im only 13. He's really sweet and he REALLY isnt a bad person. when im around him, when i talked to him, even if i hear his voice i just smile the biggest smile. I talk to him almost every night on the phone and we text each other constintly through out the day. he said he likes me and i like him also. Some of my guy friends said that they dont want me to get hurt. they dont know him. They said that 13 and 17 is a very big age diffrence, but i really like him alot. He just makes me happy and for awhile i haven't been happy. Do you think that i should continue to like him? and do you think that if he was to ask me out should i go out with him? please tell me what to do im so confused
Yes you should continue to like him ignore your friends.. i mean if you get hurt it'll be on you but if you honestly think you and him will be alright then its cool.. and i think you should go wit him if you really want to.. its ya'll business not anybody else's.. i mean there is kinda a age difference and your friends are probably a little worried about that..but your like a lil baby compared to him..he's almost a grown man and he probably like lil girls.so you might also wanna keep your eyes on this one hun cause of that..but i hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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HEEEEEEEELP!!!!!PLEASE!!!!!
ok ok....i submitted a question about my bestfriend that i made out with and that i have gone out with a million times...blah blah blah well after i did that he asked my out on halloween and we ahve been going out for 3 months now...but i got kicked out of my private school and im goin back to public school w/him and he thinks that i will dump him now becuase i will just go out with sumone eles and the only reason i have been going out with him this long is becuase i didnt have anyone to go out w/ at my old school and he almost started crying...i told him he was CRAZII and that i love him more than anything...but i dont rele trust myself i mean i know i love him but... i have already talked to a few of my ex boyfriends and i already know that i am gunna have to fiight to b able to turn them down becuase one of them already asked me to...does that mean i dont love my boyfriend????
Well you might have love for him and it might be jus puppy love..and theres nothing wrong with talking to your ex boyfriends but your jus gonna have to tell them guys up front like leave you alone cause you have your baby..~*DEZ*~
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Over the weekend I did a really stupid thing. Ive been best friends with this guy for about 5 years now and nothing has every happened romantically between us. It crossed my mind a few times but nothin ever came of it. Anyways over the weekend we slept together. he has a girlfriend and i feel really bad. i never really had feelings for him but now i do and he told his girlfriend about it and he wants to try to stay with her. We havent really talked about why it happened and whether we have feelings for each other or not. I want to talk to him about it but i want to bring it up without looking like im clingy and all "where is this going" kind of annoying.
I really dont know what to do. Any advice would help. Thanks
Well thats not good that ya'll havent talked about the whole thing.. and its messed up that he dont wanna try something other then friends with you.. well um he's your best friend it shouldnt be hard for you to try and talk to him..and you should tell him how you feel about the whole thing cause you jus cant really move on and act like nothing has happened..cause your feelings for him aint jus goin to go away..so you should really try and talk to him and see whats up wit ya'll cause his relationship wit also isnt goin to be the same and if he does have feelings he aint goin to let em go away..and also if his girlfriend is a smart one she aint goin to forget and probably not goin to want ya'll around eachother or trust you guys around eachother anymore so it might be kinda hard to talk to him but some way and some how try your best..hope i helped ~*DEZ*~
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Ok heres the deal, i like this guy. i liked him ever since i saw his face. he has the cutest face ever!!! i dont know how to tell him. my frend and i lyk always talk about him and while hes in the same class. Im kinda like not popular but he is.. i dont know what to do!!
Dont be shy jus gon on over and try and talk to him..but dont do it with alot of people around so if he dont go for it or something then you wont feel embarassed.. i mean try to be his friend first cause you jus like him for his face not much else so you wanna get to know him before you decide something like having a relationship wit him more then friends..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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Lately my hair has been extremely dry. I don't know wether its that I straighten it everyday or that I wash my hair everyday. Are there any products that your suggest to make my hair not dry?
i would suggest not straighting your hair for a couple days and continue to wash your hair everyday but use alot of conditionor.. but i dont think its from washing your hair everyday cause alot of people do..so thats my advice and what i'd try..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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Im 13 years old. A lot of the other girls have boy friends and all but ofcourse i dont. ive never even had a first kiss or went on a date with a boy. Its not like im ugly because im not really. i just dont know...it just feels like that time is never going to come??..
wow um i had that same problem when i was your age.. well your time will come sooner or later..and dont worry bout guys they trouble anyways enjoy life with out a boyfriend til you get one..plus your real young so you shouldnt worry bout it..jus cause your a teenager dont mean all the sudden you need a boyfriend too.. and dont mind dem other girls...~*DEZ*~
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my boyfriend cheated on me with another girl .. we have been goin out for 2 1/2 monthes now .. he says he loves me, but i dont see how you can cheat on somebody you love. he didnt have sex with the other gurl, but they kissed. so i then broke up with him and that same day i broke up with him he kissed another girl .. im so confused. should i stay with him ? i mean we are both only 15 years old . so maybe it was just hormones. but do you think he loves me. he treats me really good, hes boughten me a gold ring and big teddy bear when i was sick he
Well i guess i wouldnt believe him..cause that messed up he did that..your young dont trip over somebody like that and treats ya like that...~*DEZ*~
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i have eaten really healthily lately, and cut back on fats and sweets and all that and I lost 18 pounds! WOOHOO! Anyways, I have also been exercising and all that jazz...I DON'T want to gain the weight back! But...tonight we might order pizza from Pizza Hut...will having pizza this once hurt my diet?
Kid enjoy the damn pizza and dont worry about it but dont be like doin it all the time.. hope i helped and enjoy your pizza...~*DEZ*~
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my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?
shaiina
Tell the girl to shut the hell up...Eazy as that hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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okay well i moved to Arizona a month ago, and I was 130 pounds when i moved here, I got depressed and sick and I lost enough weight to get down to 115 in just 3 months...just a week ago I was 113, and now im 105..I eat like a PIG and i dont excersize at ALL...is there something wrong with me? Is this normal??
I rate 5's
Well i dont think its normal to lose weight like that but you might jus have high matabulism or how ever you spell it..but maybe you should see a doctor..hope i helped ~*DEZ*~
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