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Is our friendship changed forever?
Over the weekend I did a really stupid thing. Ive been best friends with this guy for about 5 years now and nothing has every happened romantically between us. It crossed my mind a few times but nothin ever came of it. Anyways over the weekend we slept together. he has a girlfriend and i feel really bad. i never really had feelings for him but now i do and he told his girlfriend about it and he wants to try to stay with her. We havent really talked about why it happened and whether we have feelings for each other or not. I want to talk to him about it but i want to bring it up without looking like im clingy and all "where is this going" kind of annoying.
I really dont know what to do. Any advice would help. Thanks
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Well thats not good that ya'll havent talked about the whole thing.. and its messed up that he dont wanna try something other then friends with you.. well um he's your best friend it shouldnt be hard for you to try and talk to him..and you should tell him how you feel about the whole thing cause you jus cant really move on and act like nothing has happened..cause your feelings for him aint jus goin to go away..so you should really try and talk to him and see whats up wit ya'll cause his relationship wit also isnt goin to be the same and if he does have feelings he aint goin to let em go away..and also if his girlfriend is a smart one she aint goin to forget and probably not goin to want ya'll around eachother or trust you guys around eachother anymore so it might be kinda hard to talk to him but some way and some how try your best..hope i helped ~*DEZ*~
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the only reason you have feelings for him now is because you slept with him. he has a girl, and he wants to stay with her you should try and talk to him but if you two were drinking then its a shame that happened and try not to let mess up your friendship
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try going about it like " i kno we have been close friends for a long time.. but.. " and then just tell him how u feel.. maybe like. o about what happend the other night well -- and fill in your feelings. i cant tell you what to say. i can only guide you
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that sux. u really hafta ask urself if things can just go back to being the way they are and if u can still think of him as just a friend...
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