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urgent.
ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now.
his ex gf is still in love with him and wont leave us alone. he feels guilty for leaving her for another girl and she wont stop trying with him. help !
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tell the bitch to back off or else you will get ppl on her ass... also start making out with him right in front of her.. and be like "whore he doesn't want your skanky ass" then punch her.. it adds to the effect :-D
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Have YOU talked to his ex? Maybe you should tell her to back off. Or be nice about it, and tell her "I understand you still have feelings for him, but I would really appreciate it if you would leave him alone."
He can feel as guilty as he wants to, but he's your boyfriend. I would maybe point out to him that it was his decision to break up with her (which I'm assuming, since she's the one that still has feelings for him) and he's with you now. But I would talk to both him and his ex and see if you can't get her to stop trying, and him to stop feeling guilty. I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Tell the guy that he needs to set things straight with his x. If he still has feelings then your relationship with him could be just a rebound relationship. Tell him that if he wants to be with you he will calmly explain to his x it is over, and that he has moved on. He can still be friends with her, but she needs to realize they aren't together anymore.
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Okay really you need to just tell her to back off! If yall have been going out for 7 months and she still hasnt left yall alone?! Your need to tell her in a nice way to back off or try to find a new guy for her!
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it basically comes down to how you and him feel. he might feel bad about leaving her, that doesn't mean he still likes/loves her, and it doesnt mean he'd do the same thing, leave you for her. you need to sak him how he feels about her, and use your trust towards him for his answer. you can either trust him and what he says, or you can throw out your trust and let him go to her.
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Well tell her to back off.. i mean tell him how it makes you feel..cause im sure you dont wanna lose him over this... but if he loves you and everything then you should have trust and shouldnt have to worry about the whole thing..but i wish the best of luck..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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Who is hte other girl he left her for you?
he should feel guilty unless he did somethng wrong to her and he knows it. Ask him if he wants to go back to her, becuase it sounds like hes not over her and he needs to think things out. Tell him you dont want to be the rebound chick, because thats what you are if he left her and then got with you right after.
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just have a word with the girl dont use agressiveness because that wont get you nowhere. just explain 2 her that she needs to get over him cuz your with him and tell your boyfriend he shouldn't feel guilty everyone has 2 move on sometimes.
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He left her for you.. you are a mean bitch and you will burn for all eternity for ruining that poor girls life.. BEG FOR FORGIVENESS!!!
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Heya,
the only thing you can really do is ignore the ex and hope she goes away. She will eventually give up and if you feel like it's taking too long, try and talk to her. Maybe you could talk to your boyfriend too and try and figure out the whole feeling guilty thing? He's with you now so he shouldn't be feeling guilty about something that happened 7 months ago. Just tell him that the girl is jealous and, seven months on, he shouldn't be feeling guilty over it. If things are getting too much, you and your boyfriend might have to take some kind of break. Is there anyway you could move away, or keep your distance from this other girl?
I hope it works out for you :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Hi. Dnt worry bout him. hes nt worth it. jus let her hav him cus she ovisly needs him more! move on!!!
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