Ok, this is kind of a long story. However I am having extreme issues with it. I am 16 and a very curious teenage girl.
I have a boyfriend for the first time in a while, and hes a sweetheart. However, I have two other guys that I think about on a regular basis. One of them I have been sleeping with on a regular basis since the end of october or beginning of november. The other guy I constantly am flirting with and have been mutually wanting to hook up or sleep together. I feel horrible about thinking about this and guilty about it. But what do I do?
The guy that I have been 'with' since late october, we have established a good connection however no relationship,labels, or any form of ties keeping us 'together'. However I think I have real, raw feelings for him.
if you could help me out it would be very appreciative. Thanks so much to whoever helps me out.
-Rachael
i think i answered this question or one you asked similar to this one but.. maybe you should jus break up with your boyfriend and enjoy being single but i would control yourself with the sleeping with people.. you should try to have only one partner and not sleep with a whole bunch of different guys.. but i hope i helped with the question..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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I know this sounds totally gross but since I'm from Sicily Italy and i have really dark brown hair. There is almost black hair on my arms and I dont like to wear t-shirts cuz it shows off my arms and im afraid someone might say something. What can I do?
Well i guess you could shave it.. but i think it would get annoying after awhile.. jus like shaving your legs.. but i think you could maybe get some type of hair remover from a store or something.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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This person Ive been thinking of constantly is becoming one of my best friends. I think I like him because when I'm with my friend hes all I think about and i get this weird feeling when I'm around him. Valentines Day is coming up. I think I'm going to ask him if he wants to go out with me the day before but I'm wondering...What do I do if he says no? I dont wanna look like a moron or start crying or anything..
Well ask him if he wants to go as friends then later in the date you could tell him that you wanted to ask him seriously as more then friends and see what he says.. jus be real with him dont feel stupid.. and you say he's like one your best friends so if he really is like one of your best friends you should be able to talk to him.. it might not be easy at first or even at all but everything isnt ment to be easy so find out if you dont then it will bother you and you'd probably be mad cause you didnt do it.. so i say go for it.. hope i helped ~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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Sorry for the lengthiness ahead of time.
OK here goes, I am a 16 year old curious teenage girl. I have recently gotten a boyfriend, and this is the first time since about beginning of september. However, I have two other infatuations. And I think about them on a regular basis.
So now I will explain in a little more detail about them:
My boyfriend, I just met him at a concert on January 29th. He is a total sweetheart and a complete cutie.
One of the other guys, I have been talking to him regularly and we flirt which is no biggie, however we do talk about hanging out and kissing or making out on a frequent basis as well. however, that is not just recent I was doing that long before I even met my boyfriend.
The second guy, I have been sleeping with on a regular basis since about the end of October, however I havn't since I got with my boyfriend, but I have also failed to tell him about my boyfriend. Except I don't want him to be devastated because I am dating someone else, he is the last person in the world that I want upset or mad at me. He is my best friend, my savior when I need it. However, we weren't in a relationship, didn't have labels, or any form of ties keeping us together. Except I am now seeing that I think I developed real, raw, strong feelings for him.
I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt anyone. If you could help me out I would appreciate it so so much.
Thanks in advance for anyone who helps or even tries to. Because I know if I can get through this I can work through other problems that I have. So thanks again.
-Rachael
Well forget the guy that you jus talk bout kissing and flirting with.. he jus sounds like a friend you might have a lil crush for and thats it.. and the guy your with well you might like him or what not but you have strong feelings for the guy you had sex with thats not going to go away if its real you know.. um you should talk to the guy thats your savior and see how he feels.. he might not really have feelings cause you guys jus sounded like sex buddies to me.. but see whats up with that.. but i would try to get with that guy and try to be friends with the guy your with now.. and in the future if i was you i would try not to get attached or close to other guys when your with somebody.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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okay i believe in god but i guess i doubt it somtimes, i get scared of "what if there isnt one" and is there a heaven :/ i think i should go to church to build up more faith but then again i dont get how that could actually help... I really get upset over this, any suggestions?
i understand where your coming from with this.. i have a hard time beleiving too caus eall the different kinds of religions and i dont know which ones right or if any of them are so.. i would jus believe theres a god and pray.. but i would exactly get involved with a church..hope i helped ~*DEZ*~ ThugGirl041790
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Ok well I'm in junior high but i still have no friends and the 1st semester is almost over!! Well, I have one friend, my best friend,a.k.a. my soul sista. I couldnt survive with out her!!! So the years half over and nobody wants to be my friend. I'm on the track team, I go to the basketball games and dances, and i'm in the school choir. So you would think I'd be miss. likable, righttt? WRONG!!!!!But nobody wants to be my friend. I'm not a dork and nothing is wrong with me....they just dont like me. I want to swich classes, but now that i think of it, no one in the other classes like me either. I want to swich schools, but i think it would be a hard transition leaving my best friend. What should I do plz plz plz help me i'm in desperate need of guidance right now plz!!!!!!!!!
maybe your not outgoing enough and hard to notice or hard to relate too.. maybe try doin more things with your best friend like do things with her and her other friends she has.. and by the way you can switch schools and still be best friends with this girl.. maybe switchin schools is what you need...~*DEZ*~ ThugGirl041790
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i`ve never shaved 'down there'..i`m scared i`ll get razor burn, but it really bugs me and i want it all gone..without getting it waxed. Does using shaving cream keep it from no razor burn? what else could i use so i dont get it, because i`m in a swim class at my school..and i really dont want red bumps to be visible. i use a venus razor, if that counts for anything..
Well you might not want to shave with shaving cream i use conditionor you know what you wash your hair with.. it keeps it soft but i dont think theres anything you can really do about getting razor burn.. but i dont seem to get it too often.. afterwards i would put baby lotion on it or baby oil.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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Ok, I'm not entirely sure if this is the right category, but yeah. So I was sitting with my Girl on the porch, and she was kinda Lying kinda sitting on me, with her back toward me, and I had my arm around her, and she grabbed my arm and put it down her top onto her breast, (This is while I was nibbling on her ear... I'm 17 and not really skilled in this area.. What am I supposed to do?
well nibbling on her ear is a good start actually.. kiss her neck too.. maybe even kiss her on her mouth you know.. but i wouldnt do all this on a porch.. cause this could get nasty just playin.. but also you might want to talk to her bout this cause you dont wanna rush her into anything.. but i hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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when i go to dances and grind with boys i don't really know what to do. i feel awkward doing it. what is the girl supposed to do while grinding? please help me this is so embarassing! i rate good for anything!
well you should feel pretty damn stupid.. dont do it.. you dont know what your doin.. but if your not gettin complaints why do you care..~*DEZ*~
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hey everyone--- sorry this is soo long...
well there's these two girls brit and breanna that keep bothering me.. and well i told my friend kim that breanna does drugs.. and well breanna told me.. so i thought it was true... and it wasn't so now brit and breanna keep saying all these mean things to me.. what should i do about it?
you shouldnt of went and told somebody's business like that.. you wouldnt want somebody tellin something you told them.. so i think you got what you deserved really.. but you could be mean back instead of being a punk and askin us what to do..hope i wasnt to mean jus bein real with you and i hope i helped.. ~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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hiya, my friend has just recently got a new boyfriend. she has had one before and had sex and her mum didnt no. im scared she will have sex again beacuse today she said to her other friend that she did something with him, and im thinking it may well be sex, cos she sed she was in a shed (by theirselves).
anyone give me advice plze?
thanxz x x x x
Well this is your friends business.. let her do what she wants i mean you cant exactly stop her...~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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does n e one know of any good smelling colognes for a guy i like. i need a good one like really nice but thats not really expensive?? not like axe tho thats too cheap.please help me soon
um my step dad wears this cologne that smells really good its called georgio armani im not sure if its expensive or not and he wears this one called intuition.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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I got my cartilage pierced in august, and I didn't have a problem with it until now. Everytime I take the earring out to try and put a new one in, it seems like the back of my ear scabbed over in the 5 seconds that an earring wasn't in. I have to push the earring in, and eventually I get it in, and it's usually fine. Today I changed it again, and I tried to put a new one it-a post hoop, and I couldn't get it in cause it hurt. Then the back of my ear started to bleed a little. Does that mean it's infected? Or just irritated? Should I take the earring out and let it close up, or is it something that will go away? What should I do? I don't want to take it out. Thanks
Well clean it everyday..and dont change your earring for a while.. dont change it real offten.. if the earring is fake or something you might wanna buy real ones.. but if you decide to take it out and close it isnt going to close right away so if it heals you'd be able to put the earring back in and it might hurt a little bit.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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okay like im a freshman an im 15 an my boyfriend is a senior 19 but we dont go to the same schools. yeah i always get talks about how hes dating me...a minor...an how its wrong and everything so yeah dont repeat plz. well today he asked me if i could go to this really formal dance at his school and i wasnt so sure becuase my mom of course doesnt know about him and she definitly wont let me go and i dont really know anyone else that goes to his school. i really wanna go but yeah i KNOW i cant. so if anyone has anything about what to tell him that i cant go or ways that i could probably can go please let me know. thanks
Well tell your mom that your going to a dance with some friends.. but how to tell him i would jus tell him what you wrote like how your mom would react and how it would be hard to lie to her and what not..hope i helped ~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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Okay im DESPERATE for a good Eyeliner and a good Foundation, the liquid one, the ones I wear ALWAYS come off within 30 minutes, and its so annoying! and they smell bad too! I really need help!!
never heard of smelly eyeliner.. but um i would suggest maybelle expert eyes for eyeliner..and for foundation i would suggest covergirl..or mary kay.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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Okay lets start my saying im 13 years old. I am dating a 17 year old. My parents along with his parents think it's a bad idea because of the age difference. I havent been able to get ahold of him and talk to him about it. I also like some one who is closer to my age. But does kind of bad things like drinking isnt a problem to me since i do it but he does ciggerates and weed and stuff. He told me he wouldnt pressures me in to anything and he told me he likes me to.HELP ME IM CONFUSSED!!!
Well if you cant get ahold of this guy forget him..sounds like that was a waste of your time in a way.. and this other guy thats closer to your age might not pressure you into anythingyou dont wanna do when you SOBER.. cause when your drunk he could easily take advantage of you.. and i think you should forget that guy..even tho us girls love us a lil bad boy but maybe you should try to work things out with the 17 year old..Hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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ok well i have been going out with this guy for a while now and every thing is going really good but i want to take it to the next leave and i dont know what to do can anyone help me
p.s. i dont really know how to give a guy head or like how i am supposed to let him fingure me can anyone help me please?
Well this is a guy your talking about hun..all you gotta do is show him that you wanna take it to the next level.. and the fingering part well jus put his hand down there or something when your making out with him.. and also feel on his body when your making out with him.. it shouldnt be hard.. and giving head part jus show him that you want to do that and he'll probably most likey help you out with that cause he'll want what he likes.. and he'll tell you what to do.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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I am a 16 year old female. Well i have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and at first everything was fine I was happy. Now its like everytime he talks or even if he just looks at me i get annoyed. I don't know what to do. I care about him a lot but i don't know why im so unhappy with him. Maybe its not him maybe im just trippin. sometimes i really want to be with him and sometimes its like why am i with him. I want to know should i break up with him or not. im not sure i really do care about him and all my friends think i should stay with him. but i want to know what you think. Please help. what should i do
well you should probably stay with him.. you probably are trippin but maybe you guys need space.. and um if you also really think you dont really care bout him i wouldnt stay with him then cause he'll just get hurt in the end.. but you might break up with him and then realize it was a mistake so just try to keep a lil more space between ya'll.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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there this guy who likes me and i like him, but he gets nervous around me becuz he like, REALLY likes me and i really like him but i kno if i'm all nervous too, we'll NEVER end up talking..so i try to talk to him and i ask him questions and he just says like "yeah" or "lol" so i tried to not ask him yes or no questions but he just kinda gives and answer and thats it. what can i do to get him to talk and feel more comfortable?? i rate 5's!
Well just keep talkin to him he'll eventually loosen up.. talk bout something you know he likes.. or if your round a whole bunch of people try to talk to him by your selfs or on the phone.. but like i said jus keep talkin to him he'll eventually loosen up or atleast he should..hope i helped ~*DEZ*~ ThugGirl041790
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ok i know this one girl who ive known since last year we sat at the same lunch table, then this year we have spanish together..were not close but we do talk here and there. she went out with guy danny whos in 11th grade and they recently broke up after 6 months or so. my other friend had met him in a chat and they talk and so on, and anyways we were going to the mall on saturday and so we went. we come back and shes at my house waiting for her mom to pick her up so were talking to him on-line n seemed nice. so after she left we started talking and all, i seem a lil into him i dk, i saw him be4 like once or twice with the girl who went out with him. i just found out that he was in my lunch last sem and all so i kinda knew who he wasnt, i just never saw him only the back or something when the 2 were leavin the caf. i dont know if hes into me or something i never actually met him or anything, but im affaird to accept if he ever asks me out since i have friends who were friends with who he went out with, plus i also know her as well. then today my other friend who was over my house saturday night says she was confused and i asked why and she said bc she "bc i have a bf and i also like danny a lil" and i said "o0o the one from other night on-line?" and she said "yeah" and i just went "o0o" and she asked "y?" and i just said "j/w" and now i dk what to do, bc i dont want to hurt either of them if he ever asks me, which i know he would never do ask me but u never know.
-o n my friend moved so she doesnt go to our school anymore, though i am...i also dk about his ex who im some what friends with who does go to our school..thx
~i know its long n a lil confusing sry
(btw he is in 11th (which i meantioned) and me n the 2 girls r in 9th)
Well you should probably jus talk to him as friends for right now.. cause it dont really sound like you know him too well.. so there might be a chance that you might not really like his personality or something.. but like just try to be friends before thinkin bout a girlfriend and boyfriend relationship with you..hope i helped..
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